what makes you think i have ocd?
what makes you think i have ocd?
You seem very obsessive about quirks in other peoples relationships like Jersey messing around with a stripper, or another guy getting head from a stripper in front of his girlfriend, and probably a bunch of other examples that I am much to lazy to think up.
At first I thought this was just because you had a vagina. What I really think is that you probably put your relationship misdeads on a great big pedastil of guilt. The self destructive nature of having this negative attitude towards yourself is bad enough, but it likely effected this relationship, and could hurt future relationships.
I bet subconsciously at times you felt so guilty that you let her trample your boundries, and acted in ways that you normally wouldnt with any regular girlfriend just because you felt like you owed her something. I dont think she will respect you or forgive you until you learn to respect and forgive yourself.
The way you remind other people of how they ****ed up constantly, do you think you might remind her in a similar way? Possibly without even realizing it? That would keep the vicious cycle going for sure.
Originally Posted by Durk
i've heard hookers and blow helps
seriously. without trust it ain't worth a pinch.
Ya Me and Avbril broke up was still in love absolutely zero problems. 1 person goes overseas and changes sucks ass. Other then going out and banging hotties which clearly is the best advice I recomend u bang 2 hotties at the same time who are bisexual. Now other then that u can go see a councellor. But take if from me bang the hotties.
you just have to find someone to fill that void of a girlfriend... for the time being until you get over it.
going through a pretty rough break up myself.. and really thats the only way im getting through it.
I feel for ya tho bro...
"banging hotties" couldnt hurt ethier lol
Just make sure that if you do "take a break" from each other and eventually get back a week, a month, a year later; that anything you did during that "break" period is not brought up. What business is it of hers/yours if she/you slept with a handful of men/women? During that "break" she/you are a free person and are able to do whatever it is you want to without any guilt feelings.
Yes, you may wonder what she did during the break, but she is probably wondering the same thing about you. You have to be able to put it all behind you and move on....if you want to be with this person.
If not, then say your goodbye's and move on. Breaking up sucks, having past memories sucks as well...but when one door closes others will open.
rebound girl? lol I dunno I think that just makes it more messy
^^ ya the rebound girls face should get super messy for sure
I am having paralyzing regret over this breakup lately... #8 can you hook me up with that peeler to help soothe my sorrows?
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