First dates SUCK...

[LonelyBedouin]

Had a semi-blind date tonight. Friend of a friend Ive talked to her on facebook or texts. But never met her. We met up for a drink. And **** it was like pulling nails to get her to talk. I assume shes just shy in person and hopefully she will loosen up. But in general first dates absolutely suck...

[tiramisu]

That's why I always skip straight to the second date.

[Memo]

can you touch poonany on second date?

[LonelyBedouin]

That's why I always skip straight to the second date.

Ahaha let me in on your secret how to get past that first date. I usually dont go for drinks, and I dont think I will be doing that again.;..

[#8]

you both just need some booze.

[monkey]

Booze has saved several first dates of mine...

[LonelyBedouin]

you both just need some booze.

We went out for drinks lol I was driving but she had a couple.... Unless shes some freak heavyweight drinker lol

[#8]

We went out for drinks lol I was driving but she had a couple.... Unless shes some freak heavyweight drinker lol

i hear ya. you just didnt have enough drinks then.

[L3]

2nd date have her to your place and cook her dinner, then feed her a bottle of wine...works every time

[natenator]

I've had people tell me when I've done the first date thing that I am very easy to talk to and hang with so if I do encounter someone on a first date that I can't get to talk then I cut my losses and don't go out again or I'll be very honest with them.

I do need someone that I can carry on a conversation with. She need not be a rhodes scholar but some ability to handle some conversational topics other than the hot list of TMZ or Entertainment tonight is required.