I'd like some advice.

[Rhinobolt10]

how do u not make enough money to pay them???? u collect gst on everything u sell. smart people set aside their gst in a separate account so its always there when its time to pay it.

but thats another story. as for rhino

i would cut your losses after she pays u back. but for right now severe her from the business and the business bank account. and keep all communication to a minimum. she isnt good for you. using her age as excuse isnt good man. if at 21 she has no morals, then she will never learn them. u can look at every excuse in the books and u know what to do deep down. its hard yes, but u sound like a smart man, cut your losses and move on.

who knows maybe u will cross paths again down the road and maybe she will change, but for now, i would get out

I hear ya brother, but cutting out now I lose the money I should have, and all my profit from the biz we're setting up for the summer... which is quite a bit...

Come September it's a good time to rethink things I think.

It's a tough one for sure.

But thanks for taking the time to reply as I really appreciate hearing a businessmans perspective.

[Big D]

i've read your post and all the replies.

your telling us your going to try and work this out with her. ?

you should step back and read your first post, you make it very hard for anyone to like this girl.

she stole your money and broke your heart, and to be honest you seem more concerned about your money,

you should really consider moving on,

wait to get your money back but still move on man. much more ladies out there that are successful, educated etc.... its always nice to have a best friend, not an immature girl that pulls a fit when she don't get her way, know what I mean?

[Rhinobolt10]

I hear ya man.

The deal right now is that we aren't exactly together, but we aren't see anyone else. Which I'm fine with. And, if come September she hasn't made this up to me, financially and emotionally and restored my trust... I'm gone.

I think in other circumstances, like we weren't running this biz together, and I could easily find another job I might do things differently.

6 months, if she can change great, either way I have to be around for work. After that, all bets are off.

Thanks again for replying.

[bobbyorr]

i have seen some things because I was right there with rhino... dont get me worng... he is no angel either... but get rid of the car, you dont need a sports car when you run a *** business

[j-dub]

i hate getting kicked in the nuts! are you masochistic in nature j/k

trust is gone and i hate to tell you this, 21 is adult and if she is not responsible now, it will only get worse. bail bail bail. gtfo and save your giggleberries.

[gregdoucette]

21 my goodness thats all I needed to hear. Mine was 26 and thats was way too young. move on and cut ur loses. I been there sucks ass.

[benP]

It seems like you should probably try and move on but there's a whole bunch of unresolved shit that's keeping you guys together (the money, and all the time that you've invested into the relationship and eachother.) I would try and take a step back and re examine everything and figure out if you want to work it out because it's more convenient for you, or just because you've been together for so long (?) and it's become routine. but if not i would get my money back and cut it off.

[HULK]

Right now you are reacting emotionally (with your heart) and that's OK as long as you recognize there's a problem.

Should the problem continues (after counselling…ect) , then it's time to react intelligently (using your head). Understand that certain group of individuals are unable to change - ie. bi-polar, borderline.

I commend you on your loyalty but don’t make the common mistake of waiting forever for something that’s not meant to be. I wish you good luck Bro.

[R-Money]

tldr

[andrewT]

i've read your post and all the replies.

your telling us your going to try and work this out with her. ?

you should step back and read your first post, you make it very hard for anyone to like this girl.

she stole your money and broke your heart, and to be honest you seem more concerned about your money,

you should really consider moving on,

wait to get your money back but still move on man. much more ladies out there that are successful, educated etc.... its always nice to have a best friend, not an immature girl that pulls a fit when she don't get her way, know what I mean?

This guy put it perfectly. IF I was you I would do my best to get out fast. Participating in the woes of the fairer sex can be quite a rollercoaster!

Good luck and hope it all works out