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honestly , were is a girl to go to find a good guy?? So over the bars and the ego's, and the "I have a great guy " for you date . Is it too much to ask for a normal , good looking male with a job ?? Just wondering cause clearly I am an asshole magnet !:wtf
Not sure.
I noticed your in Oshawa , that's my home town :) Got out of the dirty shwa about 8 years ago !!
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Originally Posted by CC79
Yes.
You'll find one sooner then later. Keep ya head up and don't give up!
LOL. Any idea why you attract the same guy (not literally) over and over?Quote:
Originally Posted by CC79
Still looking in bars?Many go online these days.They can still find assholes no problem.:)Quote:
Originally Posted by CC79
Normal? nope.
I have a good job and my mom says i'm handsome, will that do ?
kidding.
I was thinking the same thing, if I was single i dont know were I would find a good lady.
some advice - always have a good time and smile. do your groceries at different times / different locations etc.. that way you'll always run into different people.
not the best advice but thats all i have :)
she said normal dave. you are far from that sir.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shortdave
lol
No disrespect to the 'Shwa but I think that's the root of your problem. My sister still lives in the area and is single too. So maybe a weekend trip to Windsor or somewhere nice is in order!
Oh I know I am not even close to normal, she was wondering if it was too much to ask for a normal good looking male with a job..... I was saying that it was too much to ask.Quote:
Originally Posted by physique
I think "male" is the only one that really applies to me.
Most dudes can be good guy if they meet the right women! This only happens once in a while tho, and if you don't meet someone you care for... well then you behave like an asshole - this in turn attracts women and actually works better than being a nice guy...
this in turn leads to guys purposely being "less nice"/
At least this reflects my experience...
you are not wrong b ut in general this only applies to girls. Women are much different - thank god :)Quote:
Originally Posted by monkey
a few ladies on here would just suggest you just switch to the other team :)
Ask Countrychic, she seems to have acquired the skills for spotting a good one....muahahahaha, dont aske her today though, as im feeling a cold shoulder....lolol..jk
The key is to find a man you really dislike and then spend the rest of your life trying to change him.
Or you just have really shitty taste in men! :pQuote:
Originally Posted by CC79
Lol, of my friends, the ones who bitch about this are the ones who get dolled up and then wait for the line-o-douches to form at the bar...the girls who found good guys almost always cop to making the first move.
So what you're saying is that if you dress up like a slut and hang out in a whore house you probably won't meet a minister?Quote:
Originally Posted by wrought
Whouda thunk.
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Originally Posted by tiramisu
that's funny.
you did not just suggest that windsor is nice did you?Quote:
Originally Posted by gettinbigger
lol I was thinking the same thingQuote:
Originally Posted by theboss
LMAOQuote:
Originally Posted by theboss
True dat. Soooo true
LOL, they have the Casino, that's about it... oh wait, and a waterfront view of Detroit, lol.....Quote:
Originally Posted by theboss
:yeahQuote:
Originally Posted by musclegeek19
Well there's me - I'm single and I'm not hiding, but then I'm old enough to be your grandfather. Maybe in the next life.
On the serious side, I've noticed a lot of single women have impossible standards, hence they remain single.
I have only one standard - that she's extremely rich...:goodluck
Im not hiding, Im right here.....
I think you misunderstood her post #8. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by #8
I guess you've never been to Oshawa...Windsor is 4 star compared to the 'ShwaQuote:
Originally Posted by theboss
Is this still about the stripper situation? Jeez, give a guy a break. I really am a nice guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by PdH
Ask Jifelacket or NeverDieEasy. Both can vouch for my top notch character......lol.....
^^ I'm guessing about 0% of the girls you have dated would agree with that
I think we scared CC79 away :(
and once again the hater critic voices his opinion. did you get picked last in gym class a lot or something?Quote:
Originally Posted by BBbox
:beat
lol not scared aways just taking in all the oshawa vs windsor conversation
, I have no problem making the first move on a guy I do agree that I attract the same type for some reason ?
I'm not interested in spending a ounce of time trying to change anyone either .
Bars are out !! ........... online dating ......not so good , but I like the change up gyms and shopping idea !!
I am open for anything to change things up :)
It's not about where you're meeting people, it's about all the internal issues both parties bring to the table, which results in strong chemistry, or attraction. You seem to be saying that you attract them as though you are neutral in the matter, which you certainly are not. They also attract you, and you choose to follow that attraction.
The people that you have the strongest attraction to are those that allow you to continue playing out your internal issues, such as abandonment, betrayal, etc. If you continue to get involved with men that you have very strong chemistry with, you'll continue in the same little dysfunctional dance, whereby they get to be assholes and you the slighted victim. I think most sense how it's going to turn out when they get involved in this familiar dance, but the intense feelings and sexuality that come with it are too hard to resist, particularly when one is not fully aware of what is going on.
hmm sounds familliar LOL :-P
Windsor is like a bigger shwa. I have many fond memories of Oshawa actually.Quote:
Originally Posted by gettinbigger
If only I was single.....:greet
awwwwwwwwwwwww do you have a brother then??? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by macka
I say change gyms and ask for a lot of training advice.:)
He's married tooQuote:
Originally Posted by CC79