Love hurts

[wolfblade77]

I've been seriously dating this awsome girl for 8ish months. Unfortunately, we sort of broke up this weekend. Constant fighting, trust issues, opposite scheduals (I work 16-midnight, she goes to school 8-16), personnal stressers for both, finaly pushed us to the limit. I'm a bodybuilder and aiming to become natural pro this year. She hate my sport.

We both love each other, no dought on that. But both are tired of fighting, being unhappy.

First question: how can a bodybuilder manage a relationship when his passes so much time at the gym, cooking, eating right, contest preping? (btw, she knew I was a bodybuilder when we met)

Second: Should I back down and accept the defeat of loosing her, or keep running after the girl I thought would carry my children?

[warlock]

1) when someone tell me that he/she has no time for this or that that person is talking about priorities not time
2)Read your own statement: We both love each other, no dought on that. But both are tired of fighting, being unhappy

[BBbox]

well, first, and most importantly: learn how to spell.

Second, you should really ask number 8 for his opinion, hes probably the most qualified in terms of maintaining a good, healthy relationship :)

[JifeLacket]

He's french you fag.


well, first, and most importantly: learn how to spell.

Second, you should really ask number 8 for his opinion, hes probably the most qualified in terms of maintaining a good, healthy relationship :)

[natenator]

well, first, and most importantly: learn how to spell.

Second, you should really ask number 8 for his opinion, hes probably the most qualified in terms of maintaining a good, healthy relationship :)

when was the last time you were beaten within an inch of your life? You're due for another...

[razorsedge]

wb77..you said there was trust issues..until that gets addressed, forget it...do whatever you want but if there is no trust..there is no relationship (that will last)...move on

[JCarter]

If she does not trust you or demand justifications or clarification of things. Get rid of her right away.

[GYMBRAT]

not worth fighting for, you have to put your goals and yourself 1st every time, we only live once bro. Follow your heart is all I can say...

[ironwill]

Get her involved with you brother......It is a great sport and IMO relationship building doing it together...Sharing cooking, prepping and having fun and watching each other improve.....Those that play together, stay together...If you truly love someone, and you are not letting selfishness rule your world, then definitely worth looking into some more if you guys really do love each other...You need to just set up some expectations, which means mutual expectations, and you may have to do some silly shit you dont feel like doing, but what the hell, you may learn some more about yourself....Fight for waht is worth fighting for bro..There truly isnt that manywomen we aremeant for in our life...Some sacrifices are necessary, but its how you look at it, that makes a world of difference....Mind set broham.....:beer

[moh2010]

I've been seriously dating this awsome girl for 8ish months. Unfortunately, we sort of broke up this weekend. Constant fighting, trust issues, opposite scheduals (I work 16-midnight, she goes to school 8-16), personnal stressers for both, finaly pushed us to the limit. I'm a bodybuilder and aiming to become natural pro this year. She hate my sport.

We both love each other, no dought on that. But both are tired of fighting, being unhappy.

First question: how can a bodybuilder manage a relationship when his passes so much time at the gym, cooking, eating right, contest preping? (btw, she knew I was a bodybuilder when we met)

Second: Should I back down and accept the defeat of loosing her, or keep running after the girl I thought would carry my children?

Man, si tu regardes les autres pros qui ont des blondes/femmes (Mark Dugdale, Jose Raymond, Jay Cutler...) leur femmes les suportes à 100%. Chacun d'entre eux ont dit que sans leur blonde/femme, ils seront jamais où ils sont présentement. Si elle n'aime pas ta passion et ne te supporte pas, oublie ca. Tu vas surement faire du culturiste/musculation toute ta vie. C'est un lifestyle comme tu sais. Si elle aime ton physique, elle doit comprendre que tu es comme avec l'entrainement/la diete. Sinon, tout le monde serait en shape...

Oublie la man, je pense pas que c'est la fille pour toi. Desfois, les relations c'est une question de timing (si tu es dans la meme phase que elle dans la vie...). Mais là, ça l'air d'être bcp plus que ca.


Je suis avec la même fille depuis des années... Ca va pas toujours super super bien. Si 75-80% du temps vous êtes heureux, ca vaut la peine de p-e réessayer. Sinon oublie ça.

[z83]

well said ^^