o/t girlfriends and gear

[MUSCULARMAYOR]

has anyone ever kept the usage a secret from a serious girlfriend? if so how did it turn out?

[pseclint]

yea, and she found out and she was pissed....... better off easing her into it.......

[Kronis]

I told my gf that I was going to use then later decided it was a bad idea that she knew and managed to convince her that I never said that and that I was referring to creatine.

Unless it's your wife or fiance I wouldn't tell her.

[St]

My wife knows,but all my friend in the gym don't tell there girl,just put them in another bottle.

[Mr.Freeze]

be a MAN!

[MuSuLPhReAk]

I kept it from her for awhile then told her. She did some of my injections but didn't like it so I took over from there. If you don't plan on keeping her or you aren't sure about the girl, never tell her. It'll come back to bite you in the ass.

[69challenger]

Unless it's your wife or fiance I wouldn't tell her.

agreed

[IronRobi]

I believe in being upfront and honest in a relationship. That being said I hid it from my last GF who I was with for 6 years. I told my current gf, which is around 2 years now, and even though she doesn't like it because of everything she hears on tv she supports what I do. It's way easier to just tell her then to sneak around and try to hide it then try to explain the lumps/bruises on your ass and why you suddenly need sex 4x per day for 3 months at a time then it drops off to regular again and she thinks you don't want her anymore blah blah blah

[Random Letters]

Not a chance. I don't see what either of us would have to gain from me telling her.

Let's be honest, we are using drugs that require a needle and syringe, and that is all she would see. She would FREAK the **** out and insist that I stop using.

[BAM]

Get empty M1t Bottle
insert vitamin c in bottle

Now you can freely cycle and have an legal excuse to the gal for your un-natural gains.

[Xplode]

Not a chance. I don't see what either of us would have to gain from me telling her.

Let's be honest, we are using drugs that require a needle and syringe, and that is all she would see. She would FREAK the **** out and insist that I stop using.

x2

I'm getting married this year have used our entire relationship (3 years) and I don't plan on telling her. She is not into personal fitness (she's fit, just not into heavy training) and would not understand.

I would tell her but the media has bastardize AAS to the point she would think I was going to Chris Benoit her eventually...

[gordi]

On the other hand, if it's your wife we're talking about... I think you'd have to tell her. If you are planning on sharing your life with another person, I don't see how it's healthy to hide a major part of that life from her.

My doc has just started me on trt. My wife works as a nurse aid, and she used to be an RN in Japan. She give me my shots, and I'm glad that she does. I think it's important that she be involved in something that's going to help me make big positive changes in my life.

If I ever decided to go beyond the therapeutic dose, I think that's a decision I'd want her to be involved in.

[Random Letters]

On the other hand, if it's your wife we're talking about... I think you'd have to tell her. If you are planning on sharing your life with another person, I don't see how it's healthy to hide a major part of that life from her.

My doc has just started me on trt. My wife works as a nurse aid, and she used to be an RN in Japan. She give me my shots, and I'm glad that she does. I think it's important that she be involved in something that's going to help me make big positive changes in my life.

If I ever decided to go beyond the therapeutic dose, I think that's a decision I'd want her to be involved in.

The big difference here is that you have been prescribed TRT by a medical doctor. If you ever decide to "up the dose" it is just you taking more of what the doctor has told you to...like popping an extra painkiller.

Many of us are in our 20's and 30's and taking more than just test, purchasing UG gear over the internet, and using in dosages that would make your TRT doctor cringe.

You also have the added benefit of having a partner that works in the health care industry and wouldn't view an IM injection with horror and disdain. The general public's fear of needles is pretty potent.

I hope that she is understanding if you ever decide to run supraphysiological doses.

[gordi]

Maybe I'd just be all, "Oh, hey, honey... the doctor said I should start injecting ten times as much for the next twenty weeks..."

[AlbertaBeef]

I would never tell my woman now fiance. Why? Because it's illegal and I don't care if it's my own priest nobody needs to know that. On saying this she did find a jar of EQ in my bathroom a year ago and freaked, her biggest fear was not my health but she absolutely did not want me looking like one of those bodybuilders in magazines in the gym like flex and MD...Go figure?? So I said I'd never do it again and proceeded ordering my next cycle :hu Now I have to be careful and use discretion which is the way it should be.

[Random Letters]

she did find a jar of EQ in my bathroom

A JAR?!?

[Xplode]

She's on a need to know basis...as soon as she catches me, then she'll need to know :)

[Xplode]

A JAR?!?

It's a new way of getting through customs...Stealth Jars :p

[Houstonbc]

i told my girlfriend when we first started dating but she was semi cool with it because her older brother is a massive bodybuilder so it was easier for me....she just didnt want my face to get "puffy" like his does sometimes lol

[tripleA]

I'm all natural so i have nothing to worry about.

[Kilburn]

u think smart people can't tell?

hm, youre holdng more water than the titanic and getting bigger each week. smart people notice these things.

[SiLvErBaK]

wife knows i used to, about 6 years ago when i was bouncing. If she found out i was now she'd proly call it quits. She gets suspicious sometimes.. i just say i've changed my diet or i'm training harder.

[champcar99]

I'm all natural so i have nothing to worry about. = I am not telling her...lol

I let my girlfriend , my sister and a good friend (who's a hot milf) know ... because I was ****ing scared to inject myself and they injected me for almost 2 cycles, just this week I finally pinned mysefl and it was nothing , so from now on I am not saying anything to them...Women have a way of throwing shit in your face sometimes...

[champcar99]

u think smart people can't tell?

hm, youre holdng more water than the titanic and getting bigger each week. smart people notice these things.

thats funny you say that, I was asked several times if i was on the juice..

[spankmonkey]

Man up for christ sake. Whattya afraid of? Listen one of two things are relevent here. If you love and respect the girl be a man and tell her. If she dumps you over it then the relationship probably was'nt going anywhere. If she respects you for being honest then you will get laid.
If you don't respect and love her and you are just putting in time then who gives a rats ass if she knows or not.
WTF would you lie? Its your body and your life and who do you think your kidding in the long run anyway? It's like bullshitting about smoking, ya so smoking is legal and AAS is not. Whop-i-figgin-doo. Bull shit always will come back and bite you in the ass be a man and stand for something. I am not saying run around and tell everyone you are on the juice, but don't go outta your way to BS someone close to you, fack it makes no sence to me at all.

[Xplode]

Man up for christ sake. Whattya afraid of? Listen one of two things are relevent here. If you love and respect the girl be a man and tell her. If she dumps you over it then the relationship probably was'nt going anywhere. If she respects you for being honest then you will get laid.
If you don't respect and love her and you are just putting in time then who gives a rats ass if she knows or not.
WTF would you lie? Its your body and your life and who do you think your kidding in the long run anyway? It's like bullshitting about smoking, ya so smoking is legal and AAS is not. Whop-i-figgin-doo. Bull shit always will come back and bite you in the ass be a man and stand for something. I am not saying run around and tell everyone you are on the juice, but don't go outta your way to BS someone close to you, fack it makes no sence to me at all.

Man, I know good bros who's girls were ok with it until they broke up and shit went down...I've had friend's who ex's called the cops and ratted them out just to be a bitch. So if you are naive enough to only think short term then by all means tell her. Hey, at least you will feel like a "man" for it and possibly have the cops knocking on your door.

[Houstonbc]

you think the cops are gonna knock on your door because some girl said you use gear?
even if they did they couldnt do anything......they arent gonna pull a search warrant to search your house on 3rd party info.
They arent looking to bust juicers man they got alot more shit to worry about.....unless you were dealing it

[spankmonkey]

you think the cops are gonna knock on your door because some girl said you use gear?
even if they did they couldnt do anything......they arent gonna pull a search warrant to search your house on 3rd party info.
They arent looking to bust juicers man they got alot more shit to worry about.....unless you were dealing it

Hello!
I agree, goes back to my original statement.., be a man. If you are running around like a school girl afraid of the cops comin to bust ya for smokin weed by the playground then that's your gig. If you are gonna make a growed up decision to use then deal with all that comes with it. Now if you are traffickin then expect to get caught, be smart and lie your ass off to everyone.

[St]

you think the cops are gonna knock on your door because some girl said you use gear?
even if they did they couldnt do anything......they arent gonna pull a search warrant to search your house on 3rd party info.
They arent looking to bust juicers man they got alot more shit to worry about.....unless you were dealing it


You know what i had two friends get there shit taking away by cops local and one by OPP,once there wifes turned on them not good bro.Yes they did get a search warrent fast and told were the coin was and gear was stashed in the house.

[Xplode]

you think the cops are gonna knock on your door because some girl said you use gear?
even if they did they couldnt do anything......they arent gonna pull a search warrant to search your house on 3rd party info.
They arent looking to bust juicers man they got alot more shit to worry about.....unless you were dealing it

I guess you have never pissed a girl off before. 10 vials can become 100 vials and then comes the search warrant because they think you are selling based on her exaggerated pissed off statement.

[Xplode]

Hello!
I agree, goes back to my original statement.., be a man. If you are running around like a school girl afraid of the cops comin to bust ya for smokin weed by the playground then that's your gig. If you are gonna make a growed up decision to use then deal with all that comes with it. Now if you are traffickin then expect to get caught, be smart and lie your ass off to everyone.

Man. I don't know about you but I am cautious not just for myself, but for those I "associate" with...If you are cool telling every piece of pussy that comes by then that's your prerogative and maybe your more "growed" up than I am.

[Random Letters]

Man up for christ sake. Whattya afraid of? Listen one of two things are relevent here. If you love and respect the girl be a man and tell her. If she dumps you over it then the relationship probably was'nt going anywhere. If she respects you for being honest then you will get laid.
If you don't respect and love her and you are just putting in time then who gives a rats ass if she knows or not.
WTF would you lie? Its your body and your life and who do you think your kidding in the long run anyway? It's like bullshitting about smoking, ya so smoking is legal and AAS is not. Whop-i-figgin-doo. Bull shit always will come back and bite you in the ass be a man and stand for something. I am not saying run around and tell everyone you are on the juice, but don't go outta your way to BS someone close to you, fack it makes no sence to me at all.

There may be way more to lose than a relationship and much more to gain than "being a man".

What if there are kids involved and the relationship goes south? Your usage of illegal drugs could mean the difference of getting or losing custody.

Bottom line is it's illegal and it can come back to haunt you. We are all chummy and treat it like nothing on the message boards, but that's only because of the anonymity of the internet and our comfort with discussing things with like minded individuals. In my real life, I'll keep it to myself until I have no other choice.

[tripleA]

If I was juicing, I would keep it on the down low to prevent any possible headaches. Who here actually improved their relationship by telling their girlfriend they're on the sauce?

[spankmonkey]

Your actions define who you are.

[Random Letters]

Your actions define who you are.

WTF? That's a random ass quote.

[bigdaddydrew123]

WTF? That's a random ass quote.

you is what you is

[bigdaddydrew123]

i did what i yhought was going to be one cycle three years ago, but 3 years later and like 5 cycles later i havnt gotten arround to telling wifey. its for her own good.shes proud of what i accomplished this way, not like all you cheaters lol

[Big D]

i did what i yhought was going to be one cycle three years ago, but 3 years later and like 5 cycles later i havnt gotten arround to telling wifey. its for her own good.shes proud of what i accomplished this way, not like all you cheaters lol

haaahahh thats terrible

[thelittleguy]

i've experienced all sides of this. basically, it boils down to your understanding of the relationship at hand, and all of the variables involved. some people are very vindictive, and things can go south really fast. your kids can be effected, your parents could find out, the authorities can get involved etc. then whos the man...its pretty hard to be the man to your kids, when they see the police putting you in handcuffs. Personnally, i refrain from it, due to the fact that i've had ex's find out, and then use it against me...not cool. but yeah, to each their own.

[lambchops]

been lurking awhile saw this post and thought i would add my input.

i told my gf straight up i was gonna do a cycle (which i haven't yet). we've been together for 3 years and theres pretty much no stone unturned so i thought why not.

she wasn't happy at first and a little worried but now she seems fine with it, shes actually interested in seeing the progression that occurs.

[Freebsd1977]

Simple: inject your girlfriend/wife while she sleeps, now you have shit on her. LOL!

[Diesel_250]

I told my gf, she does my shots when I don't feel like sticking myself.

[warlock]

I kept it from her for awhile then told her. She did some of my injections but didn't like it so I took over from there. If you don't plan on keeping her or you aren't sure about the girl, never tell her. It'll come back to bite you in the ass.

Do you promise?

[lambchops]

I told my gf, she does my shots when I don't feel like sticking myself.

mine is too squeamish i would be worried about some serious bruising. although i did have fun teasing her, telling her she would have to give me multiple shots daily.

[tex]

i told my wife.....i educated her on it.......she's cool with it.........now she just read this post and wants to cut my balls off.....i retract my former statement....wife is great.....i am an idiot......and thats about it.....

[Bigr]

I’ve told my girl. There’s just no hiding it from her. When my weight went up 20LBS and I was harder than trigonometry for weeks on end she figured something was going on in addition to “whey protein”. Besides, if anything goes wrong, it’s better for her to know what I’m doing. Anyway, I eased her into it over a few months, giving bits of information here and there and seeing how she reacted. She thinks I have a dysmorphic disorder and worries for me. but still stands by me. One thing I know is that she’s not a talker.

I personally think this is less an issue of relationship status (e.g., married, fiancé, dating) and more an issue of who your partner is. Does she gossip? Is she revengeful? Does she slag her previous ex’s? The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior!

[ubcpower]

any "mishap" or "oddity" that will happen in the bedroom will automatically be blamed on steroids by her...she may constantly be taking a measuring tape to your balls ;)

[Freebsd1977]

any "mishap" or "oddity" that will happen in the bedroom will automatically be blamed on steroids by her...she may constantly be taking a measuring tape to your balls ;)

Thought use made you horny like hell. Do her 5x a day for the next 3-4 months and she won't complain. :yeah

[tex]

some women will complain either way....too much....too little.....too rough.......etc.....not that i know anything about that......

[vigilant3]

Would you as a man trip out if a girl got breast implants?
If not, that's probably because she looks sexier for it, and you "like" that.

Girls that i'm with love my size and physique which I earned using a little help. I don't think they mind how it got there. If she can't trust that you know what you're doing (provided you do actually know what you're doing), then she's not the one.

All in all, if you're not honest with the girl or you feel like you need to hide anything at all, is it really a "serious" relationship? :S

[gsxr750]

Well said sir!

[Diesel_250]

mine is too squeamish i would be worried about some serious bruising. although i did have fun teasing her, telling her she would have to give me multiple shots daily.


My gf is a nurse so I didn't even have to teach her, I only had to show her how I liked to do it and it's been smooth sailin ever since.