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12-03-2010, 11:37 AM
natenator

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Originally Posted by daande

No nate she didnt want to be friends. She was ****ing with me she would say she wanted to be friends then the next day wanna go on a date and try to **** me and shit. The girl doesnt know what she wants, hence why she quit a 50k a year job that was a 10 minute drive away from her house for a 32k a year job that is a 45 minute drive away from her house. When I made those posts I was all ****ed up because the girl I did love was ****ing with me so much. I couldn't see it at the time because I loved her so much and I was a retard.

EDIT: One week she would be talking to me about getting a mortgage with me and moving in together and the next week she would want to be friends so eventually I told her off.

ahh ok cool! Details we were unaware of ;)

then good for you for telling her off!
12-03-2010, 02:24 PM
Big D

I really appreciated the help guys, i'm a little busy at work so i;ll have to get back to you guys after supper.

thanks again :)
12-03-2010, 02:54 PM
JacktheThriller

You should go see a psychologist. he can help you to being proactive and help you and her understand each others POV and figure out why you arent "in love"s anymore and that can help reveal if you two should stay together or not. Its money well spent giving you absolute closure if nothing else. GL bro
12-03-2010, 07:06 PM
gregdoucette

trust me its over, go to couples councelling and that way ul be even more sure its over.
12-03-2010, 11:10 PM
waderow

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Originally Posted by gregdoucette

trust me its over, go to couples councelling and that way ul be even more sure its over.

how so? please elaborate. trust me doesnt cut it
12-03-2010, 11:15 PM
Delt King

There are reasons to try and make things work but unless you're married or have kids, own a house or business together. i don't see the point if you're only dating.
13-03-2010, 08:48 AM
natenator

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Originally Posted by Delt King

There are reasons to try and make things work but unless you're married or have kids, own a house or business together. i don't see the point if you're only dating.

Are you happily married? Love your wife and kids? Couldn't imagine them not being in your life? Well imagine if you and your wife had some rocky times before you were married and you decided to call it quits just because you were 'dating'.
13-03-2010, 11:58 AM
Big D

I took nates and wades advice, we'll try and work things out.
i'm gonna try to tell her how i feel and not hold things in so much .
13-03-2010, 12:46 PM
Big D

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Originally Posted by #8

dude. you and me need to hit the STRIP CLUB. lets GOOOOOOOO!! it will be a blast :)

lol if i'm ever down in london, i'll keep that in mind
14-03-2010, 10:48 AM
j-dub

i think you already know the answer to this, you initiated the break. it is tough when you love someone, but can't stand to be around them any longer. it happens, this is called life. take the positive's from this relationship and learn from mistakes that have possibly been made. carry these lessons with you for a future relationship, that will happen when you decide.
people always cross paths in life with other people, some of these crossings last briefly, some last years, these are the lessons learned.
letting go is not always easy, but it is what has to be done for you to continue on your journey.
good luck, and take comfort knowing you ain't the only ship to sail this course.

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