As we usually get something for the sake of saying we got something that she really didn't need, try a different route. Go to a nearby NICE spa and get her a gift certificate...maybe even book the day sometime shortly after Xmas as you'll never get in before Xmas now ...and get her a spoil herself package...maybe a nice hot rock massage and pedicure (especially if she spends lots of time on her feet) or something similar...that always works great and will cost you a couple hundred. Make sure the appt date she has no other stuff to do and if she does clear her calendar so no work, kid or social issues...later afternoon appts are great as then you can take her out for dinner so she has been totally spoiled for the day and it was all about her..if she has a close friend that has a spouse in same position, get him on board and send them both as most places will let them have a glass of wine when getting catered to... might even work out ok for you later on..lol