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Ok so I asked out this chick. It was kind of a spur of the moment thing and it caught her off guard. But she said yes. But I ****ed myself cause I haven't thought of where to take her. lol. So start throwing out some ideas. The date is for sunday, we were both free. I need something to kill a few hours. Dinner, movie, skydiving?
Chicks like shit that is orginial and requires some sort of effort on your part.
I asked my gf and heres what she says
1) make her a picnic, take her to a beach and have it by the water
2) take her for ice cream, walk around at a park
3) go to the zoo
I think the usual dinner/movie stuff wont make u stand out. Skydiving may be a little extreme for a first date.
Also depends what you want from the chick though...
If youre just looking to get laid I say take her out for a nice dinner and invite her to your house for a movie after
ake her to the soon TVG will be there swinging around throwing shit at the by standers!!!!
j/k
but really the zoo is a good one
is she an active chick take her to the gym and have her spot you as you do all your max lifts!!!LOL
j/k
but reallly the zoo is a good one
TVG
Take her to the humane society to volunteer to walk dogs.
Or if you think she is easy just take her to any place that serves alcohol and get her wasted.
Do you know anything she likes? The zoos a good idea but if she doesnt like animals or the outdoors she might not enjoy the date.
Find out what shes interested in/likes. Then tweak it a little to make it "unique"
hiking, fishing
cook dinner and offer her alcohol
Somewhere with live music...or a comedy club...
Bring here out to eat Subway they have deals everyday,then to the movie for half price Tuesday,then go play Pool... then will let you in there pants..All for under 40 Bucks worked for my Friend and he got lot of Pussy.Most Ladies will say that they never did so much stuff on one date with a guy.
if you want to make something of it, be original forget the movie idea.. if you want to get to know her how are you going to talk if you spend your date in the movie theater, do something like as suggested go to the zoo, or to some other sort of interactive outing. i love taking my girlfriend out last week we headed into the city and spent a few hours walking around an old navel base that had been turned into a provincial park/ museum then went to the beach later that evening. just think outside the box and you will stand out in her mind.
basically just dont be boring take a look at what your city or town has to offer and capitolze on it remember most girls are looking for a guy who can make plans for themselves so dont play the " i dont know, what do you want to do " game with her.. it gets old fast.
best of luck bro.
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Let someone else entertain both of you while relaxing the atmosphere.
caution.. don't sit too close to the comedian. :)
For s first date you need a forum for communication. You need to be able to get to know each other. Thats just not going to happen being quiet in a theater for 2 hours, same goes for a comedy club for that matter. Save those for a couple dates in.
The picnic on the beach will have her wanting some tubesteak smothered in underwear for desert IMO.
GO KARTING!!!
So fun.
something out of the ordinary usually always works for me. depends what kind of girl she is though. if she's the girly girly type she might not like go karting, but if she's seems to be the type than go karting would actually be a a good idea. I did take out a girl to a go-karting date and she really liked it. we went to a nice pub afterward, drank a few beers and played pool.
i heard from many girls though that they would really enjoy if I guy would make a nice lunch, bring out a blanket and arrange a picnic in a nice park or something. I would personally not do that on a first date seems a little too romantic, but yet, girls seem to like this romantic stuff.
agree you have to establish communication on the first date, that's why you can do something fun like go-karting but go to a pub or some place where you can talk afterward. during a picninc there'S plenty of time to talk but it can get awkward if you have nothing to talk about. that's why going to a place like go-karting can facilitate communication, relax the atmosphere, and give yourselves something to talk about. if you don't know the girl, a picnic can be kinda awkward.Quote:
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^^ my gf is SUPER girly girl and she loved the go karting. it DEF gives you something to talk about after too, especially if you whoop her ass at it.
Show no mercy.
I went on a "date" with one of my exs recently hahaha.. We went to the falls and went out for diner at copa cabanas (All you can eat delicious meat). Dessert we went to the hersey store lol. We then went to the kiddy casino which is just an arcade and then we did some glow in the dark mini putting. We also got a hotel room. We had a good time and we always split what we do 50/50 so the price wasnt a big deal. It was a really good time overall. Cost about $160 each for the entire night but we stayed in a real nice hotel. You could do all that minus the hotel for about $140 and have a great time. I also got a free massage out of it because we had a bet going during mini golf (winner got a massage).
Nothing is worse than feeling like in some type of interview at a restaurant.. go shopping for yourself and bring her along somewhere like a mall.. not confrontational.. tease her a bit and have some fun...
bukkake.....she'll never forget it!
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Originally Posted by daande
Hummm....so what does that mean as far as you and her being "EX" to each other now hu?
Or is this you both do from time to time??
B2J
go play pool or just have a drink
burlington rib fest can u say cheat day :a+
Im thinking dark alley way and the question "Does this smell like cloroform to you?" would work perfectly!
My turn..
I love the picnic idea..Only don't pack it at your place alone. Pick her up and go shopping for the lunch together. Ask her what she loves, maybe shop at Whole Foods so it's healthier and sexy.
Do the park thing then. Be prepared...blanket, wine glasses, Frisbee, etc.
I'd love to train with a new date at the gym too. Meet there at 10 am..train and then do breakfast back at my place on the patio that we cooked together.
I love cooking together and merging each others food choices.
Forget going to a movie unless your only looking for company. Watch a movie at home and give her a foot rub or back massage near the end.
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I am taking notes...I REALLY am ;)
....speaking of "merging" sweety.......
B2J
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Wait.... Do I get this right? $160- $140 = $20? You got a REAL nice hotel for $20? :mock
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Originally Posted by Mad-Bull
MATH:
1)-him: 160.00 for the entire night
2)-her: 160.00 for the entire night
TOGETHER: $320.00
BUT WITHOUT THE HOTEL:
They would have both spent $70.00 EACH
TOGETHER: $ 140.00
Which leaves out the hotel bill of:
HOTEL: $180.00
B2J
Thanks bro, it must be the GH ;) I don't know how I mis-read that so badly....Quote:
Originally Posted by Born2Juice4Ever
[QUOTE=Mad-Bull;255550]Wait.... Do I get this right? $160- $140 = $20? You got a REAL nice hotel for $20? :mock[/QUOTE
I would be insulted if a first date suggested a hotel. He definitely is not looking for a lady. He needs to cut his losses and hire a hooker instead.
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We all know your the Epicure Genius so I may need a newer cook book to keep you coming back.
Sounds expensive spending $70 a person for 1 night out but in the falls thats ****ing cheap.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mad-Bull
[QUOTE=Felinecougar;255554]I meant the entire night minus the hotel cost about $140 so I was saying that if you took a girl on a first date to the falls you could do a bunch of shit and spend $140 and have a really amazing time. Also, this was a girl I dated for 4 years so it wasnt really a first date lol.Quote:
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