Quote Originally Posted by MMASTAR View Post
If a relationship is going to be that much work is it really worth it?? he says he hasnt been feeling it for 2 years, so lets be real and call this a 4 year relationship with 2 years of being there because its comfortable, love should be easy, personalitys should work together, i dont think any couple should have to work overly hard to be in love, its just not worth it IMHO. Love should come naturally
Ask Faller. Dude has been married for EONS and has had issues during that time and am sure there were periods that weren't all that rosey.

If you want to look at something not being worth it when the going gets tough then you will be single for the rest of your life. You want an easy life it seems. Nothing worth having comes without some kind of fight.

Relationships go through periods of being in love. You cant be running hot all the time. It's just not possible. But being in love and loving someone are very different things.