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pseclint
27-01-2009, 01:29 AM
Just bored here and thought I would maybe start posting a little more considering I've been here for 2.5 years......
How does the number of dick a woman take influence your decision on whether or not to date them? Now im not saying dicks at one time but how many sex partners they have had? I have no idea where I stand on it but would like to find a chick in single digits...... also
Would you date a chick that has been tag teamed?
Discuss
ps I rule
Van Zan
27-01-2009, 02:44 AM
A better question would be how many dicks in a certain frame of time would influence your decision...
I dunno but if she had 20 different dick per years for the last 4 years. I would seriously think about it
waderow
27-01-2009, 07:33 AM
looking for a virgin over here.
natenator
27-01-2009, 08:26 AM
here's a question: how would you know?
I have a rule when dating... don't ask and don't tell unless you REALLY want to know and can be prepared for the answer that flows back.
kawikaratekid
27-01-2009, 08:37 AM
If the role was reversed I would be screwed if a girl wouldn't date me because of how many girls I've slept with. So I don't even bother asking because I know they'll ask me then.
I have a rule when dating... don't ask and don't tell unless you REALLY want to know and can be prepared for the answer that flows back.
ditto
when i was younger i used to get mad grossed out if a girl had 10+, but now i dont really care, now i preffer it if they have a boyfriend
when im dating a girl, ill ask her, and i preffer that number to be low instead of high (she'll probably lie anyways) but she should still know how to ****. my last girlfriend i loved for her personality/brains but she was terrible in the sack and it didnt work out :`(
canadianmuscle0803
27-01-2009, 09:08 AM
i myself am pretty much married, and i can say that the past of a women or a man should not matter, everyone makes mistakes in their lives, if you find a women you love then it should not matter, if she's still a whore then its not true love.
Definitely a turn off for me. Innocence is something I look for in a woman, so knowing she's been a hore before, definitely not a good thing. I just prefer not knowing and keep my illusions
natenator
27-01-2009, 09:11 AM
i myself am pretty much married, and i can say that the past of a women or a man should not matter, everyone makes mistakes in their lives, if you find a women you love then it should not matter, if she's still a whore then its not true love.
unless she's a true whore with you and only you then I say it is TRUE love :D
canadianmuscle0803
27-01-2009, 09:16 AM
unless she's a true whore with you and only you then I say it is TRUE love :D
a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets!! FTW
champcar99
27-01-2009, 09:33 AM
If the role was reversed I would be screwed if a girl wouldn't date me because of how many girls I've slept with. So I don't even bother asking because I know they'll ask me then.
that makes to of us..I have banged so many I can't remember them all. My last girlfriend used to get so mad that everytime we went out no matter where we went I always bumped into a girl that I have ****ed.. I do like a girl that knows how to **** but generally not really into dirty sluts they are good for a night out but not around my arm so to speak.. I used to ask them how many but not anymore you can usually tell if they are a slut or not..."you can't turn a hoe in to a housewife"
champcar99
27-01-2009, 09:34 AM
a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets!! FTW
for the right price bro...$$$$$$$
waderow
27-01-2009, 10:07 AM
I will not ask how many guys she has shamelessly ****ed, but if I am going to date a girl with potential, I must know how many relationships she has had and how long they lasted. As I am done with these ****ing bitches who cycle through men every 6 months of their life
JonnyO
27-01-2009, 12:35 PM
Just bored here and thought I would maybe start posting a little more considering I've been here for 2.5 years......
How does the number of dick a woman take influence your decision on whether or not to date them? Now im not saying dicks at one time but how many sex partners they have had? I have no idea where I stand on it but would like to find a chick in single digits...... also
Would you date a chick that has been tag teamed?
Discuss
ps I rule
It plays a bog part in whether they are girlfriend material or just a chick to hang out with, date for a bit to have some fun with.
Most girls I've dates Im sure have taken a few more dicks than I am willing to deal with. And I'd rather not even know the answer from most of them, but thats why they werent girlfriends. If I could sleep with one the first night or the first real time we really hung out together or whatever then thats a signal for me to keep her at bay and hang with for fun as the respect is gone from me.
But if she's not giving it up at first, I respect that much more as she most likely has higher morals and self respect and less chance she's had many one nighters.
Most of my girlsfriends I've had long term slept with no more that 1-2 guys.
I'm happily married now and am so glad I'm out of that game now.
Ritch
27-01-2009, 01:50 PM
I have a sixth sense knowing if a girl is a whore or not. One group of girls I stay away from are today`s younger girls in the lower 20`s. Sluts. At that age most are going to bars getting drunk and increasing their sexual encounters by the week. Most have been tag teamed which is the one of the biggest turn off`s I can think of. My ideal woman is in her late 20`s early 30`s who has had many long term relationships and is not playing around. Face it, they don`t have the time to be messing around and have some life experience and just more mature. Plus if she is still pretty and not fat at that age it`s more likely she`s stay that way. Lot`s of girls are hot younger, but end up looking like a train wreck later on in life due to bad life habits. And if you hooked up with one of them and married one, you`re stuck with her, then if you divorce and most likely will, half your shit is gone. No thanks.
gordi
27-01-2009, 01:57 PM
Loyalty and honesty are big turn-ons for me, personally. I haven't had a ton of one night stands, but I've had enough to know that it's not really what I'm looking for. I'm a relationship guy. No disrespect to guys who prefer to sleep around, that's just what works for me.
That being said, what a woman has done in the past isn't as important to me as where her head's at now. Probably a woman who's slept with a lot of guys will be less likely to want a relationship... but not necessarily. I've been with more than a few women, but at this stage in my life I have no need to sleep around any more. If I met a woman who's at a similar point, I'd be OK with her past, and I think it'd be a bit hypocritical if I wasn't.
Of course, I am a married man now, so it's a moot point... She's OK with my past because she knows she can trust me, and I don't really need to worry about her past.
ubcpower
27-01-2009, 01:59 PM
they will never tell the true number anyways
guest
27-01-2009, 02:14 PM
bahahaha......so many 'experts' tooting the horn.
it shouldnt matter, but it does because we have pride.
a friend of mine married a girl that was tagged by me and his best man. guess it didnt matter to him, lol.
Ritch
27-01-2009, 02:23 PM
While we`re on the subject of numbers, here`s a real funny clip on the subject, just skip the first 45 seconds the rest is gold. Enjoy!
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pinhead
27-01-2009, 03:24 PM
It's very important to me. Too many girls are whores nowadays. Don't want to be with one whether she's made "mistakes" or not.
By my age and past experiences, I would believe upward of 60% of women are whores. The wholesome one's are usually happily married or in long term relationships. As time goes on, women seem to be more and more liberal with sex which is rather sad. Majority of women lie too which is a huge turn off. But sex with whores isn't bad :D
waderow
27-01-2009, 04:25 PM
you should see teens these days. they are ****ing EVERYBODY. sending nude pics around. casual sex with whomever, when ever. my cousins kid bangs his girlfriends friends all the time. they send him a pic of their ****, and he says "come over".
Nothing like when i was young. Nothing.
Van Zan
27-01-2009, 04:42 PM
you should see teens these days. they are ****ing EVERYBODY. sending nude pics around. casual sex with whomever, when ever. my cousins kid bangs his girlfriends friends all the time. they send him a pic of their ****, and he says "come over".
Nothing like when i was young. Nothing.
dammit wish I could be 15 younger lol
If a girl has been tag teamed she is a complete write off. Any girl that has that little self respect to participate in that action is an utterly dirty skank. I made the mistake of seeing this one girl who was a HUGE slut before I met her, but I was unaware. Numbers do matter, it has a lot to do with how the girl sees herself, and that she has some self respect. The girls that are out trashing it up are insecure and hop on anyone that shows interest. Do you want to be in a relationship with someone that turns down virtually nobody? What does that say about you?
P.S.
I rule
pinhead
27-01-2009, 04:55 PM
If a girl has been tag teamed she is a complete write off. Any girl that has that little self respect to participate in that action is an utterly dirty skank. I made the mistake of seeing this one girl who was a HUGE slut before I met her, but I was unaware. Numbers do matter, it has a lot to do with how the girl sees herself, and that she has some self respect. The girls that are out trashing it up are insecure and hop on anyone that shows interest. Do you want to be in a relationship with someone that turns down virtually nobody? What does that say about you?
P.S.
I rule
Nice. Wanna mate? :D
um....no.... did you not see my gf's pic i posted? i win
turboturist
27-01-2009, 05:04 PM
Bana's buddy has the right idea IMO. Who ****ing cares.
Let me ask you a question Clint. You have your few years of fun and **** around a bunch now you meet a girl you genuinely care about. Do you **** around on her? If so then your a dirt bag, lol. If not then why do you think she would be any different?
I think if a women sleeps around and then decides to be with you it should be taken as a compliment, not something to worry about.
And just to clarify what is your definition of a slut or whore, aside from the obvious?
I dont really consider a women a whore untill she has cheated on someone or proven to be one regardless of the amount of partners. If they are just having fun no worries.
ironwill
27-01-2009, 05:07 PM
There is a thread on here about hores, i already contributed my thoughts on the matter at hand...lol...
seriously, i couldnt give a rats ass what a GIRL was, i care more about what the LADY is like now...key words, girl/lady...
Gi
Good luck finding a young super hot chick that hasn't been rode 1000 times.
turboturist
27-01-2009, 05:10 PM
If a girl has been tag teamed she is a complete write off. Any girl that has that little self respect to participate in that action is an utterly dirty skank. I made the mistake of seeing this one girl who was a HUGE slut before I met her, but I was unaware. Numbers do matter, it has a lot to do with how the girl sees herself, and that she has some self respect. The girls that are out trashing it up are insecure and hop on anyone that shows interest. Do you want to be in a relationship with someone that turns down virtually nobody? What does that say about you?
P.S.
I rule
So you would rather settle down with someone who has had say 8-9 partners then 10-12 years into the realastionship she starts to "wonder" what other dick feels like. their goes all the time you invested in that relationship.
**** that get it out of your/her system and then we will talk.
This is exactly why "high school" sweet hearts dont last and it goes both ways, without that experience no matter how much you care about someone you will be curious and so will she. And curiosity kills the cat.
turboturist
27-01-2009, 05:11 PM
Good luck finding a young super hot chick that hasn't been rode 1000 times.
I have said it before bro,
Its like a pigs nose, you cant wear it out.
ironwill
27-01-2009, 05:13 PM
and to add further TT, it is like an earing hole, if you dont put something in it....It will grow over...we dont want that now do we??
buildinthaskinnys
27-01-2009, 05:16 PM
Do I care how many partners she had? not really, its none of my business, but how many times has she had unprotected sex? now I am interested.
Before the advent of the internet adults and teenagers alike were having sex, lots of it, only you never heard about it like you do now.
People who go out to the bar to get drunk and pickup trash to sleep with are filthy thats for sure, but people who have multiple partners through many relationships I have no problem with, thats natural.
I dont know why that even today everyone looks down upon sex, like there is something wrong with sampling different varieties, maybe if our views were more liberal we wouldnt have so many problems with stds and teen pregnancys.
damn people
turboturist
27-01-2009, 05:18 PM
and to add further TT, it is like an earing hole, if you dont put something in it....It will grow over...we dont want that now do we??
lol, I dont think we need to worry about that.
You know if she is not getting the old one eyed beach weasel she is putting something in there herself.
So you would rather settle down with someone who has had say 8-9 partners then 10-12 years into the realastionship she starts to "wonder" what other dick feels like. their goes all the time you invested in that relationship.
**** that get it out of your/her system and then we will talk.
This is exactly why "high school" sweet hearts dont last and it goes both ways, without that experience no matter how much you care about someone you will be curious and so will she. And curiosity kills the cat.
you have a point with the curiosity thing, but she's a lot less likely to wonder if you keep her satisfied. any girl whos wanting to "branch out" years into a relationship is a whore. shes just a whore in waiting. the grass is always greener for those who dont appreciate what they have.
turboturist
27-01-2009, 05:50 PM
you have a point with the curiosity thing, but she's a lot less likely to wonder if you keep her satisfied.
Difference of opinion I guess. I believe the exact opposite. If you have not had many partners you wonder, if you have had a bunch you KNOW what you like and there is no wondering, IMO.
waderow
27-01-2009, 06:02 PM
If a girl is going to cheat on you, she is a cheating whore. I dont care if she was a virgin when you met, or had 100 cocks. It is a mental thing.
If a girl is true, and respectful, she will not cheat. She may look, and fantasize, as we all do, but if she is a good girl, you can trust her. if she isn't, then shes a whore.
Also, life style is a part. If she is out getting ****ed up drunk every weekend without you, its a good sign that she is probably not happy, and is a matter of time until she spreads.
I would say that from age 18-25, 75% would cheat.
from 25-30, 50%
from 30-40 75% lol
from 40-50 25%
from 50-60 50%
kind of fluctuates. at certain ages women settle, then they get horny again. Some 50-60 YO women will **** a farm animal if they know nobody will see.
natenator
27-01-2009, 06:15 PM
Some 50-60 YO women will **** a farm animal if they know nobody will see.
How much test ARE you on if you know this??? lol
turboturist
27-01-2009, 06:22 PM
How much test ARE you on if you know this??? lol
Maybe he looks like a farm animal and I am not talking about hung like one.
natenator
27-01-2009, 06:26 PM
Maybe he looks like a farm animal and I am not talking about hung like one.
:yeah
waderow
27-01-2009, 06:44 PM
there is swinging going on at that age group in many communities. that 50-60 group... its like they don't care anymore. Not all of them of course, but in one town alone there was like 12 divorces one year from all the cheating and swinging going on.
natenator
27-01-2009, 07:02 PM
wade: If you lived in Ottawa this would be right up your alley: http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=11124097
:D
kloan
27-01-2009, 08:41 PM
wade: If you lived in Ottawa this would be right up your alley: http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=11124097
:D
nice find ...lol
waderow
27-01-2009, 11:17 PM
nate.... did you get a taste?
oh man... paraplegic midget... who is looking for fulfillment through meaningless sex. lol
varking
28-01-2009, 12:12 AM
depending on their age.. but less is always better b/c no one like to hear about some guy ****ing there girl....
wrought
28-01-2009, 10:46 AM
Meh, if a person (man or woman) has a significant number of sexual partners it basically says that they either have low standards, or shitty self esteem (usually its both) and for the ones who claim "but they were all people I was in a relationship with" it means that they have no ****ing clue what they want out of life and have bounced from relationship to relationship learning nothing in the process.
So yeah, if you're a decent guy who holds himself to the same high standards he expects from his women then the number of partners a girl has had is important..... but then again, if you're a stupid, ugly ****er you shouldn't be asking these kinds of questions, you should just be grateful that you found a woman who isn't running away at the sight of you. :D
natenator
28-01-2009, 10:51 AM
but then again, if you're a stupid, ugly ****er you shouldn't be asking these kinds of questions, you should just be grateful that you found a woman who isn't running away at the sight of you. :D
Sometimes it is a fine line as to which is which lol
wrought
28-01-2009, 10:55 AM
Sometimes it is a fine line as to which is which lol
lol, if you've got to tell yourself that then you're probably playing for Team Don't-Ask. :D
natenator
28-01-2009, 11:05 AM
nah. Just depends on how I had to drink. Thankfully I pretty much given up drinking :)
drdnj
28-01-2009, 12:10 PM
nah. Just depends on how I had to drink. Thankfully I pretty much given up drinking :)
hahahaha
guest
28-01-2009, 12:32 PM
Meh, if a person (man or woman) has a significant number of sexual partners it basically says that they either have low standards, or shitty self esteem (usually its both)
um....i have higher standards for 'relationships' than i do for one nighters.
should one rather masturbate than let a new girl blow them because she isnt wife material?
will steroids help with my low self esteem?
ironwill
28-01-2009, 12:44 PM
um....i have higher standards for 'relationships' than i do for one nighters.
should one rather masturbate than let a new girl blow them because she isnt wife material?
will steroids help with my low self esteem?
you read my mind....although masterbating is fun and all, you can **** whomever you want, and make it as tight or loose as you want, and you are always the best...
We cant help it we are hot and get more offers than some do, geeze whizzerrs....
i cry at night in the fetal position rocking back and forth on my closet floor thinking of how low i am for having such low self-esteem...CC pats my back and tells me she thinks i am fine just the way i am...
now you know......the rest of the story...lol:lick
Born2Juice4Ever
28-01-2009, 12:45 PM
A bunch of Dr Phills and Opras on this thread LOL
We all have pasts for Gods sakes, and WE should never judge another human for their mistakes or past life style.
I believe that we do what is right for us in any particular time....an abstract concept nontheless IMO
I do not even know where to begin:D
My girlfriend is a P.H. in Psychology, I am sure she would have a nice piece to say about this...
B2J
B2J that is a nice sentiment and all, but lets be realistic for a second. If you want to see a girl in a serious relationship, potentially wife material, you should want to know about her past because it is the best predictor of how she will behave in the future. There is a reason why in criminal trials you are often allowed to bring up previous convictions when attempting to incarcerate and individual. Past behaviour is and always will be the best predictor of future behaviour.
wrought
28-01-2009, 01:05 PM
WE should never judge another human for their mistakes or past life style.
Damn right, fuglies need love too and its great to see that there are guys like you out there who are willing to step up to the plate and take one for the team. Team Don't-Ask! :beer
natenator
28-01-2009, 01:09 PM
B2J that is a nice sentiment and all, but lets be realistic for a second. If you want to see a girl in a serious relationship, potentially wife material, you should want to know about her past because it is the best predictor of how she will behave in the future. There is a reason why in criminal trials you are often allowed to bring up previous convictions when attempting to incarcerate and individual. Past behaviour is and always will be the best predictor of future behaviour.
When I was younger I had a saying... Feel'em. ****'em. Forget'em. I cannot even count the number of women I banged and it didn't matter to me if they have a boyfriend, were married or whatnot. It wasn't my problem if they got caught.
Fast forward to now. I am not that same person. The person I am having sex with is someone I want to be in a relahionship with or have the view that it could turn INTO a relationship. I don't want random sex (do I fantasize about it? absolutely but I don't want to do it) anymore. I want a sexual chemistry that comes from knowing the person you are with a kind that can only exist with time - not simply one time.
That said... if we used my past as the barometer then I'd be without anyone.
Now... me saying this is not to suggest I don't care if the person I am seeing/with has had 50 different partners lol That would be a problem for me and I completely understand it is a double standard.
countrychic
28-01-2009, 01:59 PM
you read my mind....although masterbating is fun and all, you can **** whomever you want, and make it as tight or loose as you want, and you are always the best...
We cant help it we are hot and get more offers than some do, geeze whizzerrs....
i cry at night in the fetal position rocking back and forth on my closet floor thinking of how low i am for having such low self-esteem...CC pats my back and tells me she thinks i am fine just the way i am...
now you know......the rest of the story...lol:lick
offers....what offers? the only offer you should be getting is morning glory and then some ;)
ironwill
28-01-2009, 03:34 PM
damn, busted...lolol....:ht BTW, you are the one that picked me up......lolol..
i was a virgin when we met...
macka
29-01-2009, 05:07 PM
nice find ...lol
hahaha she's from Thunder Bay, she used to live in my uncles (he's a paraplegic)special needs apartment complex.
I personally only ever slept with one women I knew was a bit of a whore but I never really dated her just met up and screwed. I slept with a few virgins in my day but my wife was not one but only had 2 partners before me which is good. Think about it this way...... Would you rather have a sports car thats been a demonstrator with 100 different drivers or a brand new one for you to break in. Women and cars are very similar if they have been driven too hard or too much they wont be as good anymore lol.
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