trust is earned not given freely, and once it is broken very difficult to repair if it can be at all
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trust is earned not given freely, and once it is broken very difficult to repair if it can be at all
I am asking this question in terms of trying to get someone else to trust you again... not trying to trust another person
So, essentially what you're asking is how to manipulate someone.
uhhh not really... im asking what kinds of things a person can do in order to HELP someone else regain their trust in you....
for me trust is tied with respect. behave in a way to show her you respect her ... and hope for the best
OP this would be a lot easier if you told us what you did to breach the trust in the first place....
if you were late for a big party that you promised you'd be on time for it's a lot different than nailing 10 chicks on the side lol.
Come on Bro. She doesn't trust you. You want her to trust you and are looking for tools or strategies to utilize so she will trust you. That's manipulation. I'm not judging you, I'm just saying. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by BBbox
trust is earned. and if broken, all that work earning it ..is gone imo to a great degree.
.....I will forgive but I never forget
I agree with Pdh and Gymrat.
You lost her trust, and now want to find some quick fix to get it back again, but there is none. It is earned, and the only way, if ever it is regained will be through a time of healing, and proper conduct on your part...if she even gives a **** at this juncture.
Moral of story.... do not ever put yourself in a position or situation where your commitment to the girl could be questioned.
trust is earned, and once broken it is impossible to fully trust again, unless you're a fool.
i often say a man/woman have only one thing that can't be taken away, it has to be given, and that is your word.
you can loose everything, but if you loose your word, it is your reflection that will haunt you for it was you who broke it.
never make a promise you don't intend to keep, never shit where you eat and always listen to your guts.
too few people put value in their word today. too few people fail to understand that their word equals responsibility.