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honestly , were is a girl to go to find a good guy?? So over the bars and the ego's, and the "I have a great guy " for you date . Is it too much to ask for a normal , good looking male with a job ?? Just wondering cause clearly I am an asshole magnet !:wtf
Not sure.
I noticed your in Oshawa , that's my home town :) Got out of the dirty shwa about 8 years ago !!
Shortdave
27-07-2010, 08:41 PM
. Is it too much to ask for a normal , good looking male with a job ??
Yes.
kawikaratekid
27-07-2010, 08:55 PM
You'll find one sooner then later. Keep ya head up and don't give up!
Just wondering cause clearly I am an asshole magnet !:wtf
LOL. Any idea why you attract the same guy (not literally) over and over?
honestly , were is a girl to go to find a good guy?? So over the bars and the ego's, and the "I have a great guy " for you date . Is it too much to ask for a normal , good looking male with a job ?? Just wondering cause clearly I am an asshole magnet !:wtf
Still looking in bars?Many go online these days.They can still find assholes no problem.:)
tiramisu
27-07-2010, 09:55 PM
Normal? nope.
Big D
27-07-2010, 10:03 PM
I have a good job and my mom says i'm handsome, will that do ?
kidding.
I was thinking the same thing, if I was single i dont know were I would find a good lady.
some advice - always have a good time and smile. do your groceries at different times / different locations etc.. that way you'll always run into different people.
not the best advice but thats all i have :)
physique
27-07-2010, 10:42 PM
Yes.
she said normal dave. you are far from that sir.
lol
gettinbigger
28-07-2010, 12:28 AM
No disrespect to the 'Shwa but I think that's the root of your problem. My sister still lives in the area and is single too. So maybe a weekend trip to Windsor or somewhere nice is in order!
Shortdave
28-07-2010, 01:56 AM
she said normal dave. you are far from that sir.
lol
Oh I know I am not even close to normal, she was wondering if it was too much to ask for a normal good looking male with a job..... I was saying that it was too much to ask.
I think "male" is the only one that really applies to me.
monkey
28-07-2010, 02:36 AM
Most dudes can be good guy if they meet the right women! This only happens once in a while tho, and if you don't meet someone you care for... well then you behave like an asshole - this in turn attracts women and actually works better than being a nice guy...
this in turn leads to guys purposely being "less nice"/
At least this reflects my experience...
natenator
28-07-2010, 07:58 AM
Most dudes can be good guy if they meet the right women! This only happens once in a while tho, and if you don't meet someone you care for... well then you behave like an asshole - this in turn attracts women and actually works better than being a nice guy...
this in turn leads to guys purposely being "less nice"/
At least this reflects my experience...
you are not wrong b ut in general this only applies to girls. Women are much different - thank god :)
Mr Ontario
28-07-2010, 09:30 AM
a few ladies on here would just suggest you just switch to the other team :)
ironwill
28-07-2010, 12:00 PM
Ask Countrychic, she seems to have acquired the skills for spotting a good one....muahahahaha, dont aske her today though, as im feeling a cold shoulder....lolol..jk
tiramisu
28-07-2010, 03:19 PM
The key is to find a man you really dislike and then spend the rest of your life trying to change him.
wrought
28-07-2010, 03:38 PM
Just wondering cause clearly I am an asshole magnet !:wtf
Or you just have really shitty taste in men! :p
Lol, of my friends, the ones who bitch about this are the ones who get dolled up and then wait for the line-o-douches to form at the bar...the girls who found good guys almost always cop to making the first move.
tiramisu
28-07-2010, 03:42 PM
Or you just have really shitty taste in men! :p
Lol, of my friends, the ones who bitch about this are the ones who get dolled up and then wait for the line-o-douches to form at the bar...the girls who found good guys almost always cop to making the first move.
So what you're saying is that if you dress up like a slut and hang out in a whore house you probably won't meet a minister?
Whouda thunk.
guest5
29-07-2010, 02:07 AM
The key is to find a man you really dislike and then spend the rest of your life trying to change him.
that's funny.
theboss
29-07-2010, 09:23 AM
No disrespect to the 'Shwa but I think that's the root of your problem. My sister still lives in the area and is single too. So maybe a weekend trip to Windsor or somewhere nice is in order!
you did not just suggest that windsor is nice did you?
Big D
29-07-2010, 09:24 AM
you did not just suggest that windsor is nice did you?
lol I was thinking the same thing
natenator
29-07-2010, 09:26 AM
you did not just suggest that windsor is nice did you?
LMAO
True dat. Soooo true
musclegeek19
29-07-2010, 11:35 AM
you did not just suggest that windsor is nice did you?
LOL, they have the Casino, that's about it... oh wait, and a waterfront view of Detroit, lol.....
natenator
29-07-2010, 11:41 AM
LOL, they have the Casino, that's about it... oh wait, and a waterfront view of Detroit, lol.....
:yeah
Well there's me - I'm single and I'm not hiding, but then I'm old enough to be your grandfather. Maybe in the next life.
On the serious side, I've noticed a lot of single women have impossible standards, hence they remain single.
I have only one standard - that she's extremely rich...:goodluck
Im not hiding, Im right here.....
Im not hiding, Im right here.....
I think you misunderstood her post #8. ;)
gettinbigger
30-07-2010, 12:04 AM
you did not just suggest that windsor is nice did you?
I guess you've never been to Oshawa...Windsor is 4 star compared to the 'Shwa
I think you misunderstood her post #8. ;)
Is this still about the stripper situation? Jeez, give a guy a break. I really am a nice guy.
Ask Jifelacket or NeverDieEasy. Both can vouch for my top notch character......lol.....
BBbox
30-07-2010, 10:36 AM
^^ I'm guessing about 0% of the girls you have dated would agree with that
Big D
30-07-2010, 10:39 AM
I think we scared CC79 away :(
^^ I'm guessing about 0% of the girls you have dated would agree with that
and once again the hater critic voices his opinion. did you get picked last in gym class a lot or something?
:beat
lol not scared aways just taking in all the oshawa vs windsor conversation
, I have no problem making the first move on a guy I do agree that I attract the same type for some reason ?
I'm not interested in spending a ounce of time trying to change anyone either .
Bars are out !! ........... online dating ......not so good , but I like the change up gyms and shopping idea !!
I am open for anything to change things up :)
It's not about where you're meeting people, it's about all the internal issues both parties bring to the table, which results in strong chemistry, or attraction. You seem to be saying that you attract them as though you are neutral in the matter, which you certainly are not. They also attract you, and you choose to follow that attraction.
The people that you have the strongest attraction to are those that allow you to continue playing out your internal issues, such as abandonment, betrayal, etc. If you continue to get involved with men that you have very strong chemistry with, you'll continue in the same little dysfunctional dance, whereby they get to be assholes and you the slighted victim. I think most sense how it's going to turn out when they get involved in this familiar dance, but the intense feelings and sexuality that come with it are too hard to resist, particularly when one is not fully aware of what is going on.
GYMBRAT
31-07-2010, 09:48 PM
hmm sounds familliar LOL :-P
I guess you've never been to Oshawa...Windsor is 4 star compared to the 'Shwa
Windsor is like a bigger shwa. I have many fond memories of Oshawa actually.
macka
02-08-2010, 12:20 PM
If only I was single.....:greet
If only I was single.....:greet
awwwwwwwwwwwww do you have a brother then??? :)
I say change gyms and ask for a lot of training advice.:)
macka
05-08-2010, 11:21 PM
awwwwwwwwwwwww do you have a brother then??? :)
He's married too
deletedandgone
09-08-2010, 10:51 AM
Wow, I had the exact same question regarding the normal girls - where are they!? Reading through the posts - yeah, location. I know where to find good girls in Toronto, but they're at least 40 mins by car from where I live.
Let's reverse the situation. Have you tried IT conferences and generally any conference at College or Uni which has to do with computer science/engineering/applied science? Most guys are not complete nerds like in math/physics, have an education, and all you have to do is ask them about their project/poster/research. Does that appeal?
Wow, I had the exact same question regarding the normal girls - where are they!? Reading through the posts - yeah, location. I know where to find good girls in Toronto, but they're at least 40 mins by car from where I live.
Let's reverse the situation. Have you tried IT conferences and generally any conference at College or Uni which has to do with computer science/engineering/applied science? Most guys are not complete nerds like in math/physics, have an education, and all you have to do is ask them about their project/poster/research. Does that appeal?
it would ...............but I am out of college and have been for a while ,but I wish i could go back I am sure i would have better luck :)
deletedandgone
13-08-2010, 09:22 PM
it would ...............but I am out of college and have been for a while ,but I wish i could go back I am sure i would have better luck :)
You don't have to be in college to go to these events. There are a lot of seminars for people from the industry as well, the average age there is about 40-ish: mostly post-docs and profs plus industry reps. There is no attendance list or fee - just show up. Anyway, just my 2 cents. And I know nothing about events around Oshawa.
For me it's yoga classes and language classes next. Too many douches at beach v-ball, and salsa is loaded with gold diggers, plus all the late nights... Maybe someone else on here has a better idea?
Sexxxton
19-08-2010, 08:11 PM
I can help.
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