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BAM
07-08-2009, 11:49 PM
old article but.. whaa

http://www.thestar.co.za/index.php?fSectionId=128&fArticleId=3171828
Mar 23, 2006

Baldwin Ndaba

Four-year-old Jandre Botha disobeyed an order to call his mother's lesbian lover "Daddy''.

So the lover, Engeline de Nysschen (33), viciously assaulted Jandre while demanding that he must call her "Daddy".

Jandre died from his injuries, which trauma expert Professor Mohammed Dada said were similar to those of a person who had fallen from a double-storey building.

Yesterday Vereeniging Regional Court magistrate Rita Willemse found De Nysschen and the mother, Hanelie Botha (31) - who did nothing to protect her child - guilty of murder.

Jandre's father, Jan Botha, sat in court holding the hands of his fiancée, Yolanda Deysel, and listened attentively to Willemse, who, in her judgment, accepted evidence that among the reasons that led to Jandre's brutal ordeal was his refusal to call De Nysschen "Daddy".

The court had heard evidence from Lydia Nkomo and her daughter Aletta Lesiba, who worked for the couple in their tuckshop, that De Nysschen had viciously assaulted Jandre while demanding that he must call her "Daddy".

Both testified that while Jandre was assaulted, his mother failed to intervene or protect him. Evidence showed he had sustained horrific injuries, including a fractured skull and brain damage, as well as broken legs, collarbone, hands and pelvis.

Delivering judgment, Willemse acknowledged there was no substantial evidence linking Hanelie Botha to the assaults, but said she was equally guilty of murder for failing in her legal duty to protect her child against abuse and violation.

The court found she had lied to Dr Elna Gibson, one of the medical doctors who treated Jandre, by saying the boy got his injuries after he had slipped in the bath.

The court ruled that she had lied to protect De Nysschen. The doctors who had examined Jandre dismissed the pair's version that he had slipped in the bath. They said excessive force was required to inflict the kind of fatal injuries sustained by Jandre.

Convicting the two, Willemse dismissed their version and said there was substantial medical evidence before her about the nature of the injuries suffered by Jandre.

"I accept the evidence of the medical personnel who are experts in their fields. There were substantial documents placed before me. Most of them have medical experience which spans over a period of 15 years.

"All of them have dismissed the version of the accused and were unanimous that the deceased's injuries were inflicted over a period of time.

"It is unthinkable that the mother of the child could not have known about these fatal injuries. The deceased also had broken legs, and his mother should have been aware of this."

The magistrate criticised Botha for failing to report Jandre's abuse at the hands of her lover to the social workers monitoring Jandre's progress, after she had gained custody of him during a lengthy court battle with her ex-husband. She also failed to report the abuse to her ex-husband.

The boy's father became aware of Jandre's abuse only on the day of his death, June 12 2003. De Nysschen contacted him and said Jandre had fallen earlier in the day and had died.

Willemse criticised Botha's fitness to be a mother, saying her parents later approached her ex-husband and gave him financial help to fight for the custody of his child.

Rebuking Botha, Willemse said: "Hanelie was not helpless. She was well aware of Engeline's violent outburst.

"She could have called the child's father for help but she failed to do so. She did nothing to protect her own child."

The magistrate labelled Engeline a liar and a hopeless witness who had contradicted herself in testimony.

Botha and De Nysschen were further convicted of assault with intent to do grievous bodily harm and child neglect for failing to provide or seek treatment for Jandre's limb fractures. The case was postponed until June 26 for a pre-sentencing report.

LIVEHARD
08-08-2009, 12:12 AM
SICK

deleteduser0002
08-08-2009, 12:17 AM
Very sick..and old news, 2006.

macka
08-08-2009, 09:32 AM
south africa has the death penalty, I hope they got it, even though this is old news.

canadianmuscle0803
08-08-2009, 09:42 AM
wow.. this is the reason why 2 people of the same sex SHOULD NOT raise any kid what so ever.. im totally against gay marriage.. this world is falling apart quicker then i thought.

piller01
08-08-2009, 10:46 AM
this really upsets me t5hat poor child he probably knew you don't call a woman daddy.plus he already had a dad.very sad..

MMASTAR
08-08-2009, 10:51 AM
I cant even begin to say how i feel about these kind of things, anyone who can hurt a child must have some mental issues to begin with. I heard a stat the other day on how many kids were seriously hurt by people that are suspossed to love them and i was shocked. I forget the number but it was terrible. Something like 40% of child murders are by the parents/relatives. SICK.

Easterner
08-08-2009, 01:20 PM
wow.. this is the reason why 2 people of the same sex SHOULD NOT raise any kid what so ever.. im totally against gay marriage.. this world is falling apart quicker then i thought.

X2

Ritch
08-08-2009, 01:36 PM
I`m not against gay marriage, acutally neither for it or against it, just don`t care... But no way should same sex couples be able to have kids.

deleteduser0002
08-08-2009, 01:50 PM
I wonder if I dug up a few dozen news stories of straight couples doing horrible things to there kids if people would start bashing straight marriage?lol. Or maybe a black parent kicking the shit out of kids...that would be excellent proof that blacks are abusive and shouldn't have children.... I had a feeling this story was posted to get this reaction.

the-vanilla-gorilla
08-08-2009, 05:49 PM
:(:(:(


TVG

wolverine
08-08-2009, 09:11 PM
wow.. this is the reason why 2 people of the same sex SHOULD NOT raise any kid what so ever.. im totally against gay marriage.. this world is falling apart quicker then i thought.

X3

BAM
09-08-2009, 05:11 PM
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rated_rko
09-08-2009, 10:53 PM
thats messed up