Would you consider this cheating?

[natenator]

Possessive or obsessive? I bet you get jealous if anyone looks her way...

[CanadianIron]

Honestly, I've been with my girl for so long that I forget how hot she is, I always feel complimented when guys check her out. I'd concider her a trophy wife, I dont chain her down at all. Guys can look, they just can't touch or make derogitory remarks.

[NYL12]

I have been with my current gf for 2 years. We've had some ups and downs, but for the past couple of months everything seems to be going great.

Last night, she was over at my place, and when she left, she forgot to log out of her email. And yeah I snooped. Probably shouldn't have, but I did it.

Back in October she sent some random guys on craigslist from the "men seeking women" section her photo and a hey i'm so and so. There were no more sent messages other than 2 or 3 to one guy, and the last one was "Sorry but i think you wanted something that i didn't."

This sort of bugs me, but I know we were a bit rocky, but I was working on relationship, and here she was looking for other options.

What would you do? Should I tell her what I did and what I found and how it upsets me? Or just drop it?

I say don't tell her, it will only blow up on you. But question, how would you feel if you happen to see her talking to a buch of guys at a bar or club, but saw that nothing happend. Would you still be worried? Sounds like that is what happed here but on the computer. The computer is a great place to reach out to people with out really reaching out. They dont know you and many times you can be someone a little different than you rally are.

I would not worry to much about it unless you see other signs, but do not tell her, because no matter how wrong they may be it will all be your fault for spying.

[Shaun]

Can her ass... she sounds like a low class hoe... I wouldnt date a girl that ever did anything like that.. **** her... guys that want relationships are rare... shes lucky to even have a guy if shes the type to use craigslist to find a man.... shes fishing for garbage when she has you... thats the hottest burn you could ever get.

x2

I am not even going to read the rest of the thread after this. I have dealt with cheaters. EVERY one i have had there has been a warning sign like this. EVERY one that hadnt it was always smooth sailing.

There is no degree of scandalous when it comes to woman. They either are, or they arn't. Yours is.

Dip penis in sand. Insert in vag. When she cries about it tell her you know about the craiglist and you were just letting her know what it feels like to be dissrespected.

[L3]

Dip penis in sand. Insert in vag.

Screaming Seagull..classic

[HULK]

First, I wouldn’t ignore it; I would confront her and raise some very serious questions. Most important thing in a good relationship is trust and communication. I wish you good luck.

[warlock]

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[Maria]

Most people would close their email when they are done if it's private. Sounds like she left hers open for a reason.

[BAM]

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[MikeyFXD35]

Sound like an emotional affair.

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationshi...mentid=8319153