love sucks

[thecivilizedanimal]

so, i'm going through a tough spot. ( feels like i just came off cycle )
I live with my Son and his mother, yet he doesnt sleep here overnight now because the grandparents dont want to get up early .

the gf, was on nights for a few weeks and that just about killed everything, now shes on days , but as soon as she takes the lil guy to the inlaws she goes out to her friends ( seems like she could be cheating but she isnt :/ ...lol )

so my ex fiancee is about to leave town and i'm still in love with her, and her with me, but she was useless and never got a job.

yeah so i'm ****ing depressed right now.
noe sex no affection etc, but i get to see my son everyday,

it's a brutal trade off and i'm not dealing with it very well

[physique]

i hear ya man. i am in the partial same boat. woman dumped me after 8 years but says she still loves me, and i love her. cant see my world without her in it. i keep hearing stuff like it will get better, but man it doesnt happen fast enough.

i wrap myself up in work so i dont freak out and put a hole in the wall or worse someone else.

[guest]

i hear ya man. i am in the partial same boat. woman dumped me after 8 years but says she still loves me, and i love her. cant see my world without her in it. i keep hearing stuff like it will get better, but man it doesnt happen fast enough.

i wrap myself up in work so i dont freak out and put a hole in the wall or worse someone else.

maybe start doing some training with Jody next door bud? it might help with the pent up aggression.

TCD, sorry to hear about your situation, it sounds complicated.

[rated_rko]

sorry to hear man...im running in the a love/hate/confused part myself right now....back when i met this girl in 2006 she liked me a lot...i held her hand im not gonna lie...never wanted to actually date her...we went out...she paid...and when it was time to kiss her i couldnt do it..i didnt even want her vag...i was like bleh w/e...here i am 3yrs later..i actually talk to her everyday...and got to know her on an intellectual point of view and she is awesome...but we are friends now and i dont know if i should try to make a move on her this time..i actual enjoy her company..and am excited to get a txt or a call from her...which is ****d up..time changes everything i guess..i dont know what she is feeling either but yeah...bleh...love/lust/women wow...its complicated

[CubanMuscle]

Well if it gives you any comfort... I guess or wait, maybe I am putting my foot in my mouth, but its nice to know that men also suffer what we suffer to a point.

You guys all need chocolate :)

[ironwill]

It sucks to see you guys in a bad predicament with your loves of your lives.....
When you do find the right one, make sure you let them know and treat them well...
Respect goes a lonnnnng way....
I see so many post with guys dissing women like they are trash hoes and if you treat them that way , you will be single plain and simple...
I dont know any of you personally, but i watch all the degrading women threads on here , then i see guys upset their ol ladys left them.....
There are many guys out there that will treat them better if you dont, and vice versa, why live in misery, theres a whole big world out there,,, dont think you are in a fish bowl...or you will be alone in the bowl....
BTW, i used to be a manwhore and lived a crazy life, but i found the right one luckily, and im a reformed piggy now...And wouldnt change my status for anything...

just my 2 ccs on the subject...:)

[69challenger]

^^^Wise words

[natenator]

It sucks to see you guys in a bad predicament with your loves of your lives.....
When you do find the right one, make sure you let them know and treat them well...
Respect goes a lonnnnng way....
I see so many post with guys dissing women like they are trash hoes and if you treat them that way , you will be single plain and simple...
I dont know any of you personally, but i watch all the degrading women threads on here , then i see guys upset their ol ladys left them.....
There are many guys out there that will treat them better if you dont, and vice versa, why live in misery, theres a whole big world out there,,, dont think you are in a fish bowl...or you will be alone in the bowl....
BTW, i used to be a manwhore and lived a crazy life, but i found the right one luckily, and im a reformed piggy now...And wouldnt change my status for anything...

just my 2 ccs on the subject...:)
Sometimes finding that right and special person does not make it a lock no matter how much both of you may agree. Sometimes a person comes along to early in a person's life...

I'd sooner go through life having never met someone that you knew was perfect for you than meeting them and realizing the timing just friggin sucks.

[Drummer]

so, i'm going through a tough spot. ( feels like i just came off cycle )
I live with my Son and his mother, yet he doesnt sleep here overnight now because the grandparents dont want to get up early .

the gf, was on nights for a few weeks and that just about killed everything, now shes on days , but as soon as she takes the lil guy to the inlaws she goes out to her friends ( seems like she could be cheating but she isnt :/ ...lol )

so my ex fiancee is about to leave town and i'm still in love with her, and her with me, but she was useless and never got a job.

yeah so i'm ****ing depressed right now.
noe sex no affection etc, but i get to see my son everyday,

it's a brutal trade off and i'm not dealing with it very well

The hard answer (if i was a close friend of yours and gave you the no BS version it would be this) :

Make a decision and do it. Work out the complications and do what you know you need to in your gut. Sitting here missing your ex, hating your life and all that will only eat you up because your letting it. Take action! (i know i know, easier said than done, but deep down you know its the truth)

~D~

[macka]

The hard answer (if i was a close friend of yours and gave you the no BS version it would be this) :

Make a decision and do it. Work out the complications and do what you know you need to in your gut. Sitting here missing your ex, hating your life and all that will only eat you up because your letting it. Take action! (i know i know, easier said than done, but deep down you know its the truth)

~D~

very true

[thecivilizedanimal]

it's not so much my ex i miss but the possibility to be happy and have all that sappy shit, which me and the babymoms def do not have,

i met this great girl from kitchener area who's good looking fun as **** and has a good head on her shoulders, but i kinda ****ed that up . lol

fml

but i started my cycle yesterday so maybe fate will present itself soon
lol

[pseclint]

I was in a 4.5 year relationship we broke up last July.... toughest thing just because you are used to someones company and then all of a sudden vanished, you miss the partnership and support...... keep yourself busy, go out with the boys and hit on girls....... best thing to do was to take a camera out and get a ton of pics with hot chicks and post them on facebook..... It was shitty for about 4 months but I later found a girl I had known for 11 years and we started dating..... by far the best girl I have ever met...... it will come, just be patient, there is always something better on the way

[Drummer]

it's not so much my ex i miss but the possibility to be happy and have all that sappy shit, which me and the babymoms def do not have,

i met this great girl from kitchener area who's good looking fun as **** and has a good head on her shoulders, but i kinda ****ed that up . lol

fml

but i started my cycle yesterday so maybe fate will present itself soon
lol

hmmm.. fate.. im not a fatalist so i cant relate..

~D~

[arcnspark77]

i went through/going through similar shit. i figure that as important as it is to see your kids everyday, it's just as important for them to see you happy. lead by example so that hopefully they don't fall into some shitty (not saying yours is, talking about myself here) relationship and think this is as good as it gets. You only live once..good luck!

[CubanMuscle]

go with chocolate its much easier to burn off then get burned :moon

[thecivilizedanimal]

i had my own nice place close but not to close to downtown, lots of friends around , that shits all gone now.

baaah. so hopefully get into the gym today. i have no id or wallet which should help ( lost it last week and have to start from scratch ie birthcertificate, )


hahahh **** my life

[tripleA]

my chick and i broke up not too long ago. it sucks but i accept that in life, things don't always go according to plan and everything happens for a reason.
on another note, thank god i'm on test and haven't lost a pound yet. usually breaking up puts me in a catabolic state where i would lose weight fast and big time

[thecivilizedanimal]

haha so theres an update,

check out my saturday night thread i'm posting