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BBbox

17-07-2009, 06:02 PM

the-vanilla-gorilla

17-07-2009, 06:14 PM

Been with a great girl for about a year now. Hot/smart/nice.

BUT

Having trouble resisting the urge to cheat. So much temptation. Working with hot chicks, all my girl friends are smokin hot. A lot of them go out of their way to show that they are more than willing to be with me. Its especially rough when drinking or 'on'. How do you guys stop yourself from slipping up?

Or, if you do cheat, do you tell them about the "accident" or pretend it never happened?

Advice from guys in current relationships?

if your really in love with thiis chicka then just dont do it **** i dont know go rub one out thinking about the bitches you wanna bang

TVG

tex

17-07-2009, 06:21 PM

masturbate ftw. ^^^

guest

17-07-2009, 06:21 PM

that urge never goes away.

thesizzler

17-07-2009, 06:22 PM

Flesh lights helps me

http://www.fleshlight.com

Good luck

faller

17-07-2009, 06:22 PM

faller

17-07-2009, 06:23 PM

that urge never goes away.

true

BBbox

17-07-2009, 06:30 PM

Any of you cheated on a "long-term" relationship?

If you would like to stay together, do you keep it to yourself or tell her and try to work it out?

the-vanilla-gorilla

17-07-2009, 06:38 PM

Any of you cheated on a "long-term" relationship?

If you would like to stay together, do you keep it to yourself or tell her and try to work it out?

i have and i never told and i regret it

wanting to hump other girls is always going to be there and never go away your a guy and we like pussy lest your of the gays!
but doing it to someone (you care about) is not cool better to just resist and stick with what you have or get single and ****'em all!

TVG

JonnyO

17-07-2009, 06:41 PM

Just have to stay away from the temptation, ground yourself. Stay in with her and go do things instead of going out with the boys as much partying. If your going to hang with teh guys go to a restaurant and chill or a decent pub instead of the night clubs...way to much temptation in the clubs if you cant control it.

17-07-2009, 07:01 PM

make the sexual part of the relationship more exciting

LIVEHARD

17-07-2009, 07:02 PM

that urge never goes away.

Dont cheat

its love or pussy with love you get both

figure it out

pseclint

17-07-2009, 07:11 PM

the urge will never ever go away, its totally a biological thing, guy wants to spread his seed with every fine female..... if you cheat always deny deny deny..... I say cheat until your married or at least engaged, till then your holding on to one chick until a better one comes along anyway..... lol

Mr Ontario

17-07-2009, 07:54 PM

I'm with Legalize3... put it in her ass and change things up :)

make the sexual part of the relationship more exciting

sdonnell

17-07-2009, 09:22 PM

Nair your ass and get her to lick your butt, it will change your life. Just no penetration, then your gay.

wolverine

17-07-2009, 09:29 PM

Fleshlights.... ****ing hilarious!!! **** your hand, no body ****s you better than.....YOU!!!

Praetorian

17-07-2009, 11:06 PM

Been with a great girl for about a year now. Hot/smart/nice.

BUT

Having trouble resisting the urge to cheat. So much temptation. Working with hot chicks, all my girl friends are smokin hot. A lot of them go out of their way to show that they are more than willing to be with me. Its especially rough when drinking or 'on'. How do you guys stop yourself from slipping up?

Or, if you do cheat, do you tell them about the "accident" or pretend it never happened?

Advice from guys in current relationships?

Its called Karma...youll pay for what you do eventually...if you cheat...be willing to accept the fact that she (not necessarily your current girl) can and will do the same and you will have to smile and take it. Can you handle the fact that shes kissing you after blowing some guy on the side? If thats no problem then go ahead and cheat no worries.
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waderow

18-07-2009, 12:37 AM

look but dont touch

if youre in love it shouldnt be an option to cheat unless youre a douche

if you dont love her, be a man and break it off. too many girls get ****ed over by guys (and vice versa of course) so why contribute?

cdnsoldier

18-07-2009, 12:45 AM

Been with a great girl for about a year now. Hot/smart/nice.

BUT

Having trouble resisting the urge to cheat. So much temptation. Working with hot chicks, all my girl friends are smokin hot. A lot of them go out of their way to show that they are more than willing to be with me. Its especially rough when drinking or 'on'. How do you guys stop yourself from slipping up?

Or, if you do cheat, do you tell them about the "accident" or pretend it never happened?

Advice from guys in current relationships?

Be like a moneky. Never let go of one branch before grabbing another. Cheat and always have one girlfriend on the side just in case.

LIVEHARD

18-07-2009, 12:47 AM

Its called Karma...youll pay for what you do eventually...if you cheat...be willing to accept the fact that she (not necessarily your current girl) can and will do the same and you will have to smile and take it. Can you handle the fact that shes kissing you after blowing some guy on the side? If thats no problem then go ahead and cheat no worries.
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Thats to the point !!

1 have you ever cheated ? and how did you feel ?
2 do you think she has a second cock on the side ?
3 is the sex good enough for you ?? do you get what you want ??
do you get enough ??

Ask your self and get back to us Maybe thats why you look at other women

cdnsoldier

18-07-2009, 01:15 AM

Thats to the point !!

1 have you ever cheated ? and how did you feel ?
2 do you think she has a second cock on the side ?
3 is the sex good enough for you ?? do you get what you want ??
do you get enough ??

Ask your self and get back to us Maybe thats why you look at other women

Don't kid yourself. Most women cheat. I have slept with at least three married women in the last 6 mths. and no one would ever guess them to be ****ing around on the side. Women are discreete and smart about it. Not like men. Karma? Karma is fake. Doesn't exist. If it did most of the world would be dead by now. I would wager 60% of all men cheat. And that number is the same for women. I don't get where this concept comes from that women don't cheat? If men are ****ing around like dogs who are they ****ing? The same 5 sluts? Nope. Married men are ****ing married women. It's the way it is. When it comes ot cheating do like teh dude in Karate Kid says " Strike hard strike first"....and I add ...often.

How many guys here have ****ed a married woman? She's married to someone. How many guys have ****ed a "single" woman? How do you kow they are single?

Praetorian

18-07-2009, 11:51 AM

Don't kid yourself. Most women cheat. I have slept with at least three married women in the last 6 mths. and no one would ever guess them to be ****ing around on the side. Women are discreete and smart about it. Not like men. Karma? Karma is fake. Doesn't exist. If it did most of the world would be dead by now. I would wager 60% of all men cheat. And that number is the same for women. I don't get where this concept comes from that women don't cheat? If men are ****ing around like dogs who are they ****ing? The same 5 sluts? Nope. Married men are ****ing married women. It's the way it is. When it comes ot cheating do like teh dude in Karate Kid says " Strike hard strike first"....and I add ...often.

How many guys here have ****ed a married woman? She's married to someone. How many guys have ****ed a "single" woman? How do you kow they are single?

Of course women cheat LOL its statistical...no one is arguing that point whatsoever...the question is should he cheat. Karma is as real as you make it...trust me on this...shit will come back to you...believe it or not...doesnt really matter. With that attitude you will never be happy in life...in time youll understand. You can justify it anyway you like...in the end its the same...lack of integrity equals a very unhappy person.
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Mr Ontario

18-07-2009, 11:54 AM

It's all fun and games until someone gets hurt :)

champcar99

18-07-2009, 12:06 PM

Don't kid yourself. Most women cheat. I have slept with at least three married women in the last 6 mths. and no one would ever guess them to be ****ing around on the side. Women are discreete and smart about it. Not like men. Karma? Karma is fake. Doesn't exist. If it did most of the world would be dead by now. I would wager 60% of all men cheat. And that number is the same for women. I don't get where this concept comes from that women don't cheat? If men are ****ing around like dogs who are they ****ing? The same 5 sluts? Nope. Married men are ****ing married women. It's the way it is. When it comes ot cheating do like teh dude in Karate Kid says " Strike hard strike first"....and I add ...often.

How many guys here have ****ed a married woman? She's married to someone. How many guys have ****ed a "single" woman? How do you kow they are single?

I agree..I have been sleeping with 3 women besides my girlfriend...2 have boyfriends and one is married...If you are lucky enough to find the women of your dreams and you're IN LOVE with this women then cheating is NOT a good call and if she finds out you will have too look her in the eye's as she's crying and explain WHY the man of HER DREAMS is NOT ANYMORE !!!

Mr Ontario

18-07-2009, 12:48 PM

Your such a stud...now it if you can get three woman all at once in one bed,,you be all set :)

I agree..I have been sleeping with 3 women besides my girlfriend...2 have boyfriends and one is married...If you are lucky enough to find the women of your dreams and you're IN LOVE with this women then cheating is NOT a good call and if she finds out you will have too look her in the eye's as she's crying and explain WHY the man of HER DREAMS is NOT ANYMORE !!!

cdnsoldier

18-07-2009, 03:20 PM

Of course women cheat LOL its statistical...no one is arguing that point whatsoever...the question is should he cheat. Karma is as real as you make it...trust me on this...shit will come back to you...believe it or not...doesnt really matter. With that attitude you will never be happy in life...in time youll understand. You can justify it anyway you like...in the end its the same...lack of integrity equals a very unhappy person.
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And you know my happiness levels how? I am very happy because I have sex with many beautiful women. Why would Karma bite me for doing something that comes natural to man? I take it you like the Bible version of our sexuality? Not me. I'm not into fairy tales. Men were made to **** and **** I will. Karma is as real as you make it. Just like God. He's as real as you make him.

pseclint

18-07-2009, 04:09 PM

I agree..I have been sleeping with 3 women besides my girlfriend...2 have boyfriends and one is married...If you are lucky enough to find the women of your dreams and you're IN LOVE with this women then cheating is NOT a good call and if she finds out you will have too look her in the eye's as she's crying and explain WHY the man of HER DREAMS is NOT ANYMORE !!!

Bingo, this is a good post

the-vanilla-gorilla

18-07-2009, 04:12 PM

champcar99

18-07-2009, 04:46 PM

Your such a stud...now it if you can get three woman all at once in one bed,,you be all set :)

Been working on it...The girlfriend is very interested in that sort of endeavor..

champcar99

18-07-2009, 04:48 PM

your a ****ing SLUT PIG!

anypics?

TVG

Just what I don't want in my possesion...not into explaining anything like that!!! There is No good excuse that will justify those sort of pics...hahhaha

nisser

18-07-2009, 06:35 PM

sorry but if you're ****ing around you should be single. No reason to hurt people and that's my opinion.

oster

18-07-2009, 08:15 PM

sorry but if you're ****ing around you should be single. No reason to hurt people and that's my opinion.

I agree, although that urge will always be there, it seems your still in the age range where ****ing is your main priority.

If you can't control yourself, take a brake from the relationship and see if you miss her at all...

Praetorian

18-07-2009, 08:37 PM

And you know my happiness levels how? I am very happy because I have sex with many beautiful women. Why would Karma bite me for doing something that comes natural to man? I take it you like the Bible version of our sexuality? Not me. I'm not into fairy tales. Men were made to **** and **** I will. Karma is as real as you make it. Just like God. He's as real as you make him.

Then be single and go have fun. Oh and by the way i have no use for religion period. Karma has nothing to do with religion or God...it has to do with yourself...if you were happy as you say you are you wouldnt be looking to justify yourself for doing what you are doing.

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BBbox

18-07-2009, 08:41 PM

BBbox

18-07-2009, 08:48 PM

Seems as if theres not that many faithful guys on here.... :lick

Doesn't hurt if she doesn't know?

I do love her... but i would also love to **** the many other beautiful women that come my way....

Durk

18-07-2009, 09:13 PM

3 other women?

Does she know about this? Or how do you manage to keep it from her?
I'm just thinking I might feel guilty... not sure if I could handle that.

Tips from guys on how to keep your gf from finding out if it happens?

Not hard at all. I had a friend who would bang pretty much a new girl every week behind his whifes back for years. His best line was it was just my buddies g/f on the phone

18-07-2009, 10:42 PM

Tips from guys on how to keep your gf from finding out if it happens?

1 - don't save TXT messages EVER, you read it, you delete it
2 - her name is Cindy, save it as Steve into your phone
3 - use a lint brush (or tape around your hand) to get any stray hair away from your bedsheets/car
4 - take extra caution checking for hair around the toilet and sink
5 - after girl #2 leaves, check area for "clues" she has left behind for the gf to find (hair pin, an earring)... this can be tough as girls are sneaky bitches
6 - don't stop ****ing your girl, she will know you are getting it somewhere else
7 - avoid public places, friends/relatives have eyes and cell phones
8 - try not to gloat to your friends, as they will tell their gf's, and those girls will act awkward around your gf

or

ask your girl for a 3 way... if its the only way you'll stick around and she likes you enough she'll do it

cdnsoldier

19-07-2009, 04:53 AM

Then be single and go have fun. Oh and by the way i have no use for religion period. Karma has nothing to do with religion or God...it has to do with yourself...if you were happy as you say you are you wouldnt be looking to justify yourself for doing what you are doing.

P

I take you don't get much tail? You talk like someone who's the "good friend" or the "third man of the night to call when the other two aren't around". I deal in realities.Not Harloquinn novels. And yes it makes me VERY happy. And who said I'm justifying anything? I sleep around. It makes me happy.I could care less what other people think. But keep up the good work mate. Chicks need a dude like you who will listen to them yap for 4 hours after guys like me break their hearts. See Karma does work.

cdnsoldier

19-07-2009, 04:56 AM

Seems as if theres not that many faithful guys on here.... :lick

Doesn't hurt if she doesn't know?

I do love her... but i would also love to **** the many other beautiful women that come my way....

As you get older you will learn women are as big as dogs as men are. As I said they are more discreete and clever about it. They sleep around like men do. The more goody two shoes she projects the more heat under the skirt. You'll see once you get into your late 20's early 30's and then when you get close to 40 you'll say to yourself "are any chicks faithful" and the answer I will whisper to you is "very few son, very few".

Houstonbc

19-07-2009, 04:59 AM

I take you don't get much tail? You talk like someone who's the "good friend" or the "third man of the night to call when the other two aren't around". I deal in realities.Not Harloquinn novels. And yes it makes me VERY happy. And who said I'm justifying anything? I sleep around. It makes me happy.I could care less what other people think. But keep up the good work mate. Chicks need a dude like you who will listen to them yap for 4 hours after guys like me break their hearts. See Karma does work.

give us a f'ing break bud

cdnsoldier

19-07-2009, 01:31 PM

give us a f'ing break bud

Alright another "talk buddy" for the chicks. Judging from the rep points it's "give a few pussies (like you) a break bud".

But no problem. I'll let you go on this one. But just like the world needs more bar tenders, it always needs more 'talk buddies' for the chicks with 'broken hearts". Grown up and be a man not an Oprah man. That's why you're on your cell until 3am listening to some chick cry on friday nights and I'm getting laid. I don't watch or listen to oprah. But by all means "Bud", enjoy.

Tiamat

19-07-2009, 01:37 PM

This is about to go south fast.

cdnsoldier

19-07-2009, 01:43 PM

This is about to go south fast.

It already did when the Oprah crowd tried to convince this dude that chicks don't cheat. Maybe in Alberta when the nearest dude around is the bull in the outhouse but in any major city you won't have problems finding a married woman to have a fling with. I 'll give you 5 MILF bars here in the GTA that I guarentee you're getting lucky (As long as you aren't carrying around Oprah's book of the month around) on the weekend. And 99% she will be married.

It's ugly but it's life. Cheat first and cheat hard. Most likely his chick will cheat on him. It's not like they go announcing it to the world like guys do.

nisser

19-07-2009, 01:56 PM

As you get older you will learn women are as big as dogs as men are. As I said they are more discreete and clever about it. They sleep around like men do. The more goody two shoes she projects the more heat under the skirt. You'll see once you get into your late 20's early 30's and then when you get close to 40 you'll say to yourself "are any chicks faithful" and the answer I will whisper to you is "very few son, very few".

What inbred town in northern ontario/Quebec do you live in ?