Why not just tell her the truth? If she doesn't like to bad. If you guys are going to last she will eventually have to accept it.
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Why not just tell her the truth? If she doesn't like to bad. If you guys are going to last she will eventually have to accept it.
When we first dated years ago she asked me if I was clean. I swore etc I am all natural and she said if she ever found out I was on stuff she's leave me. She's a great girl and not ready for a rocky road yet.Quote:
Originally Posted by spiderman7
I hide my gear all over the place instead of one spot just in case she does find it. Would be better if she found 1 bottle of something as opposed to a bag full of stuff.
I dont think anyone can speak for your girlfriend..you could findout for yourself ..lol
The truth is that he keeps changing girlfriends all the time and doesn't feel the need to tell them as he doesn't know how long the relationship is going to the last and most girls can't be trusted. So I see where he is coming from :)
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Originally Posted by tripleA
I keep my stuff in a locked tool box, and for some reason she never asks whats inside.
man just buy a safe, or a tool box that locks.
I went through the same thing with my ex. Try passing off a red mark on your ass cheek as a mosquito bite! hahaha I told my current gf, and even though no matter what I teach her she still worries, she doesn't get angry and supports what I do and why I do it. Maybe try approaching her saying you're thinking about trying it for the "first time" and wanted her feedback, just to see how she reacts. If she freaks out keep hiding it, and if she's ok with it then tell her when you start your next cycle.Quote:
Originally Posted by tripleA
She's 100% against stuff and I don't need anymore drama in my life. You know how chicks are, you get a safe and they want to know what's inside cause then they think you're hiding something. Especially if you are in a long term relationship, something Mr. Ontario knows nothing about since I don't think he even ever had a date. Anyways I'd rather not tell her anyways just in case we break up. Last thing I would need is her telling all my friends/family I'm not all natural (which I am).
Ya..then don't tell her....you know her best...if you think she will freak out or tell someone.....then I wouldn't either. There is has allot of X's I'm glad I didn't tell as I know for a fact they would have used it against me in the end and who knows who they would of told. Some things always comes back and bites in you in the ass. My family itself has never known that I have used...they may have been suspicious lol
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Originally Posted by tripleA
just tell her, she doesnt like it, get a new girlfriend. simple