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gettinripped
27-09-2008, 08:05 PM
I have got to get this off my chest just makes my blood boil.
Her and i have been divorced since about 2004 and in my divorce agreement is says that i must pay child support in the sum of blah blah to the ex wife . Ok that is not the problem i have been a diligent father and always paid on time and in full for the last 4 years yet i get this envelope in the mail from child maintenace support stating that i have to start paying them Sept 1, ok this is where it makes my blood boil. So inbetween the time that the ex went through child maintenace and filed with them she cashed both my chegues for the 1st and the 15th of the month for child support and now the child maintenace wants to start collecting on the 1st of September. ARGGGGGGH why do ex wives have to be so vendictive just because i have remarried 2 years ago to a beautiful woman with a kind heart who accepts that i bodybuild and that i am happy and content with yet she always does things out of spite just to get my blood boiling.
I dont let this vengefulness out with my daughter that i have with my ex wife and always try to be positive and uplifting yet my ex always always feeds my daughter b/s about me.:moon
Anyways just had to get this sh$t off my chest cause it is my daughters birthday today and i will see her for a few hours on sunday . Just had to vent, rant and rave to get it out.

St
27-09-2008, 10:38 PM
Hey bro my mom and many of my friends had this shit feed to us about our fathers,but it doesn't take long before i figured it out,and the same for my friends as well,i don't talk much with my mother control freak that what they are it will burn them on day take my word for it.

gsxr750
27-09-2008, 10:40 PM
Absolutely agree with Tones, in time, they will understand the truth on their own, still sorry to hear that bud, hope you're feeling better soon.

gsxr750
27-09-2008, 10:45 PM
What goes around comes around.

BAM
27-09-2008, 10:57 PM
Have you tried backhanding her while speaking in a stern voice?

BryanWilliams
27-09-2008, 11:11 PM
when i was a kid , i learned
so im sure she will
shitty to hear man

rad
28-09-2008, 01:36 AM
Best revenge is to find happiness in your life and let the anger go. Your child will understand the truth in time. Best of luck to you with this though, it's never easy.

warlock
28-09-2008, 10:40 AM
Dude you're doing the right thing, living your life in happyness being the best father that you can be and ignoring the ex's negative atitude.

Karma will take care of teh rest.

xxSCHiSMxx
28-09-2008, 08:45 PM
Best revenge is to find happiness in your life and let the anger go. Your child will understand the truth in time. Best of luck to you with this though, it's never easy.
Yup Yup. What do they say, best revenge is to live well.

Don't have children, but I got an ex wife. :\ .. It can be rough, hang in there.

beserker
28-09-2008, 09:40 PM
I myself am going through a similar situation , i just smile every time i see the ****ing pig and that makes her angrier than ever........ your child will get too know the truth just hang in there bro

Durk
29-09-2008, 06:44 PM
It sucks that some woman do this shit to good fathers. They could be stuck with a piece of shit like my Dad who never paid a cent of child support and has only visited me three times in my life even though he lives 20minutes away.