Ever wonder if you are biologically destined to be alone?

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Originally Posted by BBbox

lol

I feel somewhat sorry for the girls that end up with you dudes! They may have to create a support group amongst themselves. I wonder how Jerseys girl does it? Maybe by "working it out" he meant hes keeping her in a cage cuz she smartened up enough to ditch him :D

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uhh dude... what's to feel sorry for? Girl in my bar story sent me picvs of her in various states of undress and other positions lol. How have I done anything to her which would make you feel sorry for her?

Women can be just as big, if not bigger, whores than guys and there's nothing wrong with that if that's their thing but lets not paint all woman as saints and all men as pigs. They know how to play the game and usually play it better than us.

^^ I meant in terms of ****ing around in relationships when a large part of you still wants to be the single player

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Originally Posted by BBbox

^^ I meant in terms of ****ing around in relationships when a large part of you still wants to be the single player

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just because you *want* to doesn't mean you do.

The want to bang different women will always be there but just because you want to doesn't mean you will do it. Big difference.

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Originally Posted by BBbox

^^ I meant in terms of ****ing around in relationships when a large part of you still wants to be the single player

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Never ****ed around in a relationship. I am told that I am very blunt with my intentions from the start.

Heres the deal on how girls really want to be treated and there is not to much science or thinking behind it.

You get a girl who tells you that she has been through a lot. Her last 4 boyfriends cheated on her and although you are a nice guy she isnt ready to trust guys again because she is so hurt. Then you go around mad at guys like that because they ruined the chances a decent guy like you had with her.

WRONG heres whats really going on

You never actually had a chance. Logically she wanted the nice guy like you, but emotionally she wanted the exact same guy as the last 4 guys shes been with. Women who date doucebags will always want doucebags. Most girls look for a certain type good or bad and tend to stick with them. Ever wonder why a girl who seems so nice and sweet is always getting hurt because she can never find a decent guy? The truth is she doesnt want a decent guy lol

^^ So what youre saying is... just treat girls like shit and youll be better off?

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Originally Posted by BBbox

^^ So what youre saying is... just treat girls like shit and youll be better off?

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It depends, if thats the kind of girl that you are looking for that will be the only way that you will be able to keep her interested. Some girls crave the drama more than anything else.

I am looking for girls that dont want that so I dont have to be like that, but who you think someone is and what they turn out to be when you meet them can be decieving.

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Originally Posted by Durk

It depends, if thats the kind of girl that you are looking for that will be the only way that you will be able to keep her interested. Some girls crave the drama more than anything else.

I am looking for girls that dont want that so I dont have to be like that, but who you think someone is and what they turn out to be when you meet them can be decieving.

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aint that the truth.

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Originally Posted by Durk

It depends, if thats the kind of girl that you are looking for that will be the only way that you will be able to keep her interested. Some girls crave the drama more than anything else.

I am looking for girls that dont want that so I dont have to be like that, but who you think someone is and what they turn out to be when you meet them can be decieving.

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OK I have to admit I am confused... you want a girl that will in a sense make you a better guy right? But at the same time you do not want a relationship/are driven to play the field?

I never wonder this... If you're looking for a serious commitment and women know this, they'll latch on. Women want a father for their kids, be a man and provide and you're gold.

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OK I have to admit I am confused... you want a girl that will in a sense make you a better guy right? But at the same time you do not want a relationship/are driven to play the field?

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I just want to see if I am making a mistake by going after the same types over and over. I have never taken it slow so I just want to see if it will make me feel different about my stance on relationships.