Felinecougar I do agree with many things your saying. But sometimes when the person has been SO hurtful and said VERY hateful things (things I couldn't even imagine) like taking your deepest darkest secrets and throwing them in your face can be totally unforgivable. What brought me and my guy together was the most amazing friendship ever! I told him everything and he never judged me or expected anything more then just friendship from me. I only ever looked at him as a friend, never sexually attracted to him or anything, just a nice guy! We were friends for years and I realised one day I had actually completly fallen for him. We started dating and I really believed he was my soulmate and who I was supposed to be with the rest of my life. I couldn't even look at another guy because he was the most perfect thing on earth to me.
Then....he did a total 180 and he turned into something that would only ever be in your worst nightmare. I never dreamed that the guy I thought would never hurt me, would be the guy that did the most damage anyone has ever done to me and feel absolutly no guilt for it. He litrally beat my self esteem into the ground, spread rumors about me, put me down about my looks, body job and made me feel like the biggest failure in every part of my life, accused me of cheating etc... I can honestly say I never could understand what I ever did wrong to deserve that.....and yes, he had found another woman. LOL.
It's really crazy when you think you know someone; but you really don't know them at all.
This is why I will never marry or let someone close to me ever again. He definitely caused MAJOR walls to go up in my life.
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