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    i have been seeing this girl for about 6 months, shes real sweet kinda, she has met my whole family which is a huge step, and i work with her.. even worse. i have tried to train her, i tell her "no you shouldn't say things like that" prime example she is in university, wants to go to england for 6 months for some exchange shit in a year. im supportive i ask, what will happen to us, i don't do breaks its just stupid. so is long distance ok? (mind you she was the one who kept suggesting we get kinda serious) she goes well you know if we are still together i guess we would see where were at if we take a break or do long distance (i have explained break to me means BREAK-UP) so that just changed how im going to take this relationship for the next year.. and she is that girl who when you go out to the bar with your buddies and her friends all that you will all be sitting around talking, my girl friend is off meeting new people i have seen her buy sooo many guys drinks at the bar and get them bought for her, she knows this bothers me but thinks its more then ok.. shes always saying things that are totally just stupid the other night she saw her ex at the gym and told me "oh he knows he messed up and feels real sorry about what he did" and today was just awful i wont get into what happened when we were in bed... i dont know if u guys wana hear that..

    pretty much im debating on leaving her.. think she can be fixed lol

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    low quality chicks like that are no potential for long term. She might change in the future but right now.. she will make you miserable.

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    it seems like she is giving me more grief then its worth im hardly ever happy anymore and i just started AAS on wendsday too. not sure if ill be able to contain myself on cycle

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    Aw that's sad, it sounds like you really like her. She obviously likes the male attention if she's out at the bar buying guys drinks and letting guys buy her drinks. That's disrespectful to you. If she's telling you about her ex wanting her back, she's likely really insecure and feels the need to make it obvious to you that she is desirable. She's trying to make you jealous, she's playing games. In the meantime, she's making you look like a chump for sticking around. She's testing you to see how far she can push.

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    She's pulling you into her dysfunctional games Bro. Call her on it and if she does not agree to some compromises (on both of your parts) and make an effort to change, then you need to re-evaluate the relationship. It will just get more dramatic and unhealthy if you leave it as is.
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    how old are you OP?

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    22 this would be my second serious relationship first one was 4 years she left me 1.5 years ago when i lost my job as a tool and die maker and cheated on me with some fat slob.... she is totally insecure ill give you that and i tell her everyday how good she looks etc

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    imo girl has low self esteem if she needs to have guys buy her drinks when she has a BF, even lower if shes buying other guys drinks. i would begin to start emotionally unattaching yourself now, before the AAS affects your alpha male "no shes mine you cant have her"... keep her aroudn tho, you're gonna be one horny mother****er very soon, and trust me blowing a load in a tissue 5 times a day gets old real fast

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    turf her

    u want serious, she wants cockS <---plural

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    keep her aroudn tho, you're gonna be one horny mother****er very soon, and trust me blowing a load in a tissue 5 times a day gets old real fast

    smart advice.. since i started juicing i NEED to **** my gf twice a day at least.


 
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