Never say never.
Never say never.
Yup. Divorced after 1 year. Together 8 years total. He cheated. Our relationship definitely had some major flaws but that was a deal breaker. After i did struggle with the feeling that i failed at something, even though in other ways i felt relieved it was finally over (yeah, it's all messed).
Whether or not i would get married a second time is..... questionable. LOL
Single for life here !
Everyone....It makes me sad to hear so many of you down on marriage. I wouldn't take back ANY of my 25 yrs because they were bad. they weren't, not at all. It's work I admit...I had a lot of tears over the years.....most times I gave 90 % when it should be 50/50...but if you have had so much together and received and gave so much happiness from the other person most of the time then it's do able. Selfish people, close minded people, can't work out relationships, maybe I'm naive, I put up with some verbal abuse..but think it through... Go to a marriage councilor, re find what brought you together at the beginning.
MP asked me to do a profile on here...it breaks my heart to write it, I can't.....because my x was my everything and on stage he supported me. I competed last year in figure with out him. Even though I had Tav and Ashley with me..i felt like my right arm was cut off. I was missing what I had beside me all those years.
If anyone is here...thinking of cheating and possible separation. Please email me..
FC Believes Everybody Wants To Be A Bodybuilder, But Ain't Nobody Wanna Lift No Heavy Ass Weight!
From The Heavy Press March 2006, The Newsletter of the Ontario Physique Association, front page "Also, Di... ..... stood out as one of the best Masters competitors we have seen at this event in years." Dats me!
Hell, I haven't even been MARRIED yet. I live with my lady...and I'm doing my best to save for a ring. Stupid Kris Humphries really raised the bar on that so, it might take a while
Felinecougar...my heart goes out to ya, sweetness.
I am sorry as this may seem dark and selfish but if you are alone and fall backwards you know what to expect whereas if you are in a relationship and rely on someone to be there when you fall and they are not there you are in for a rude awakening. Single for life = nobody to count on but yourself. Feline what you are offering is great , mad props to you , obviously you have a big heart !!!
Felinecougar I do agree with many things your saying. But sometimes when the person has been SO hurtful and said VERY hateful things (things I couldn't even imagine) like taking your deepest darkest secrets and throwing them in your face can be totally unforgivable. What brought me and my guy together was the most amazing friendship ever! I told him everything and he never judged me or expected anything more then just friendship from me. I only ever looked at him as a friend, never sexually attracted to him or anything, just a nice guy! We were friends for years and I realised one day I had actually completly fallen for him. We started dating and I really believed he was my soulmate and who I was supposed to be with the rest of my life. I couldn't even look at another guy because he was the most perfect thing on earth to me.
Then....he did a total 180 and he turned into something that would only ever be in your worst nightmare. I never dreamed that the guy I thought would never hurt me, would be the guy that did the most damage anyone has ever done to me and feel absolutly no guilt for it. He litrally beat my self esteem into the ground, spread rumors about me, put me down about my looks, body job and made me feel like the biggest failure in every part of my life, accused me of cheating etc... I can honestly say I never could understand what I ever did wrong to deserve that.....and yes, he had found another woman. LOL.
It's really crazy when you think you know someone; but you really don't know them at all.
This is why I will never marry or let someone close to me ever again. He definitely caused MAJOR walls to go up in my life.
Last edited by MizzFitt; 31-05-2011 at 02:05 PM.
The guy must have had some deep seated issues...try to forget about psycho insignificant others.The problems were theirs,right?Originally Posted by MizzFitt
Yeah, sad thing is the guy has NO guilt or urge to ever apologise (I would never expect that in 1000 years). He's just happy in his new relationship and thinks he did everything right and nothing wrong. Kinda crazy someone can sleep at night knowing they we a horrible person to someone that only ever wanted the best for them. Sad thing is others think he is a nice person and can't imagine him ever being mean. Perfect example of a "house angel; street devil or wolf in sheeps clothing"
Def has some deep issues of some sort...
That's the issue...he probably doesn't think he's a horrible person. People can admit (even if it's just to themselves) that they've made a mistake or that they were an idiot on occasion but, NObody thinks they're a horrible person...even if the rest of the world does.
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