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bossman_1986
18-03-2009, 04:48 AM
first date went to a restaurant and a movie, date went well and we both want to see each other again but i need some second date ideas! where are some good places to take her on a second date??
pinhead
18-03-2009, 04:53 AM
A cozy place, maybe coffee and a long talk. A walk and a bite to eat. Does not have to be so "official" that it's a date. I find the best dates I have are the spontaneous one's that are unplanned.
Sushi, wine, and hours of lovemaking also work out well though :D
Monka
18-03-2009, 08:28 AM
hmmm, well, first night was all in bed, i'd think next few "date" should be same.. then food? haha good dinners are always good
waderow
18-03-2009, 09:58 AM
i think at this juncture you two love birds are ready for sex.
invite her over to your house for wine and candles. Play some soft music, and under the candle light after a few glasses of wine, tell her how her eyes sparkle and look like the night sea under the stars. lean over, and kiss her gently, but pull back right away, and say you shouldn't have done that, as you do not want to push her into doing anything that she is not ready for.
At this moment, you would hope she leans over and kisses you back, then it is time for some love makin,.
Bowlcut
18-03-2009, 09:59 AM
Art gallery/museum if there any near by.
natenator
18-03-2009, 10:00 AM
maybe for shits (literally) and giggles you two can get drunk and she can hoop you waderow style? :D
waderow
18-03-2009, 10:01 AM
maybe for shits (literally) and giggles you two can get drunk and she can hoop you waderow style? :D
i will never live that down will i ?
natenator
18-03-2009, 10:04 AM
i will never live that down will i ?
not as long as I'm on this board LOL
waderow
18-03-2009, 10:10 AM
not as long as I'm on this board LOL
well when you get fingered, i am definately going to harass you about it then... what goes around comes around
LOL
oharad
18-03-2009, 10:12 AM
i think at this juncture you two love birds are ready for sex.
invite her over to your house for wine and candles. Play some soft music, and under the candle light after a few glasses of wine, tell her how her eyes sparkle and look the the night sea under the stars. lean over, and kiss her gently, but pull back right away, and say you shouldn't have done that, as you do not want to push her into doing anything that she is not ready for.
At this moment, you would hope she leans over and kisses you back, then it is time for some love makin,.
BHAHAHAHAH shit dude you got this down to a fine science hahahaha
listen man if you like her and are looking at this as a possible relationship take her to a quite restaurant where u can talk adn really get to know her.
keep the convo on her.... keep askin questions.... dreams, aspirations, career goals, her family life, if she wants kids ...... possibilities are endless here.
order a app and dessert as this will give you lots of time to talk.
if you can get a booth do it.... when she sits down take her jacket for her.... sit on her side.... if she looks at you weird just smile and say u wanted to be a lil closer to her.
don't be shy to feed her bites of the dessert.... by this point you two have done alot of talking and you should know if she'd be comfortable with this.
if its a nice night suggest a nice walk hand in hand after dinner to burn off the cals.
Born2Juice4Ever
18-03-2009, 10:26 AM
LMFAO at Wade hewhehheheheh damn you are my twin :D
I have gone on so many dates, blind dates, internet dates, gym dates, **** dates, caffee dates, drive dates, shopping dates, tanning dates, meeting at a corner dates, museums dates, bar, pubs, dinner, LONG fun walks, skating dates, helicopter ride dates, marina dates......last year I was at the point where there were NO butterflies in my stomach when meeting new women...the feeling had left me---yeah I became dull to it.
I have done interesting dates, boring dates, dates for the sake of it, pitty dates, stood up chicks on dates (do not feel good about it, but it was also part of the experience)...
....Wade I think you and I can probably write a book, a successful one too:)
I have gone to chicks houses in the past, on a second date, where we both proomise to keep our pants on....we play a bit, pull on each others belts..I remember this one time. This chick and I had promised one another that no matter what, we were not going to hit it on the second time together.
I went to her house, it had gotten to the point where I had almost ripped a hole thruw my pants, and she was so damn wet...I got up in the middle of it all---we were making out so damn bad, I had my shirt off and she had her top off as well, and left her house (part of my "good guy" effort)....as I drove away, I got a text:
"I cannot believe you left me...I am throabbing for you..."
Me: You will be fine, play with it a little
Her: Prick!
Me: See you soon sweety
Needless to say, the sex was freakking amazing the third time we met.
B2J
forget what i wrote some great ideas in this thread
Boulderer77
18-03-2009, 12:20 PM
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Ritch
18-03-2009, 12:28 PM
Awesome stories here Born2juice4ever! I always thought Waderow was your twin as well. One thing with the restaurants guys. Don`t eat too much, you will get gas and have to take a shit later. Dosen`t really contribute to the mood.
Van Zan
18-03-2009, 12:31 PM
go for drinks and invite her to ur place after
Born2Juice4Ever
18-03-2009, 12:34 PM
Awesome stories here Born2juice4ever! I always thought Waderow was your twin as well. One thing with the restaurants guys. Don`t eat too much, you will get gas and have to take a shit later. Dosen`t really contribute to the mood.
:handsome hell yeah bro!! I too look forward to reading on fatties---damn you make me laugh:laugh
B2J
gsxr750
18-03-2009, 12:35 PM
Someone start a kiss and tell thread! I'm sure we all have lots of 'imaginary' stories
Ritch
18-03-2009, 12:48 PM
:handsome hell yeah bro!! I too look forward to reading on fatties---damn you make me laugh:laugh
B2J
The funny thing with the chunky`s I love be with, they never let you see them eat much in the beginning. They will say "I`m not so hugry tonight, I will just have a light meal". But when the relationship get more steady and she knows I genuily like bigger girls, THEN she will say something like " Are you gonna finish those fries?" Then I will say something like " Boy you sure like to eat!" I had a girlfriend who`d say " That`s because I`m a big girl". And she knows I find it funny when she says that. So we`re both happy!
Born2Juice4Ever
18-03-2009, 12:51 PM
hahahahahahahhah "are you gonna finish those fries" hahahhahahah damn hahahhahaah a woman after your heart I see :D :D
Ritch
18-03-2009, 01:00 PM
Here`s a better one I just thought of. When I was 26 and on a cycle, I was eating 2 steaks a day (of course so was she) and when I was done my plate she would always pick up the bone and eat the remains. I always thought that was funny. When I still talk to her today I always say " So how is everybody`s favorite big girl doing?" Damn she had a sexy voice!
natenator
18-03-2009, 01:05 PM
Here`s a better one I just thought of. When I was 26 and on a cycle, I was eating 2 steaks a day (of course so was she) and when I was done my plate she would always pick up the bone and eat the remains. I always thought that was funny. When I still talk to her today I always say " So how is everybody`s favorite big girl doing?" Damn she had a sexy voice!
Your stories are just wrong. *shudder* lol
Gettin'r'round
18-03-2009, 01:09 PM
ditto on the meal and farts. had some wicked stomach cramps in my day trying to hold in all the gas. leads to some nastAy explosions later on in the day. however getting buzzed and ****ing in the car before we got home worked GREAT last time. nice anniversary dinner I must say...
Ritch
18-03-2009, 01:12 PM
Your stories are just wrong. *shudder* lol
No this one is wrong. Once at the grocery store my ex at the time and I had a rung up alot of itmes. The guy asked us if we needed them to be delivered. I said "No that`s o.k. I`ve got my workhorse with me" I know, I know this can be insulting if you don`t know her, but I knew it she`d be o.k with it. But still wrong it was! But trust me she looked buff and strong, she was German so you know it`s true!
"No that`s o.k. I`ve got my workhorse with me"
hahahha i tried to give u green
Ritch
18-03-2009, 01:39 PM
hahahha i tried to give u green
It didn`t work?
It didn`t work?
nope apparently ive given u too much lovin already
waderow
18-03-2009, 02:24 PM
In Ritches defense, the big girls always seem to have a personality. They are fun, funny, smart, appreciate you....
That being said, did any of you guys see the evilmilk ass pic i posted??? That makes up for personality LOL
natenator
18-03-2009, 05:07 PM
In Ritches defense, the big girls always seem to have a personality. They are fun, funny, smart, appreciate you....
That being said, did any of you guys see the evilmilk ass pic i posted??? That makes up for personality LOL
werd and it's not like you are going to have a relationship with you because invariably a better looking, more hung and richer dude will come along and she will dump your ass to may as well feel'em, ****'em and forget'em :D
physique
18-03-2009, 05:49 PM
back seat of your car
simone
18-03-2009, 07:27 PM
I think you went to big on first date personally..
Always have a plan ready for the next time to meet...
my best one is:
"i need a new shirt, why don't you meet me at the mall on Friday and help me pick one out"...
that way you spend pretty much nothing on her, and you get to see what each other is like... also lots of opportunity to tease/joke with her.. gently elbow her into a rack ... guess what other couples are gonna break up soon, murder/marry/****... etc. etc. if day is going good then grab a bite to eat, maybe grab a flick at your house and seal the deal.
warlock
18-03-2009, 09:36 PM
Bowling...
HardtoHandle
18-03-2009, 10:03 PM
Depends on your intentions with the girl. Do you see yourself going a bit further....or just for fun?
If you want to pursue something of meaning...I do agree with the coffee thing. You need somewhere the both of you can actually converse. And, a girl always loves dessert...coffee and cheesecake?
If you just want a fling...go with the dinner at your house. Any guy who can cook me a meal....is always gonna get some of MY dessert afterwards!
Only because this on a second date is a little quick...so if she's smart; she'll pick up the signals.
But...most woman are oblivious to men's intentions. Than again...it's been forever since I've been on a "real" date.
Good luck...let us know how it pans out.
waderow
18-03-2009, 10:15 PM
oh my god.... i am corrupted.
can't stop thinking of dessert
Ritch
18-03-2009, 11:43 PM
I think you went to big on first date personally..
Always have a plan ready for the next time to meet...
my best one is:
"i need a new shirt, why don't you meet me at the mall on Friday and help me pick one out"...
that way you spend pretty much nothing on her, and you get to see what each other is like... also lots of opportunity to tease/joke with her.. gently elbow her into a rack ... guess what other couples are gonna break up soon, murder/marry/****... etc. etc. if day is going good then grab a bite to eat, maybe grab a flick at your house and seal the deal.
That`s a good idea: to bring her with you to the mall.
simone
19-03-2009, 01:40 PM
^^ yeah anywhere that's not like a "meeting/interview".. i think the coffee dates, dinners for the first few dates are ridiculous..
you should date ALOT until you find a cool match and spending $ on taking women out for dinners/movies is crazy...
besides, instead of saying what every other dude is saying "how bout we grab a coffee sometime.." saying "i need a new shirt, so why don't you meet me at the mall to help me out" is alot better..
first, its different then every other douche that tries to pick her up
second, you subconciously appear like more of a man.. hey come with me to help me get a shirt because you aren't asking for PERMISSION.. your being a MAN.
pinhead
19-03-2009, 01:53 PM
Depends on your intentions with the girl. Do you see yourself going a bit further....or just for fun?
If you want to pursue something of meaning...I do agree with the coffee thing. You need somewhere the both of you can actually converse. And, a girl always loves dessert...coffee and cheesecake?
If you just want a fling...go with the dinner at your house. Any guy who can cook me a meal....is always gonna get some of MY dessert afterwards!
Only because this on a second date is a little quick...so if she's smart; she'll pick up the signals.
But...most woman are oblivious to men's intentions. Than again...it's been forever since I've been on a "real" date.
Good luck...let us know how it pans out.
Wanna come over for dinner :ht
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