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[Dk]

ok this is probably the only serious thread ill ever make on her so please keep it that way.

This girl im with who i really like(but dont know why) has been busy as shit lately, we made plans to hang out last night she was gonna come over, haven't seen her in like 2 weeks. Anyway, i literally sit and wait all night for her, then at like 10, she text me and said "im not coming over anymore" so of course i do the whole, wtf, why, thing. She says "i heard some shit about you, i just need some time to cool off at home alone" So im pissed and do a little detectiving, i guess its the night of her last day of school party or whatever at some bar, and shes going to that.

So i left her a voicemail(wouldnt answer her phone) saying if she woulda told me the truth i would have understood, but the fact she lied is complete bulshit and thats what ruins everything, the lying, not the fact she went out.

anyway so i told her it was over if she didnt talk to me last night, she didnt, then she text me this morning asking if she could talk to me about all this. At first i said no, now shes coming over later to talk, im handling this like a ****ing pussy. I dont know why i like her, the only thing going for her right now is she is hot as ****ing ****(not posting pics) other then that i dont know why im so into her.

Anyway back to the point, last night i told her if she didnt call back it was over, she didnt, now im giving her another chance today, i dont want to forgive her but i know i will.

wtf

ps-rule out the whole, oh she was f*cking another guy thing, i know for a fact she wasnt there with a guy, i know lots of people there, it was just a "going with friends" thing for her graduation/last day of school

basically my question is, what do i say to her today, how do i make it clear this is ****ing bullshit, but at the same time , see if things work out, but still let her know its not happening again.

because if i let it slide this time, shes gonna think she can do this shit again and get away with it, because last night i told her its over, and there was no talking about it, now today we're talking about it. ****

[BritishColumbian]

Hey Bro sorry to hear about that bullshit, in my expierience women like that will always be like that, she will keep doing shit like this to you over and over and over. She obviously thinks she can get away with it cause she is hot, fugetaboutit, there are plenty more where she came from and they will respect you and treat you right, you gotta man up and tell her to pound pavement, dont be a pansy pushover, Show her you are not to be ****ed with, She LIED to you, **** that shit, just my 2mg

[Ongeau]

Hey brother listen, Time to move on! and i'm saying this in all sincerity! what i've learned is that everyone deserves to be happy and to be with some one who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with her.

Are you happy waiting for her all night long just to find out that she's made other plans?

Couples are teams/companions friends and lovers, If she can't confide in you what she really wants then you need to find someone who can. Be patient and find out what's going on only to satisfy your curiosity, but calling her and leaving messages is only going to make her tell her frineds "he keeps calling me and never gives me space, etc." then you become the obsessed stalker, in her friends eyes.

break it off! if she wants to be with you she'll fight for it, if not then screw it.....

take a month download some porn, then find a real women.

[Dk]

Hey brother listen, Time to move on! and i'm saying this in all sincerity! what i've learned is that everyone deserves to be happy and to be with some one who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with her.

Are you happy waiting for her all night long just to find out that she's made other plans?

Couples are teams/companions friends and lovers, If she can't confide in you what she really wants then you need to find someone who can. Be patient and find out what's going on only to satisfy your curiosity, but calling her and leaving messages is only going to make her tell her frineds "he keeps calling me and never gives me space, etc." then you become the obsessed stalker, in her friends eyes.

break it off! if she wants to be with you she'll fight for it, if not then screw it.....

take a month download some porn, then find a real women.

i know, all this makes 100% sense. Ive been the guy replying to threads like this, its easy to look at the situation and say its not right, and that it needs to stop when im the one replying to guys in my situation.

but now that im actually the guy that needs to make the decision, its alot harder then just accepting the fact that everything points to, "get over it and move on, drop her". When it comes down to actuallly doing it, thats the problem, everything makes sense to do it, but nothing about me wants to.

thats what i mean by im being a complete ****ing pussy right now haha

[waderow]

tell her how you feel about her, and why she hurt you. then ask her if she values your relationship and if so, will she be willing to communicate in the future, as without communication, you two love birds will be destined to fail.

if you want dk, i will talk to her for you

[tex]

dont take any guff from these swine.....

[SmallieBigs]

Sorry to hear about your situation DK. I'd let her do all the talking, say very little, see if she's willing to work for it. If she's stumbling to explain things or gets pissed with you = it's over! If she's upset, honest, understands that she f'd up... or if she actually did "hear something about ya", then talk about it. See if things are worth workin' out.

I've stayed with chicks 'cause they're hot before, not realizing for a long time that I really didn't like them, and they were actually a real bitch. Try not to let this happen, although it may just be your wake up call/ learning experience.

Stay strong, think with your top head and your heart and you should be ok... If you really think you like her (for more than being hot), she may be worth the risk bro. Better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all.... sucks, but it's true....

p.s. If she's a bitch, just hate**** her (with a rubber, no babies) and kick her ass out!

Peace out homeschool

[Houstonbc]

DK call me were goin out tonight.....

[Dk]

DK call me were goin out tonight.....

like on a date? You you have like 50 lbs on me , im not sure if im ready to be the little spoon yet, haha.

But yah for sure ill shoot you a text later if your going out. Where were ya headed


Oh yah and to everyone else thanks, im pretty much ready to just tell her no if things go off track whens she comes over. Im gonna make it clear she pissed the **** out of me and that just because shes coming over to talk doesnt garuntee anything is alright. If she tries taking control of the situation im just telling her to **** off, shes the one coming to make things better, not me.


Ps- tren did not help the situation haha, when i was calling her and she wasnt answering i was literally beating the **** out of my steering wheel, the dash, everything i could reach, i was not a happy one, i was about 0.5 seconds away from driving to cowboys(the club they went to) and going in and just knocking out the closest guy to her.

the only reason i didnt go there is because im the one who told her to **** off and its over and dont talk to me anymore, so if i were to show up after that id just look like a douche, last time i figured it would have just been better to go do my own thing (which i did) then just going there and making it seem like i was chasing here.

but then again, i am letting her come over later, fail. haha

[tex]

the only thing that will make you feel better is some rough anal sex....with her....not Houston

[BritishColumbian]

I am surprised your even having women problems, when I first seen your avatar I thought , "Oh...Dk likes the cock..." not that theres anything wrong with that.

[Dk]

I am surprised your even having women problems, when I first seen your avatar I thought , "Oh...Dk likes the cock..." not that theres anything wrong with that.

not gonna be a problem anymore.
she was teaching dance at the university till 6, told me she'd call me and come over after, its almost 7. nothing. and im not calling her.

**** her.

edit-scratch that she just text me, apparently she got out late. whatever. i dunno

[Durk]

Heres what you do

Step1: **** some fresh pussy emediately. It will clear up your head.

Step2: let her come to you. make sure shes the one trying harder than you.

Step3: use her a booty call, and if she wants a relationship with you bad enough then she will have to earn it. Maybe giving you a 3 way, rim job, anal, etc whatever tickles your fancy

[HoliTheCat]

I would hate **** her a couple more times just for fun. Then slip her some 'G' and let one of my broskis have at it...

Ok, I wouldn't 'G' her cuz that is illegal, immoral and gross...but I would let and encourage my other friends to have at it (if she was as hot as you say). It would be psychological and sexual warfare for years to come. My whole team would be in on it. Everyone would take a turn.

I would also make videos and post it on this site.

[HoliTheCat]

I would also stop acting like such a ****ing faggot as well. That is probably your biggest problem. Lots of hot women around bro. Just come to Vancouver and walk around Kits for the day.

[LIVEHARD]

I post serious In my past i have lived with 9 women.
We will never understand them period. Some days i wish i could go back i time beat the shit out of ADAM and bang eve myself or catch the F'K that let them vote and choke the F'K out of him.

ALL kidding aside sorry about your evening. Never give a women a ultimatum ever if she wants you she will be there if not move on. Sure it hurts the ego and depending how much you like her is how deep the hurt will go.

I would talk to her tell her that you deserve respect ( don't demand it )

If she cant grasp that move on if your a good guy she will get it one day by then i hope you have something better that respects your feelings.

You cant control them and you will never figure them out trust me 9 live In's three children different moms i give up bro.

Ps take no shit but never stoop to there level or play there game !

they own the most powerful wepon in the world the thing that makes men week and starts wars for F'k sakes a PUSSY

just go with the flow if she dosnt want it one will allway be wide open and waiting in the neer future.

seriously it gets better after 35 they grow up. They are way easier to deal with and they love sex most of them dont even care if you have a side deal as long as your open about it

:sex bang them all like a lion in the wild its your calling !!

[LIVEHARD]

Heres what you do

Step1: **** some fresh pussy emediately. It will clear up your head.

Step2: let her come to you. make sure shes the one trying harder than you.

Step3: use her a booty call, and if she wants a relationship with you bad enough then she will have to earn it. Maybe giving you a 3 way, rim job, anal, etc whatever tickles your fancy

Smart guy agreed 100 %

arnt rimmers a given :wtf

[gsxr750]

You just want what you can't have.. let her go.. don't waste your time man..

Find something new.

[LIVEHARD]

I am surprised your even having women problems, when I first seen your avatar I thought , "Oh...Dk likes the cock..." not that theres anything wrong with that.

??? :rulz

[HoliTheCat]

??? :rulz

Are you saying you didn't think DK Liked the cock? I sure as **** did. I even feel he has hit on me a few times in different threads...

[Ongeau]

Well Bro where's the update? it's 12:35 at night, your either still talking too her or having make-up sex.......or your pulling your pud.

[LIVEHARD]

8803

They will run the world soon if we don't stop them

Don't let them win

be strong bro !!!!!!!!!

[grifter]

It's too bad that she couldn't have been upfront with you and told you that she wanted to go out and celebrate. Instead, she lied and said that you were the problem. Maybe she could have invited you out for drinks as well?

I had a situation similar many years ago. A woman I was into was having a male friend come to visit her. The history was they tried dating years earlier but it didn't work out. I offered to give her some space, but then suggested that we meet up later and all go out for drinks. She didn't like this idea, and told me that she would talk to me in the morning.
I called her later to let her know I was going out with a buddy. She got pissed as she didnt like me going out to bars. I told her I wasn't going to sit around by the phone and wait for her call.
I didn't end up going out cause I was pissed so I drove around. I called her again and told her that I was heading home but I thought I would drop by and say "hi". Again she didn't think this was a good idea.
So I did what came natural to me and went over to her place anyhow. Obviously, she was hiding something and I needed to find out on my own. So I go over and conduct some recon work, see some shit that I didn't respect (some intimate moments that friends don't have) and got out of there before I put my foot through the window.

All in all, I saw what I needed to to make up my mind, but not before I gave it one more poke.

Good luck with your choice!

[LIVEHARD]

Well Bro where's the update? it's 12:35 at night, your either still talking too her or having make-up sex.......or your pulling your pud.

Dk ?? where's our update :wtf ????
Did you pull the pud all night Kleenex in one hand ( for the tears ) rod in the other ( i hope not )

I hope you met with that young lady Told her how you feel !
I hope she has a heart and is a good girl.
I hope she showed you how sorry she was.

I hope she still is bent over begging at 9 am this am begging for more

((""" Please DK I'm so sorry DK I'm sorry More more i will never do it again what can i do to help you for give me please """))

Bro i hope your morning sounded something like that with a few squish-ie sound effects !!!!!!!




peace bro

[Dk]

Well Bro where's the update? it's 12:35 at night, your either still talking too her or having make-up sex.......or your pulling your pud.


Dk ?? where's our update :wtf ????
Did you pull the pud all night Kleenex in one hand ( for the tears ) rod in the other ( i hope not )

I hope you met with that young lady Told her how you feel !
I hope she has a heart and is a good girl.
I hope she showed you how sorry she was.

I hope she still is bent over begging at 9 am this am begging for more

((""" Please DK I'm so sorry DK I'm sorry More more i will never do it again what can i do to help you for give me please """))

Bro i hope your morning sounded something like that with a few squish-ie sound effects !!!!!!!




peace bro

she ended up calling me like an hour late to come over, its only an hour, but thats enough for me, as soon as i answered i told her she ****ed up and i hung up, ended up going out for drinks with houston and one of his buddies. Drank a little to much and ended up waking up in my vehicle to about 10 texts from her and missed calls saying shes sorry, shes blaming it all on exams and the stress and how she'll be back to normal soon and shes just in a weird state of mind. Im still pissed about it, but i told her to take some time and get her shit together then talk to me.

[LIVEHARD]

she ended up calling me like an hour late to come over, its only an hour, but thats enough for me, as soon as i answered i told her she ****ed up and i hung up, ended up going out for drinks with houston and one of his buddies. Drank a little to much and ended up waking up in my vehicle to about 10 texts from her and missed calls saying shes sorry, shes blaming it all on exams and the stress and how she'll be back to normal soon and shes just in a weird state of mind. Im still pissed about it, but i told her to take some time and get her shit together then talk to me.

Take a taxi next time

and look before you leap i

f you waited she might have been over sucking you better

hope the night was still fun

[LIVEHARD]

i guess your in school also

hey


DUI's they will wreak your life

[Dk]

Take a taxi next time

and look before you leap i

f you waited she might have been over sucking you better

hope the night was still fun

i didnt drive, i woke up in my vehicle in the bar parking lot.

and there was NO way i was waiting, it was a bad time to be calling late, i waited for her the night before i wasnt waitin again.

i told her i wasnt putting any more effort into fixing her mess, and if she wanted to talk about things, it was up to here to get ahold of me, and i wasnt waitin around anymore. But as far as last night went, i told her i wasnt waiting around to talk because she was already late.

Then she must have realized i was serious about it, because when i woke up, like i said, missed calls, texts, voicemails saying sorry.

still not sure what im gonna do.

her excuse for friday was she was just scared of telling me about the party because i was so set on hanging out so she panicked and waited to long and came up with the last second lie, and she said she knows it was a shitty choice and all that, i dunno.


oh and no, im not in school anymore haha, finished last year

[LIVEHARD]

i didnt drive, i woke up in my vehicle in the bar parking lot.

and there was NO way i was waiting, it was a bad time to be calling late, i waited for her the night before i wasnt waitin again.

i told her i wasnt putting any more effort into fixing her mess, and if she wanted to talk about things, it was up to here to get ahold of me, and i wasnt waitin around anymore. But as far as last night went, i told her i wasnt waiting around to talk because she was already late.

Then she must have realized i was serious about it, because when i woke up, like i said, missed calls, texts, voicemails saying sorry.


still not sure what im gonna do.

her excuse for friday was she was just scared of telling me about the party because i was so set on hanging out so she panicked and waited to long and came up with the last second lie, and she said she knows it was a shitty choice and all that, i dunno.


oh and no, im not in school anymore haha, finished last year


i dont preach but sleepimg in car DUI so you know

play safe dont F'k up because some girl makes you spinn


safe

[Ongeau]

I heard a one today and I thought I must share it.

"Don't make someone a priority, if they only choose to make you an option."

[LonelyBedouin]

i dont preach but sleepimg in car DUI so you know

play safe dont F'k up because some girl makes you spinn


safe

You said she has to put the effort into talking to you, but your not letting her, if I get the jist of it. Unless your "cooling off" for a couple days.

And yea as long as you have the keys in the car and your in it, its considered a DUI. So just be careful

[natenator]

wow ****, there's 5 mins of my life I'll nevver get back. damn

[simone]

I read this pretty quick...

but stop putting the pussy on a pedestal.. can't really say it better than that..

don't tolerate behaviour from others that is not inline with your own morals... period.

i don't know why guys get hung up so much on some women.... if she's stressing you out like this why bother with her? who cares, move on and be happy... ther'es no reason being a dick to her about it and causing drama... just tell her sorry but this is just not what i'm looking for in a women and its probably best to see other people...

there are PLENTY of great women out there that wouldn't pull shit like that... she's TESTING you.. and you giving into her and continually giving her more chances makes you look like less of a man to her.. BE A MAN and don't tolerate her shit or any other women's shit like that.... women are attracted to real MEN...

she texts you and says sorry i blah blah blah.. don't reply for a day or two and if you do want to see her again, for whatever reason, just play it cool and tell her that your not into that kind of stuff and she better make it up to you...

if she does it again, and for some stupid reason you keep wanting to see her, set something up with her that's really cool then flake on her ass and she how she feels... and when your flaking go out with another CHICK!

[tex]

dude...you are gettin a bit obsessed about this shit....ive done the same thing before but im older now (31) and i know that theres lots more pussy out there.....find yourself a latina chick...they are soo damn freaky that you will forget all about this chick

[Dk]

i dont preach but sleepimg in car DUI so you know

play safe dont F'k up because some girl makes you spinn


safe
yah i know usually when i do this i put the keys in the wheel well or something.

keys in the car=dui
keys out=good to go

You said she has to put the effort into talking to you, but your not letting her, if I get the jist of it. Unless your "cooling off" for a couple days.


calling me 2 hours late isnt what i was talkin about. i already waited for her friday night, there NO way i was sitting at home again saturday waiting for her call, she called to talk 2 hours after she was sposed to, i had other plans, i wasnt revolving my schedule around waiting for her to be available.

[Dk]

dude...you are gettin a bit obsessed about this shit....ive done the same thing before but im older now (31) and i know that theres lots more pussy out there.....find yourself a latina chick...they are soo damn freaky that you will forget all about this chick

nah i honestly dont give a shit anymore haha, i was just really ****in riled up when it all happened.

we can get back to over sized clits and gay porn now

[Houstonbc]

you had much better things to do than wait for her last night, like hit the strip club, watch the fights, indulge in copious amounts of alcohol and chase other girls

[Dk]

you had much better things to do than wait for her last night, like hit the strip club, watch the fights, indulge in copious amounts of alcohol and chase other girls

im still pissed i never acted on that blonde and that other girl who did the ****in "ohh i accidently bumped into you" shit haha.

they were were only ****in girls in that place last night.

what did you and the other guy get upto anyway, i dont even remember going out to my vehicle. Someone eating in hooters must have thought i was dead because him and the hooters waitress came out and woke me up haha