Champ is right, go **** one of her best friends.:DQuote:
Originally Posted by champcar99
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Champ is right, go **** one of her best friends.:DQuote:
Originally Posted by champcar99
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hey guys thanks for stopping by and reading my rambling post even though it is completely un-bodybuilding related. I really appreciate the advice during this rough time.....once again you guys have proven wat makes this site so great!!
Thats rough dude after 6 years. You deserve a better explanation then, its not you its me, thats BS. I recommend 3 joints a day till you forget about her..
420 I like u already..lol..
Its either another guy, who will **** her and dump her and in a couple of weeks she will wind up calling you up late at night crying about how stupid she was...... or..... uhhhh, nah, that's it.
I wouldn't consider the possibility of her being alone/depressed as the reason for this because you said she's got family out there, so she's got some support. But if she is just being stupid you'll get the same call except in this case she'll only be crying that she made a mistake instead of crying about her mistake and the fact that she now has the herp.
***update***
well two weeks have gone by, and for the first week i was able to cut all comunication, given that we used to talk and see each other every single day, this was a tremendous feat for me. Unfortuantly i caved after a week and called her up, I could tell she was happy that i called and we literally talked over an hour. At this point im thinking to myself u know wat she still cares about me and us, but she is confused and needs time. This i could accept and for a few days I was fine and optimistic about her and I. So few days go by and we're texting and talking pretty much everyday, thursday roles around and for some reason my instinct was telling me that somthing was up, so i go ahead and asked wats up, and eventually find out that shes kinda got feelings for another dude, but isnt sure about him and that shes been hanging out with this guy alot, (she never said it but im pretty sure their seeing each other already). Needless to say i was devastated when i found this out, we whent from almost moving in to.. cya later im moving across the country and two weeks after she calls it quits there is another guy in the picture... 6 years dating this bitch and now i have to accept the fact that she doesnt give a shit about me or how i feel, and i'll tell u its been the hardest thing ive ever done. i cant sleep, eat, and even my workouts are shit. I dunno wat to do.... ive been hiting the booze pretty bad and have done more drugs in the last few days than i have in my entire life just so that i can sleep and not be depressed. I realized i need to get my life back in order but the feeling is overwhelming. I am lucky i have lots of good friends and family around me who are helping me through this and supporting me. Happy to say that as of friday i have not spoken or texted her and hopefully i will keep it this way.
To top things off, the guy who i think shes seeing is a complete loser who used to be a coke head and is currently an alcoholic. So far the first lesson this ordeal has taught me is u never really know a person, no matter how long or how intimate a relationship is. Honestly she is the last person i would have ever thought would do somthing like this... live and learn i guess....
thanks again guys for the replies, really helps reading about similar situations
OK M,
now's the time to go **** her best friend take some pics and send them to her via SMS with a nice :ht for her
Its always a very painful situation.. I've never gone as far deep as 6 years with a girl, but I've been hurt pretty bad before. The best way I found to get over a girl is either to get a new one, or to totally get the last one out of your life (like you're doing) at least until you've healed a little. Forcing myself to listen to happy songs has helped too. I feel your pain man... be strong and don't let a girl destroy you!
rough dude. its easy to tell someone this but lay off the booze and drugs. you need to get out and mess with a couple new chicks it will make you feel much better about yourself after you tag some strange ass. as for her man, thats just harsh and you gotta move on and dont let her mind **** you any longer