Quote Originally Posted by waderow View Post
you have it all wrong. you should not be sending ANY messages. The girls should be the ones contacting you. If they are not:

1. get in better shape
2. take better thoughtful pictures that show your face, body, and lifestyle
3. write a better profile


Rarely send a first letter. There is a ton of girls on there for an ego boost only. They read, get flattered, then delete to have a little power trip over a man. Plus, some of those girls get hundreds of letters. So don't waste your time.
If a girl sends you a letter, that means she is serious
The same can be applied to a bar or anything out and about really. A woman who approaches you is automatically interested in wanting to know you a bit better. You approaching them generally doesn't workout so hot a lot of the times because they are on guard.