Dude if your at a club by yourself, just dont tell anyone that and they will never know. If they ask just say your friends are off dancing(or whatever) and that you'll catch up with them later or something. Just dont do that creepy thing where guys walk around checking out girls, just walk upto the first hottie you see and start yapping lol. Then people might assume you came in with her or something lol.
I honestly really don't put much effort into talking to people because I deep down don't care. I don't want a girlfriend because I have commitment issues. I can't even stand to be someone's friend, let alone carry on any kind of relationship.
I'm just looking to get laid every few months. I've always found it felt best when abstaining for an extended period of time and then getting some. It's just that I don't want fatties anymore.
As for walking up to the first hottie I see. I don't have the balls for that. I know I'd get shot down right away. My face is busted and that's what women look at first.
Weird, id much rather be shot down by the hottest girl in the bar then even talk to some ugly/fat chick.
Sounds like your biggest problem is your attitude, I mean if you dont even belive in your self no one else is really gonna buy it.
Makes perfect sense. Self esteem has always been an issue and probably always will.
Maybe when I get my body the way I want that self esteem will come.
you gotta work on the inside 1st bro....outside will help for sure but self esteem comes from acceptance of yourself from within.....or some shit like thatOriginally Posted by cheesesteak
After this weekend's fiasco I won't be going to any bars/clubs anymore. Too old for all that drama.
The bar thing is for the younger guys. I would recommend that you take a course at a local college. Take something that you would enjoy but the chicks like too. So you wouldn't go to a welding class but you would go to a "mixology"/bartending class. How about a photography course? You could also try a cooking class - you know ... you want to get into shape and start learning how to cook better - Superstore has these workshops all the time.
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OBSESSED is just a word the LAZY use to describe the DEDICATED.
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Its called hard training. I mean f*cking hard training. Something people don't do a lot of these days.
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Good luck is the result of hard work and preparation.
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Every time you stay out late...every time you sleep in ....every time you miss a workout...every time you don't give 100%...you make it that much easier for me to beat you.
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If I took something in college it would be literature or a writing course. I know how to cook and I have no interest in bartending. Discussing literature and creative writing is more my cup of tea and where I will actually do good.
I wasn't even drinking at the bar, but the people I was with made it a terrible night. Got banned for life from a place, almost got arrested but luckily the guy in Domino's said I was in the store the entire fight. It's just that I know the wrong people. I grew up in a poverty area, and only know losers and ****ups in this city. It's either dump everyone, or move away. Dump everyone seems the logical choice right now.
For the next few years I'm gonna focus on being single and only do things to further myself. After the last run in with a woman I had, and my previous track record, the girl is gonna have to be really ****ing special to attract my interest.
The world is half women, and chances are that you'll walk by or come incontact with dozens of attractive women per day, but let them pass you by every time...my advice...get good at talking with women and literally approach every single one you're attracted to!
You may not be good now, but there's all kinds of things you can do to get good at it even trial and error. You'll learn very fast what works and what doesn't but you'll never get good at talking with random women until you practice it...it's a hands on type of thing!
So, in my opinion, there's no one better place to meet women because they're everywhere men are, guys just don't view certain situations as a pick-up stops when really they are they best places because they won't be on the fence about I wonder what stupid line some dude is going to come up with next and automatically add you to the pool of losers that she's turned done before you even open your mouth! That could also work to your advantage as well though, if you're confident and have your game together, that situation could be very refreshing to her!
Try a church.
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