Relationship Dilemma

[Leviathan]

I recently met this attractive, funny, and intelligent girl and have been hanging out quite a bit. The thing is she came out of a long relationship a couple of months ago and she made it clear that she wanted to be single for a while. I know I can **** her if I want to, and believe me, I do, but I have already started to develop feelings for her and am not sure if I could handle just being a **** buddy if I know she is sleeping with other guys. What do you guys recommend? **** her and hope things work out? Or ignore her and continue to **** the girls I don't care about?

[Danger]

Why not **** her and the other girls? If you like her sleep with her asap, cuz if you dont you know someone else will, nothing builds intimacy with a girl quite like sex and if she see you choosing not to have sex with her your gonna end up in the friend zone with fewer options than you have now.

[daande]

Ya defiantly **** her. You dont wanna get in the friend zone like Danger said...Just pump her and get her to have feelings for you. Dont cut off other girls until you know its forsure.

[Leviathan]

Why not **** her and the other girls? If you like her sleep with her asap, cuz if you dont you know someone else will, nothing builds intimacy with a girl quite like sex and if she see you choosing not to have sex with her your gonna end up in the friend zone with fewer options than you have now.

Yeah I suppose I might as well **** her, it's just rare for me to actually like a girl rather than just viewing her as a sexual object. I am just worried that if I start to **** her we will develop a quasi-relationship without the commitment, since she has made it clear she wants to play the field for awhile. Normally sex with no strings attached is my ideal scenario, but I actually like this girl.

[marino]

you must cross both gaps, sleep with her and hang out with her eg. movies, go for coffee/drinks then if she is the one you will now have been on both sides of the fence, intimate and friend the transition to gf is complete before you know it

[Durk]

Pump her atleat 4 times then tell her you have feelings. Getting emotional with a girl before you put your dink in her is a huge mistake.

[Pec]

Gotta agree with Durk on this one, if you bust out any talk of feelings first, you are ****ed.

[Leviathan]

Pump her atleat 4 times then tell her you have feelings. Getting emotional with a girl before you put your dink in her is a huge mistake.

Alright, this makes sense. She doesn't know I have any feelings for her, in fact she is confused about why I haven't railed her yet. We are getting together this weekend so I guess I will **** the shit out of her and take it from there, who knows, as I spend more time with her the more I might start to dislike her (often happens).

I'll let you guys know how it goes.

[Danger]

so I guess I will **** the shit out of her and take it from there.

What kinda thing is that to say, theres no guessing of course your gonna pound the shit outta her! GLHF!

[Leviathan]

you must cross both gaps, sleep with her and hang out with her eg. movies, go for coffee/drinks then if she is the one you will now have been on both sides of the fence, intimate and friend the transition to gf is complete before you know it

Well, just to update this thread, this is essentially what happened. Everything has been going really well, we are both a little busy right now so we don't get to see each other often but we always have a great time when we do. If anyone saw my viagra thread, she is my victim if I get a hold of some haha. I am surprised that we transitioned into a relationship as quickly as we did but we both realized that is what we wanted.

[daande]

So you are now dating her?

[Leviathan]

So you are now dating her?

Yeah, been going well so far. We are both really busy right now so don't see each other much but that is probably a good thing. Keeps things exciting and ensures I won't get bored.