About 4 years ago, I had my picture up on a bunch of sites and if anything, girls love it - shows that you're available, willing and able. With the guys - it's a different story ... if anything it's more of a "not only is he a loser and can't get a girlfriend in real life, now he's resorted to cybering with ugly fat behotches online".
My line of work is extremely male-dominated, plus I go to really ghetto gyms and have a tight schedule. I was getting out to a bunch salsa parties this summer, went on a few dates and after all this - the time and money invested do not yield the desired returnsSo, after my coursework is over, next summer it's gonna be all online dating, and if just one guy has issues with this he'll be doing military chin-ups over a scalding bonfire.
When it gives you options for what kind of dating you are on there for... long term, dating, hang out, friends, intimate encounter... put either hang out or dating... never put intimate encounter. Your profile will start to get filtered out of people's searches.
havent been on there in a few years,
but when I was, that site was killer.
chicks messaging me, not just me trying
to scope them out, and it was no cost.
totally agree with cheesesteak, just
play it cool like you're interested in
dating for socializing and you'll get laid
without having to invest in more than
one night out. Intimate encounters is
a mostly dead end.
POF should be called POFSTD's. I did a search on it, and I found a girl who gave my best friend ghonorea. A girl that gave a guy I know from the bar chlamydia, and a girl who was looking for a long term relationship, and in her profile she said she wanted an honest guy becuase shes an honest girl and doesnt cheat. Yeah right, she got picked up by the guys who lived across the hall from me in college and they ran a train on her. This was while she was in a relationship I might add. I wouldnt bother looking for anything serious on that site.
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