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Tired of the gymbunnies,strippers, and drama queens. And please don't tell me Amnesty International or some other shit. They're the biggest drama queens going. Where can I find a quality woman? and uni isn't it unless you want to play political correctness all the time. :(
kloan
18-01-2010, 06:33 AM
eharmony?
Dude, I tried eharmony and after 10,000 questions they said I don't fit there profile. Ah, ha.
Cut your losses..
http://realdoll.com
Spyder122
18-01-2010, 08:36 AM
One of my buddies joined a cooking class and found a sweetheart there. Try taking some kind of class of like that and maybe you'll find someone that way.
champion99
18-01-2010, 08:43 AM
PLENTY OF FISH ....LOL.. quality women there lmfao
and uni isn't it unless you want to play political correctness all the time. :(
I couldnt disagree with you more lol. Uni is probably THE best place to find QUALITY women. You have a HUGELY concentrated area of girls (of age 20-25) who want to better themselves. Compare the quality of women there to anywhere else, clubs, bars, coffee shops, gyms, anything really. Dont you take some post grad classes? Any smart cuties there?
If you dont have any luck within ur stream, try dating women in different streams.
Once you leave university, you'll see how hard it is to find QUALITY women.
natenator
18-01-2010, 09:20 AM
I couldnt disagree with you more lol. Uni is probably THE best place to find QUALITY women. You have a HUGELY concentrated area of girls (of age 20-25) who want to better themselves. Compare the quality of women there to anywhere else, clubs, bars, coffee shops, gyms, anything really. Dont you take some post grad classes? Any smart cuties there?
If you dont have any luck within ur stream, try dating women in different streams.
Once you leave university, you'll see how hard it is to find QUALITY women.
if by quality you meant quality sluts over sub par sluts then yes I agree.
Oh and who do you think goes to the bars and clubs? University girls!
LonelyBedouin
18-01-2010, 09:38 AM
if by quality you meant quality sluts over sub par sluts then yes I agree.
Oh and who do you think goes to the bars and clubs? University girls!
Yea but thats only a handful. That are the slut bar girls in uni. There are good quality girls in Uni its just hard to pick out which is which while on campus and single them out to talk to em
Dude, I have a BA, MA, LL.B., and I'm doing my PhD. Uni girls are the worst, they're all caught up in the propernss of it all.
haha, do like me, run a cycle to get the malnourished skinny androgenous look which girls are so hot for and let them come to you... or at least thats the plan
Dude I'm 44. I'm looking for QUALITY. Been there done that with a couple hundred pussy's and there's no satisfaction.
ubcpower
18-01-2010, 10:36 AM
ive been in school for the better part of 7 years now and i agree, it isnt as easy to find a quality girl as you would think. However, at UBC 3/4 of the 20,000 girls are hideous asians, the remaining 1/4 will only date gangster asian dudes with the odd girl attracted to white guys...these are the ones i lock my radar on
JacktheThriller
18-01-2010, 11:48 AM
take ur newfew or young cousin to soccer and hang around the soccer field spot for milfs
if by quality you meant quality sluts over sub par sluts then yes I agree.
Dude, I have a BA, MA, LL.B., and I'm doing my PhD. Uni girls are the worst, they're all caught up in the propernss of it all.
Just my 2cents. I went to YorkU, which is known for drop dead gorgeous girls, majority are as you mentioned, dumb material girls, but thats my point. Even while going to this university, i managed to meet and date 3 genuine, smart, cute girls. Maybe its just the stream im in, i tend to be exposed to math/science majors and not history/philosophy/Kin/buss majors.
But forget about it being university, its just a #'s game. Where else will you be exposed to potentially 20-40 thousand people in such a small geographical space? Maybe its just the people you attract? Or are attracted to? I mean i can understand nate only meeting sluts at uni, thats self explanatory.
natenator
18-01-2010, 11:57 AM
Just my 2cents. I went to YorkU, which is known for drop dead gorgeous girls, majority are as you mentioned, dumb material girls, but thats my point. Even while going to this university, i managed to meet and date 3 genuine, smart, cute girls. Maybe its just the stream im in, i tend to be exposed to math/science majors and not history/philosophy/Kin/buss majors.
But forget about it being university, its just a #'s game. Where else will you be exposed to potentially 20-40 thousand people in such a small geographical space? Maybe its just the people you attract? Or are attracted to? I mean i can understand nate only meeting sluts at uni, thats self explanatory.
Which was the tip off? The jock, business degree or mathematics degree?
Which was the tip off? The jock, business degree or mathematics degree?
Your sex stories really lol. You just seem like the type to enjoy purely sexual relationships with very little substance. And if youre only looking for those types of relationships, ull find them. Nothing personal. Seems you only brag about 3somes, sleeping with married women etc. This may not be representative of you at all, but hey, this is the internet :ne
natenator
18-01-2010, 12:12 PM
Your sex stories really lol. You just seem like the type to enjoy purely sexual relationships with very little substance. And if youre only looking for those types of relationships, ull find them. Nothing personal. Seems you only brag about 3somes, sleeping with married women etc. This may not be representative of you at all, but hey, this is the internet :ne
I think you have me confused with Daande or Durk. I don't tell my stories on here generally. I think I did once.
I think you have me confused with Daande or Durk. I don't tell my stories on here generally. I think I did once.
My mistake, didnt mean stories, remarks maybe.
waderow
18-01-2010, 12:23 PM
I think you have me confused with Daande or Durk. I don't tell my stories on here generally. I think I did once.
yup, you used to tell (hottie 17yo gymnast) but either you got into a dryspell, or you became a born again man :)
natenator
18-01-2010, 12:26 PM
yup, you used to tell (hottie 17yo gymnast) but either you got into a dryspell, or you became a born again man :)
uhh my stories were NEVER like that of Daande or Durk. Don't even think of comparing what I've written to them.
And pretty sure it was not written in story format. As I recalled I asked for opinions on going out with a 19 year old. I think she was 19. Maybe 21. Don't recall.
waderow
18-01-2010, 12:27 PM
uhh my stories were NEVER like that of Daande or Durk. Don't even think of comparing what I've written to them.
And pretty sure it was not written in story format. As I recalled I asked for opinions on going out with a 19 year old. I think she was 19. Maybe 21. Don't recall.
ahhh.......... still counts lol
but yes, agreed, you had more class then d or d
RagingRandy
18-01-2010, 12:27 PM
What happened to the stripper...That was short-lived. I had to leave the country to find a decent woman. I am about the same age as you.
natenator
18-01-2010, 12:28 PM
My mistake, didnt mean stories, remarks maybe.
Don't really brag either.
my philosophy is generally this: Those that can, do. Those that can't, talk about it.
try to go to south america to find women or thailand..
Strippers are short-lived. And Nate the chick was 19 and you had all moral issues surrounding it. Now, this is my ****ing thread, where do I find quality women these days?
Now, this is my ****ing thread, where do I find quality women these days?
have you been dippin into the tren? ;)
have you been dippin into the tren? ;)
No tren as of yet. Though I'm thinking of it. Just some kickass homebrew.
daande
18-01-2010, 02:27 PM
PLENTY OF FISH ....LOL.. quality women there lmfao
You know what on plenty of fish I have 2 profiles. One is for whores, it is me with my shirt of flexing, and some made up BS about me. The other is a real profile with no pictures and a real about me. Over the past two weeks on my real profile I have met 2 girls who actually seem normal (so far). They are both tired of meeting douches at bars who just wanna ****...If you put work into POF you might be able to find a real good girl.
Thanks guys. I'm tired of the meaningless shit. I'll give you're suggestions a go.
daande
18-01-2010, 02:39 PM
uhh my stories were NEVER like that of Daande or Durk. Don't even think of comparing what I've written to them.
And pretty sure it was not written in story format. As I recalled I asked for opinions on going out with a 19 year old. I think she was 19. Maybe 21. Don't recall.
Whatever you have to tell yourself to sleep at night buddy :)
tiramisu
18-01-2010, 03:24 PM
... the good ones don't hang out in bars. You're going to have to widen your horizons. Step 1, figure out what it is you like to do and then go do it. This will give you the best chance of meeting a woman that you can have fun with.
I love my wife dearly but after 10 years or so I've realized that she has absolutely no interest in fitness or hiking. Happily we both like to eat.
Enroll in things you like, cooking class is usually fun as we all love to eat.
Join a co-ed sports team for fun. If you're religious get your ass out of bed and go to church.
... and start making a habit of smiling and saying hello to attractive women. You don't need to go crazy just say hi to a good looking woman every day. It's kind of like taking vitamins, it will help over time.
... you also might want to have a good look at yourself. Are you the kind of guy the kind of woman you are looking for would be attracted to? If not maybe you should do something about it.
ironwill
18-01-2010, 03:42 PM
Im a lucky SOB, i met my lady on good ol musclenexus.......We chatted lots on the boards as were both in long term relations and thought nothing about each other in that way..
We always were respectfull to each other a few jokes here and there some picture comments, but no flirting and innocent., then one day i saw she was single via a comment she made on the board, and had been for quite awhile, and so was i......Then we ended up pming each other, chatted on the phone and then a couple of months later we met in Alberta in person...It all worked out.....
I think the key is treat ladies like ladies and not whores (until you get to know them and if they like that role-play) then you may have more success....
We didnt drink on our meeting and went out for a nice supper, hung out for the wknd and the rest is history....
I guess my point is you never know when/where it can happen, just as Tiramisu said smile lots, be polite stay away from bars for quality folks and things fall into place sometimes...Theres more and more ladies joining this site, maybe some are single, you never know...:shock
I had enough young ladies, bar ladies, etc., etc, and wanted someone that shared my lifestyle and didnt try and hinder it......It gets real tiring , real fast hearing complaints about what you eat, how long you train, etc....When someone doesnt get what you do.....
Dr.Phil, signing out....lol
Or is it Dr. Ruth westheimer
daande
18-01-2010, 03:48 PM
I guess my point is you never know when/where it can happen, just as Tiramisu said smile lots, be polite stay away from bars for quality folks and things fall into place sometimes
I agree. Finding a quality girl in a bar is like hitting the lottery, it will almost never happen.
waderow
18-01-2010, 04:07 PM
if you meet a "good girl" in the bar, you will find she will not **** you immediately, so for those of you with that m.o., it wont happen.
plenty of fish has plenty of wonderful girls. But they do not go for douchebags who want to **** the first date, and who cant spell, and have no class or taste.
daande
18-01-2010, 04:13 PM
if you meet a "good girl" in the bar, you will find she will not **** you immediately, so for those of you with that m.o., it wont happen.
plenty of fish has plenty of wonderful girls. But they do not go for douchebags who want to **** the first date, and who cant spell, and have no class or taste.
In my real plenty of fish profile I have a good about me and I only have private images and lots of them. If I lurk around and see a girl who I want I will write her a good message and send her like 4 or 5 of my private images. Seems to be working so far.
GYMBRAT
18-01-2010, 04:50 PM
met my wife in a mall where she worked at a high end clothing store. I was 17 yrs old, she was 16 yrs old.......and that was 20 yrs ago :) .......thats a looooong time LOL, but we still look and feel young, and are still very attracted to each other ;)
warlock
18-01-2010, 04:50 PM
They exist believe me they are always asking me to introduce them to someone but the problem that I see is quite simple:
I know no person in a long term stable sane relationship that at the time that they met was looking for a relationship, in all cases it just happened!
GYMBRAT
18-01-2010, 05:08 PM
its such a big world that I think one just has to try and travel/expand his horizons in that department, theres alway the right one out there for everyone ;)
Im a lucky SOB, i met my lady on good ol musclenexus.......We chatted lots on the boards as were both in long term relations and thought nothing about each other in that way..
We always were respectfull to each other a few jokes here and there some picture comments, but no flirting and innocent., then one day i saw she was single via a comment she made on the board, and had been for quite awhile, and so was i......Then we ended up pming each other, chatted on the phone and then a couple of months later we met in Alberta in person...It all worked out.....
I think the key is treat ladies like ladies and not whores (until you get to know them and if they like that role-play) then you may have more success....
We didnt drink on our meeting and went out for a nice supper, hung out for the wknd and the rest is history....
I guess my point is you never know when/where it can happen, just as Tiramisu said smile lots, be polite stay away from bars for quality folks and things fall into place sometimes...Theres more and more ladies joining this site, maybe some are single, you never know...:shock
I had enough young ladies, bar ladies, etc., etc, and wanted someone that shared my lifestyle and didnt try and hinder it......It gets real tiring , real fast hearing complaints about what you eat, how long you train, etc....When someone doesnt get what you do.....
Dr.Phil, signing out....lol
Or is it Dr. Ruth westheimer
You are the lucky one. :)
One of the best relationships I had was with a girl who wouldn't bang me for 5 months. lasted for 5 years. I miss her I do.
LIVEHARD
18-01-2010, 06:30 PM
Dude, I tried eharmony and after 10,000 questions they said I don't fit there profile. Ah, ha.
LMAO ^^ Sorry bro that was funny
You will meet her when the time is right. Call it fate it will happen
Van Zan
18-01-2010, 08:14 PM
One of the best relationships I had was with a girl who wouldn't bang me for 5 months. lasted for 5 years. I miss her I do.
wow 5 month. For me 1.5 month of no sex and the relationship is off
gregdoucette
18-01-2010, 08:47 PM
even the girls who u think are amazing can turn out to be horrible for ya so jsut date fall in love and if it dont work out jsut know u can handle it and eventually will find another.
i think traveling is a great way to meat ladies..
kloan
18-01-2010, 09:49 PM
Dude, I tried eharmony and after 10,000 questions they said I don't fit there profile. Ah, ha.
hehe, jokes aside though... that site seems to have people who are genuinely interested in finding a meaningful, long term relationship. might be worth giving a try if you dont mind spending the $$.
hehe, jokes aside though... that site seems to have people who are genuinely interested in finding a meaningful, long term relationship. might be worth giving a try if you dont mind spending the $$.
It's the religious thing Bro. You don't believe, no membership.
kloan
18-01-2010, 10:38 PM
It's the religious thing Bro. You don't believe, no membership.
oh, huh... my sister mentioned the religious thing as well.. i thought it was just a coincidence. so its pro-christian, church going kinda thing there?
i only briefly used it, so i didn't get far enough to find out if the women i was communicating with were uber religious.
there are lots of girls everywhere all the time. young, old, hot, fat. i think as soon as you STOP looking so hard and just exist as a person confident in yourself and successful, someone will find you, or you will be presented with an opportunity.
dont look so hard you cant see the forest through the trees.
Seen a few in church,but don't count on it,unless you talk with all the lady's to find out if there single.As for the guy its so true all the girl at my gym that work there are all sleeping with all the guy's,one big Fuk fest.
CanadianIron
19-01-2010, 01:52 AM
Good luck... my personal opinion would be to improve yourself, a good person is naturally going to attract other good people. You cant really go anywhere or do anything to meet people, good people are few and far between. I personally dont really think its fair for you to expect someone to accept you unless they're in the same situation as you, so IMO if you've been with a couple hundred women and you just want to settle down now, its only fair that you would get the same thing from a woman...
Politically correct uptight uni girls are easy. They love the shock value of someone blunt who doesnt care, or they will absolutely hate you lol. Just think of it like a game.
there are lots of girls everywhere all the time. young, old, hot, fat. i think as soon as you STOP looking so hard and just exist as a person confident in yourself and successful, someone will find you, or you will be presented with an opportunity.
dont look so hard you cant see the forest through the trees.
Best advice.
daande
19-01-2010, 10:48 AM
there are lots of girls everywhere all the time. young, old, hot, fat. i think as soon as you STOP looking so hard and just exist as a person confident in yourself and successful, someone will find you, or you will be presented with an opportunity.
dont look so hard you cant see the forest through the trees.
If you are looking for a good real girlfriend this is good advice.
daande
19-01-2010, 10:49 AM
One of the best relationships I had was with a girl who wouldn't bang me for 5 months. lasted for 5 years. I miss her I do.
You might just be a closet homosexual.
just passed the 15 yr mark with my wife (married for 10)
wish i could suggest where to look, but i plucked mine out of high school and i don't think that would be appropriate at your age lol. (nor mine anymore......./sigh)
You might just be a closet homosexual.
Probably you're right. I don't really miss the 5' 2" 120 aerobic bunnie physical education teacher who had substance. I wanted a 6' 5" smelly mofo covered in smelly hair. Want to meet up daanda?
deletedandgone
19-03-2010, 06:50 PM
I couldnt disagree with you more lol. Uni is probably THE best place to find QUALITY women. You have a HUGELY concentrated area of girls (of age 20-25) who want to better themselves. Compare the quality of women there to anywhere else, clubs, bars, coffee shops, gyms, anything really. Dont you take some post grad classes? Any smart cuties there?
If you dont have any luck within ur stream, try dating women in different streams.
Once you leave university, you'll see how hard it is to find QUALITY women.
I'm in grad school and the women here are only women by definition. I don't really feel like hitting on any of them. Even if they pay me to do it ;)
deletedandgone
19-03-2010, 06:55 PM
Dude, I have a BA, MA, LL.B., and I'm doing my PhD. Uni girls are the worst, they're all caught up in the propernss of it all.
Doing my MA and second that 100%
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