Did you ever cheat? [Archive] - CANADA BODYBUILDING

rad

23-09-2008, 06:57 PM

I'm curious to see how many of us have cheated or not on their spouse, girlfriend/boyfriend. Since most of us are on test, maybe are numbers are higher, maybe not.

The poll is anonymous. Also I will make another poll on who has been cheated on and post up the link here.

rad

23-09-2008, 07:00 PM

Link to thread if you have ever been cheated on.

http://www.canadabodybuilding.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3198

Seth

23-09-2008, 07:17 PM

Never been cheated on. I like to think I would never do that, but deep down I'm pretty convinced that the only difference between someone who cheats and someone who doesn't is the opportunities that present themselves(and the libido at the time of said opportunity)

BAM

23-09-2008, 07:29 PM

I've cheated on every girlfriend I ever had.. except for this one Now.

She's a keeper.

ZeOne

23-09-2008, 07:36 PM

Never cheated on my wife......yet.

Vegas

23-09-2008, 07:49 PM

Nope, never.

physique

23-09-2008, 08:01 PM

i call bullshit! for anyone that has voted no. unless u are in your first relationship.

gordi

23-09-2008, 08:20 PM

I've never cheated on my current wife, and I sincerely hope I never do. I've been tempted, sure...

I did cheat on my first wife, before we were married but while we were dating. Learned my lesson the hard way. Don't ever want to put someone I care about through that kind of pain again. It's definitely what kept our marriage from succeeding. Once the trust is gone, it's gone...

Big D

23-09-2008, 08:54 PM

nope never cheated

trykillthis

23-09-2008, 11:10 PM

Been cheated on. Will never cheat on anyone ever. If you want something different be man enough to get outta your relationship first.

Gettin'r'round

24-09-2008, 09:30 AM

no over here.

champcar99

24-09-2008, 10:00 AM

too many times...

Redz

24-09-2008, 10:01 AM

I did it on purpose, I wanted to break up with this one girl and I couldnt think of any other way so I went on vacation to Cuba and hooked up with a few chicks. Then I intentionally left an e-mail open ona computer with incriminating evidence. Got the job done!

Gettin'r'round

24-09-2008, 10:08 AM

Redz

24-09-2008, 10:21 AM

you couldn't just tell her you wanted out?
I tried that, she was really clingy and when I tried before somehow it always ended up not working. It was like I was trapped until the vacation.

dainbramaged

24-09-2008, 10:40 AM

If you want something different be man enough to get outta your relationship first.

x2

Keep in mind too, that during those times where you're thinking of wandering astray, your significant other might also be thinking to do the same thing...

Redz

24-09-2008, 11:39 AM

x2

Keep in mind too, that during those times where you're thinking of wandering astray, your significant other might also be thinking to do the same thing...She didnt cheat on me but it was definitely revenge for her going on vacation plus I wanted to break up so it was 2 birds with one stone ah well I was really young then now I`m maried and would never think of doing anything like that.

AlladdinSane

24-09-2008, 12:53 PM

Define "cheat".

guest

24-09-2008, 01:11 PM

sometimes yes, sometimes no.

spankmonkey

24-09-2008, 01:31 PM

Happily married, if I wanted to **** around on wifey i would never have married her.

24-09-2008, 03:24 PM

every time... still paying karma off for the last one :S

physique

24-09-2008, 08:50 PM

xxSCHiSMxx

24-09-2008, 09:03 PM

Voted yes, but highschool shouldn't count. :P

spankmonkey

24-09-2008, 09:49 PM

i find it very hard to believe that the guys who say they havent cheated are telling the truth. the question posed was have you ever cheated. that doesnt mean on the person you are with now, it means in your "ENTIRE" life!!!!!

i find it hard to believe that when you where a horny young teenager, that you never strayed. Even kissing another girl constitutes cheating you guys.

i call bullshit again on some of you!

Tell you what, some of us **** evertything that moved back in the day and I did not attach myself to anyone. When I made a commitment I was man enough to give said commitment the respect it deserved and if things were not going well then I ended the relationship and moved on. So easy on the accusations that some or all of us have/will cheat, some of us just don't.

physique

24-09-2008, 10:09 PM

Tell you what, some of us **** evertything that moved back in the day and I did not attach myself to anyone. When I made a commitment I was man enough to give said commitment the respect it deserved and if things were not going well then I ended the relationship and moved on. So easy on the accusations that some or all of us have/will cheat, some of us just don't.

okay will re-phrase it for you. 99.8% of us have cheated on someone in their entire life.

kudos to the guys that have never cheated, no idea how you can do it, especially back when you where young and drunk girls at parties would practically beg for your dick.

wrought

25-09-2008, 10:04 AM

back when you where young and drunk girls at parties would practically beg for your dick.

...shit, guess I went to the wrong parties.:help

trykillthis

26-09-2008, 12:07 AM

i find it very hard to believe that the guys who say they havent cheated are telling the truth. the question posed was have you ever cheated. that doesnt mean on the person you are with now, it means in your "ENTIRE" life!!!!!

i find it hard to believe that when you where a horny young teenager, that you never strayed. Even kissing another girl constitutes cheating you guys.

i call bullshit again on some of you!

Don't try pin YOUR lack of morals on every other guy out there so you can feel better about yourself. Guys like you make the rest of us look bad.

BryanWilliams

26-09-2008, 12:10 AM

Not on my wife, pretty much everyone else though yea

Amoral

26-09-2008, 12:57 AM

Define "cheat".

lol.

turboturist

27-09-2008, 08:11 PM

I have cheated and been cheated on in the past.

But I have not cheated on my wife, and dont think she has cheated on me. If she has I guess it will hurt if I ever find out but she treats me good and has never acted weird so i dont think so.

rad

28-09-2008, 01:34 AM

You know what's interesting to me about the 2 threads I started on this. About the same number of people cheated as those that have been cheated on.

Seems like women cheat at the same rate as men. That were "found out" I guess. They are much better than us at keeping secrets. That I am sure of. Just that right now, it seems by votes, that more than half of women cheat. Keep the votes coming.

Rhinobolt10

28-09-2008, 04:14 PM

dated for 4 months or so, I cheated on her towards the end.

Then, oddly enough she accused me of cheating on her with someone other than who i was cheating on her with. we broke up over that, and I never did admit to the cheating. I mostly just left her alone after that for a month or two, no phone calls or drunk text messages.

I realized almost right away that I ****ed up. pretty bad too. I started trying to talk her back into dating, but holy eff she was stubborn. So I gave up, started dating again immediately, and did my best to forget about her.... but... it wasn't really happening. Around the new year we started spending a lot of time together because we decided to work together...

best thing I ever did, we became friends this time. I had to watch her date another guy. And, I did my best to support her, but jesus ****, the guy was a loser, ugly whiney piece of shit. So around April I just got sick of waiting, got rid of that fag, and got my girl back.

we're coming up on 6 months, I figure I'm going to marry her sooner or later, we're living together and it works pretty well.

So, I wish I didn't cheat, but I'm happy it happened, because losing her changed me a lot, and now we're a lot closer than before, and we trust each other a lot more...