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LonelyBedouin
31-08-2009, 06:18 PM
Well after seeing that "Just Friends" thread I thought Id post up my situation and see if I can get some outside advice cause the whole thing just seems odd and all of my buddies think the same.

Well Ive known this girl for about 3-4 years now but only really started to hang out for the past year. We've gone on little "dates" (dont know if you can call them that but just like hanging out at her place watching movies or taking her dog to the park or out for a beer or ice cream) but nothing really has ever gone anywhere. Now you might be thinking whats the problem you pussy make a move. I would be she has a boyfriend. Although she never mentions him when were together, he goes to school I dont know where and never visits her (maybe once in a blue moon for a friends birthday). She has invited me to take a trip to LA with her if she does end up going.

What the **** do I do? Ive tried cutting her off, and she will send me a text message saying "Hey I miss you lets hang out" and she always tells me she loves me (I have no idea if shes for real or what)...

icey_boi
31-08-2009, 06:22 PM
buddy, im not expert but it sounds like your good to go to me if u did want to make a move. i dont know any girl who goes out with a guy on several "dates" and then invites ya to go on a trip to another country and tells you she loves you to boot if she isnt interested in ya...

turboturist
31-08-2009, 06:25 PM
Well after seeing that "Just Friends" thread I thought Id post up my situation and see if I can get some outside advice cause the whole thing just seems odd and all of my buddies think the same.

Well Ive known this girl for about 3-4 years now but only really started to hang out for the past year. We've gone on little "dates" (dont know if you can call them that but just like hanging out at her place watching movies or taking her dog to the park or out for a beer or ice cream) but nothing really has ever gone anywhere. Now you might be thinking whats the problem you pussy make a move. I would be she has a boyfriend. Although she never mentions him when were together, he goes to school I dont know where and never visits her (maybe once in a blue moon for a friends birthday). She has invited me to take a trip to LA with her if she does end up going.

What the **** do I do? Ive tried cutting her off, and she will send me a text message saying "Hey I miss you lets hang out" and she always tells me she loves me (I have no idea if shes for real or what)...

I had a friend like that once, after about a year we ended up living together just as room mates for about 9 months. Gave me advice on how to get other chicks and what to do when I was caught "dating" more than one at a time. Cool chick.






We celebrated out 10 year anniversary this summer.

#8
31-08-2009, 06:28 PM
shes yours dude. make a move.

Born2Juice4Ever
31-08-2009, 06:30 PM
the writing is on the wall---time to take it to the next step.

But consider this:

IT may ruin the friendship/relationship you both share.
So you may want to explore this carefully and make absolutely sure that it is not your mind telling stuff, that may not be.

Explore with her slowly...stop putting the pussy on this pedestal, and calling it: PUSSALIA :D :D :D


Do I make any sense?


B2J

Mr Ontario
31-08-2009, 06:30 PM
Put it in her ass ;)

Born2Juice4Ever
31-08-2009, 06:32 PM
Put it in her ass ;)



OR you can do this...and see what she does next :beer:fb

waderow
31-08-2009, 09:20 PM
I think she is g2g, but myself, avoid being with a girl if shes attached. Murders happen that way, and I learned my lesson once the hard way when i was 22 bangin a 33yo married chick. not cool.

now, at this stage in my life I would talk to her about it I think

LonelyBedouin
31-08-2009, 09:30 PM
the writing is on the wall---time to take it to the next step.

But consider this:

IT may ruin the friendship/relationship you both share.
So you may want to explore this carefully and make absolutely sure that it is not your mind telling stuff, that may not be.

Explore with her slowly...stop putting the pussy on this pedestal, and calling it: PUSSALIA :D :D :D


Do I make any sense?


B2J

See it could be me just seeing thing I want to see. But then again Im not with her all the time so who knows what she and him do, you know? They could be talking over the phone for hours. But she has told me that hes ready to start looking for a house and settling down while she said she didnt want any part of that lifestyle...


I think she is g2g, but myself, avoid being with a girl if shes attached. Murders happen that way, and I learned my lesson once the hard way when i was 22 bangin a 33yo married chick. not cool.

now, at this stage in my life I would talk to her about it I think

Yea I just dont know how to bring up the subject without sounding like a idiot...

LonelyBedouin
31-08-2009, 09:31 PM
Put it in her ass ;)

If I could I would, man her ass is sooooo fine. Ill see if I can snap a picture of it next time Im with her lol

The Grim Repper
31-08-2009, 09:32 PM
You are not "just friends". You are not having sex but you are sharing much more with her than her boyfriend is. First off, if she loved her man, she wouldn't be hanging out with you all the time for beer and wanting to go to LA, unless you were in a group. If you're often alone with her, it will succumb to more as what you are feeling now. Thus the theory of man and women can not be just friends, holds true.

The only way you'll resolve this is to either walk away so the confusion inside you passes, or to make a move. If she accepts your advances, you must not let her make you the "other man". It'll mess you up even more if you have feelings. If she is inviting to your advances, speak to her about her current beau. If she doesn't want to end it, then you must end it with her. If she ends it, then she's yours without a bunch of drama and heartache involved.

Dr. TGR

ubcpower
31-08-2009, 09:59 PM
just do it

LIVEHARD
31-08-2009, 10:52 PM
Well after seeing that "Just Friends" thread I thought Id post up my situation and see if I can get some outside advice cause the whole thing just seems odd and all of my buddies think the same.

Well Ive known this girl for about 3-4 years now but only really started to hang out for the past year. We've gone on little "dates" (dont know if you can call them that but just like hanging out at her place watching movies or taking her dog to the park or out for a beer or ice cream) but nothing really has ever gone anywhere. Now you might be thinking whats the problem you pussy make a move. I would be she has a boyfriend. Although she never mentions him when were together, he goes to school I dont know where and never visits her (maybe once in a blue moon for a friends birthday). She has invited me to take a trip to LA with her if she does end up going.

What the **** do I do? Ive tried cutting her off, and she will send me a text message saying "Hey I miss you lets hang out" and she always tells me she loves me (I have no idea if shes for real or what)...

How old are you ?/ Are you married is she ?/ go to LA you Tard

Is she sweet pretty whould you enjoy a sexual incounter with her ??

Be nice it sound like she is sincere sometime the best F'ks of you life come from your best friend just be honest and mature

I she wants you it will be there in LA

Skyblob
31-08-2009, 11:06 PM
How old are you ?/ Are you married is she ?/ go to LA you Tard

Is she sweet pretty whould you enjoy a sexual incounter with her ??

Be nice it sound like she is sincere sometime the best F'ks of you life come from your best friend just be honest and mature

I she wants you it will be there in LA

I x2 this ! :)

Skyblob
31-08-2009, 11:08 PM
Ill see if I can snap a picture of it next time Im with her lol

You better do :pstfu haha :p

LonelyBedouin
01-09-2009, 09:03 AM
How old are you ?/ Are you married is she ?/ go to LA you Tard

Is she sweet pretty whould you enjoy a sexual incounter with her ??

Be nice it sound like she is sincere sometime the best F'ks of you life come from your best friend just be honest and mature

I she wants you it will be there in LA

We're both 23, Im not married and I would go to LA in a minute but shes still undecided (she had to take time off work, and does not know if she can afford it).

O god yes lol

Lets just hope we end up going to LA lol

countrychic
01-09-2009, 09:09 AM
First of all, how would you feel if this was your girlfriend and another dude was doing this to you. She also needs to make a decision....she sounds a bit confused..........

I would talk to her about how much time the two of you are spending together, and how she is attached and it is starting to make you feel uncomfortable. Just be honest!

Just a chiks 2cents :)

daande
01-09-2009, 04:42 PM
She seems good to go.. Pull your shit out and she will know what to do (like all girls).

Dryvrgrl
01-09-2009, 05:03 PM
I second country chick's post..
just ask her straight up...

list of possible questions...
"are you and your BF still together?"
"sometimes I get the impression we are more than friends? anything to that?"
"can I put it in your ass and take a picture for the dirty perverts on the internet who do nothing all day but lift heavy weights and troll around on the internet?"

Skyblob
01-09-2009, 05:32 PM
I second country chick's post..
just ask her straight up...

list of possible questions...

"can I put it in your ass and take a picture for the dirty perverts on the internet who do nothing all day but lift heavy weights and troll around on the internet?"

Lol!! :beer

daande
01-09-2009, 08:12 PM
I second country chick's post..
just ask her straight up...

"can I put it in your ass and take a picture for the dirty perverts on the internet who do nothing all day but lift heavy weights and troll around on the internet?"

I think you shouldnt ask a girl like this. She obviously doesnt know what she wants and needs to be told what she wants. You need to pull your dick out next time your watching a movie and she will realize that she wants your dick down her throat then possibly in her ass abit later. You can then take out your cellphone and take a video or a few pictures of you nailing her dirty ass from behind! Then you can post them in this thread with a picture of her face that you got off her facebook page so we can see what the dirty girl really looks like :)

waderow
01-09-2009, 09:41 PM
I think you shouldnt ask a girl like this. She obviously doesnt know what she wants and needs to be told what she wants. You need to pull your dick out next time your watching a movie and she will realize that she wants your dick down her throat then possibly in her ass abit later. You can then take out your cellphone and take a video or a few pictures of you nailing her dirty ass from behind! Then you can post them in this thread with a picture of her face that you got off her facebook page so we can see what the dirty girl really looks like :)


lol

perfect!