'I'd rather have a bottle in front of me, than a frontal lobotomy'
~ Tom Waits

So yah, few brews involved.

I'm not a professional by any means, but I can tell when there's something wrong, like really wrong.

1. Callous unconcern for the feelings of others and lack of the capacity for empathy.
2. Gross and persistent attitude of irresponsibility and disregard for social norms, rules, and obligations.
3. Incapacity to maintain enduring relationships.
4. Very low tolerance to frustration and a low threshold for discharge of aggression, including violence.
5. Incapacity to experience guilt and to profit from experience, particularly punishment.
6. Marked proneness to blame others or to offer plausible rationalizations for the behavior bringing the subject into conflict.
7. Persistent irritability.

^^^ That about sums it up perfectly. I experienced all those things a million times. Just 100% remorselessness.
Absolutely oblivious to relationship/friendship etiquette. I'm completely shattered and broken down emotionally.

12 yr marriage ended, and she came into my life just at the right time. I feel like Paul McCartney w/ out money, or musical talent. I have to make light of the situation. I'm done and through trying to rationalize her behavior, I just can't. I tried my hardest to get her to go to therapy w/ me. I tried my hardest to get her to take anti-depressants she was prescribed. I tried to get her to go to therapy for herself, not us. Nothing. That stuff doesn't work you know. :\

It was 8 wasted months. She could be anything, to anyone, at anytime. I gave up a healthy sleep schedule just to spend time w/ her. There were no compromises on her end. It was always gonna be next week. After 8 months talk gets pretty cheap.

The worst of it, I gave up some really fine tail cuz I thought she loved me. Wasted 8 months of my time. A tiny bit of me is bitter, most of me is crushed tho. I've been congratulated by so many ppl, but that gives me little to no comfort.

8 months is long time to **** w/ someone.