Don't know where to go from here?

[dremen]

Well i did'nt want to post this at all, but im kinda at the end of my rope and after all the crap i've been through this christmas i needed to talk about this somewhere and CBB seems the only place i can be open about how i feel.

I got fired today because of the ex-girlfriend who left me over christmas. I opened up to her and told her all my dirty lil secrets and AAS was one of em...the big one actualy and then she told her parents and they convinced her small brain that i was no good so she dumped me on Christmas, well if that was'nt bad enough it turns out her mother knows the sister(next town over) of my boss(god really hates me boys) and he sat me down today and said if i wanted further employment with the company i would need to pass a full panel drug test then he hinted "steroids" and showed me the door stating i was showing major signs of aggresion towards other employees and these employees feared bodily harm from me?????????? WTF???????, i have my own station and almost never interact with other people aside from break and on break im ****ing eating like a horse....lol

Mind you most people here don't even think i look 220lbs and they sure as shit did'nt think i looked 235lbs when i was 238lbs, but people i work with and our customers give me "that" look or make stupid bodybuilding jokes always looking for me to slip up and admit to "roids" as i've heard them say before.

Anywho im at the tail end of a six pack of Kokanee right now trying to figure out what i did that was so wrong in life to deserve such bullshit?

I have already used up my unemployment hours and by the looks of it everyone in my town now thinks im some kinda steroid bomb waiting to go off so it don't look good job wise. Funny thing is aside from some venting here at CBB im the quietest, kindest guy there is who in reality would never hurt a fly....lol

Im at the end of my rope here and im not scared to say i've balled my eyes out tonight out of pain, fustration and uncertenty. Im sure a few members might make fun of me for this post, but im so far gone right now i don't even care and won't even bat an eyelash at it.

**** guys i just don't know right now.......in the last few days everything has been torn away from me and my life has been turned upside down:(

I honestly think i may go nuts here. I was suppost to have a romantic dinner with the ex tomorrow night and kiss her at midnight wich is something i've never done and always wanted to do ya know?

I can't sleep, i can't think and now that im jobless i can't eat or train.

I swear god ****ing hates me guys.....i just can't catch a break ever.

Im gunna finish my last beer and then hit the sack.

Dremen out.

[kloan]

Well I don't have any comforting words to offer at the moment but one thing I can say is what your boss did was illegal, and if you have any fight left in you, you should go after him. Sue him for wrongful dismissal, get enough money to move out of that shithole town and get a fresh start somewhere new.

[Thorgrim]

Sorry to hear your life is in the shitter right now.

[warlock]

Well I don't have any comforting words to offer at the moment but one thing I can say is what your boss did was illegal, and if you have any fight left in you, you should go after him. Sue him for wrongful dismissal, get enough money to move out of that shithole town and get a fresh start somewhere new.

x2

[warlock]

Well i did'nt want to post this at all, but im kinda at the end of my rope and after all the crap i've been through this christmas i needed to talk about this somewhere and CBB seems the only place i can be open about how i feel.

I got fired today because of the ex-girlfriend who left me over christmas. I opened up to her and told her all my dirty lil secrets and AAS was one of em...the big one actualy and then she told her parents and they convinced her small brain that i was no good so she dumped me on Christmas, well if that was'nt bad enough it turns out her mother knows the sister(next town over) of my boss(god really hates me boys) and he sat me down today and said if i wanted further employment with the company i would need to pass a full panel drug test then he hinted "steroids" and showed me the door stating i was showing major signs of aggresion towards other employees and these employees feared bodily harm from me?????????? WTF???????, i have my own station and almost never interact with other people aside from break and on break im ****ing eating like a horse....lol

Mind you most people here don't even think i look 220lbs and they sure as shit did'nt think i looked 235lbs when i was 238lbs, but people i work with and our customers give me "that" look or make stupid bodybuilding jokes always looking for me to slip up and admit to "roids" as i've heard them say before.

Anywho im at the tail end of a six pack of Kokanee right now trying to figure out what i did that was so wrong in life to deserve such bullshit?

I have already used up my unemployment hours and by the looks of it everyone in my town now thinks im some kinda steroid bomb waiting to go off so it don't look good job wise. Funny thing is aside from some venting here at CBB im the quietest, kindest guy there is who in reality would never hurt a fly....lol

Im at the end of my rope here and im not scared to say i've balled my eyes out tonight out of pain, fustration and uncertenty. Im sure a few members might make fun of me for this post, but im so far gone right now i don't even care and won't even bat an eyelash at it.

**** guys i just don't know right now.......in the last few days everything has been torn away from me and my life has been turned upside down:(

I honestly think i may go nuts here. I was suppost to have a romantic dinner with the ex tomorrow night and kiss her at midnight wich is something i've never done and always wanted to do ya know?

I can't sleep, i can't think and now that im jobless i can't eat or train.

I swear god ****ing hates me guys.....i just can't catch a break ever.

Im gunna finish my last beer and then hit the sack.

Dremen out.

You just finished a relationship with a retard. Her parents aere low level worms, your co workers stupid, your boss is a snake, you town a shithole.

So uyu have been fred from all this bad relationships in your life and you are unhappy?

So many new doors are open and you prefer to feel sorry for your self?

Stop complaining, go live life, moveout of this crap town,, work in a rig or something like that, save money go back to school etc.

Put your focus and energy in something good for a change

[rob66679]

Well I don't have any comforting words to offer at the moment but one thing I can say is what your boss did was illegal, and if you have any fight left in you, you should go after him. Sue him for wrongful dismissal, get enough money to move out of that shithole town and get a fresh start somewhere new.

If drug testing wasn't part of your terms of employment, then he can't do that.
This is where a union would be a good thing.

[theboss]

hope things look up for you in 2010.....stay strong bro and get a fresh start.
we are here for you whenever you need us.......remember that!

[Ritch]

Move to Montreal. Shit like that would never happen here.

[ironwill]

Hey dude, you are a tradesman....A journeyman......take a journey, not running away kind of journey, but a new start and new view type of journey, nothing builds character and wakes one up like moving to a new area and getting out there....I think it is rewarding at times...

[marino]

Dremen, wow you got dealt a shit hand, now its all about how you handle it. I don't know whether you want to fight your boss in court, and or through lawyers or move on and get a fresh start. If you are a tradesman/journeyman put this out to the board and see if the guys/ girls here can't give you a helping hand getting started somewhere else. Keep your head up. CBB is here for you bro.

[Ritch]

You need Rick Collins Steroid devence attorney. Could cost you, but if you really wanted to get back at your boss, this man could make it happen. If not, move to Montreal...

[pw154]

Think of it this way bro - you've got no where to go but up. When you hit rock bottom and climb your way back to the top is when you really show your chops as a man. Use the new year as motivation. What doesn't destroy you makes you stronger. Take care of yourself man

[waderow]

well what you do Dremen is man the **** up and throw the booze away.

1. talk to the labour board
2. possibly a lawyer regarding the situation
3. look for a job, and IW said you may need to travel
4. quit thinking about that bitch and her family and think positive.

[_Z_]

would an employment type drug screening actually pick up ANYTHING steroid related?
i have been through many and never been told my test level was in the shitter lol.

what trade are you in BTW?

[theboss]

would an employment type drug screening actually pick up ANYTHING steroid related?
i have been through many and never been told my test level was in the shitter lol.

what trade are you in BTW?


sounds like the employer would be specifically asking for that....but not usually.

[Van Zan]

I agree whit all the other saying that its a unique chance to start over!
I dont know what kind of hillbilly town is that but you should move far.

[dremen]

It's real easy to tell another guy to man up when you're better of then him....lol

Man i don't like booze at all anymore, only had 5 beer last night and i feel like total crap today then again i've not really touched booze at all the last year or so.

Will try my best to pick myself up and rebuild my life.

[ironwill]

It's real easy to tell another guy to man up when you're better of then him....lol

Man i don't like booze at all anymore, only had 5 beer last night and i feel like total crap today then again i've not really touched booze at all the last year or so.

Will try my best to pick myself up and rebuild my life.


Dude......Im an eternal optimist, even to a fault at times.....But i gotta say, your opening sentence in the quote is silly....You are still better off than so, so many, no matter how shitty you feel, you still have your health, a long future ahead of you, a trades background, an education, the ability to get better and feel better.......You need to think of these things and get over the feeling shitty part bro....
Now what if that skank got knocked up and her shitty family made her take you to court for child support and dragged you through court etc...What if you had a terminal disease....Man im not gonna go on, but honestly, this is what seperates the strong from the weak.....YOUR MIND, no-one can take that from you.....You see it as a sad place, look at it as an opportunity to do better.....

[JifeLacket]

Sorry to hear it bro

You fall down 7 times you stand up 8...

[BIGABOY]

this is why i keep my steriod useage to my self and a few guys that I know, never to my woman or my parents


BIGA

[ironwill]

this is why i keep my steriod useage to my self and a few guys that I know, never to my woman or my parents


BIGA

WTF, you use them there steeeeroids???:)

[PdH]

You do have a valid legal claim in this matter Dremen, but is it worth it? You will forever remain the target of stigma in your workplace and probably your town. It's time to move on to other places and better things.

[gicantor]

this is why i keep my steriod useage to my self and a few guys that I know, never to my woman or my parents


BIGA

Ahem to that

[ab_chic25]

You fall down 7 times you stand up 8...

x2.

Sorry to hear about this, really crappy dude. I say move to Alberta lots of trade jobs out here lol or just get outta that town. Sounds to me like you need to take sometime and get away from it all. Hope eveything looks better in 2010. Just think of it this way, new year, new you.

[CanadianIron]

If your employer is going to drop you over something so minor and unimportant, he doesnt value you as an employee and you shouldnt waste your time helping a company that will never help you.

If your whole town knows what you're all about and they all have retarded preconcieved idea's about AAS, you probably live in a shit town. Move to a city and get a fresh start, rent a place, get some friends that share interest and find a girl that actually cares about you. Dumping you over gear, thats shallow and stupid, I dont really see how thats very different than a guy dumping a girl because she wont stop eating or something.

Anyways, drinking alcohol by yourself to make yourself feel better will only make you feel worse. If anything go for a run and make some healthy food, start thinking about getting out of there and some positive things that you could do. THAT should make you feel better.


this is why i keep my steriod useage to my self and a few guys that I know, never to my woman or my parents


BIGA

This^

I HATE having to lie about my use, but you just have to. Dont think of it as lying, think of it as denying the preconcieved notions that people have that are untrue.

"Do you take steroids?" ie "Are you taking magical drugs that make your muscles grow without any effort, that make you rage, make you a different person, make your hair fall out?"

"No"... because you arent taking what they know steroids to be, what they label as steroids dont exist to the definition that they know, therefore you arent taking what they are asking. You're taking something with the same title, just different definition.

The only people that know I take AAS are my wife and random guys from my gym that barely know me. I cant lie to certain people because they just "know" so I tell them Im taking oral prohormones. If someone wants to put the time into researching AAS on a fair level, I would tell them.

:greet

[tex]

Dremen, bro, I feel for you. I think the other guys have covered it all and you should go to the labour board for sure........as far as this **** and her ****tard of a mother.....**** 'em.....karma will come back to bite them in the ass.......if you arent comfortable in the city where you live you should move on.....tonnes of awesome places to live in this great country!!

[Sandwiches]

look at it as a new beginning

[buildinthaskinnys]

Make sure you get your severance pay dude, asshole owes you at least a week for making you walk without notice, and kloan was right he fired you illegally. Things are picking up out here in alberta,you could probably find a job easily.

[CanadianIron]

I thought his boss gave him the option of a drug test and he opt to quit?