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deletedandgone
27-12-2009, 08:33 PM
Here is the problem: with school, gym and work I absolutely have zero time for a relationship, but at the same time I need some woman in my life. The best solution that I could come up with is to befriend a bunch of single chicks, and then hang around with them whenever I get time. This way I don't have to invest in a relationship, and this gets my mind off a relationship.

Basically I'm around guys all day, so definitely lacking female company. Any suggestions?

dremen
27-12-2009, 08:46 PM
Here is the problem: with school, gym and work I absolutely have zero time for a relationship, but at the same time I need some woman in my life. The best solution that I could come up with is to befriend a bunch of single chicks, and then hang around with them whenever I get time. This way I don't have to invest in a relationship, and this gets my mind off a relationship.

Basically I'm around guys all day, so definitely lacking female company. Any suggestions?

Find yourself a good looking older woman with kids. She will be busy as well and when you do spend time together it will most likely be ****ing and cuddling. When i was 25-26 i was with a 43 year old cougar who looked 36 and all we did for 4 months was **** like animals and cuddle in bed. That was a very awesome 4 months....lol

There are ****ing TONS of chicks on POF bro just looking for dick even though they play coy ya know what i mean?

Mesage 30 hot chicks tonight and be smooth and by friday if you play your cards right you will have what u want.

Back when i used POF i was banging chicks left and right, night n day it was INSANE. Nothing really lasted more then a few weeks, but i was up to my nose in tail that's for sure.

Infact i think im going to create a new profile tonight so i can hurry up and get over this chick that just ****ed me over for Christmas.

Git er done bro:)

deletedandgone
27-12-2009, 09:01 PM
Infact i think im going to create a new profile tonight so i can hurry up and get over this chick that just ****ed me over for Christmas.


Yeah, sorry to hear that, I read your thread. Like the guys on there said - if she can't think without her parents, then move on. The earlier the better.

I'm not looking to have sex right now, I just need female companionship, like a friend kinda thing. This keeps me sane and focused on work for some reason. Sex does the opposite. But in case I do need pussy - yes, POF or one of my buddies at the gym - knows how to get hot cougars.

dremen
27-12-2009, 09:12 PM
Yeah, sorry to hear that, I read your thread. Like the guys on there said - if she can't think without her parents, then move on. The earlier the better.

I'm not looking to have sex right now, I just need female companionship, like a friend kinda thing. This keeps me sane and focused on work for some reason. Sex does the opposite. But in case I do need pussy - yes, POF or one of my buddies at the gym - knows how to get hot cougars.


Good luck finding a woman for just friendship bro. She will either think you're trying to get into her pants or think she' not good enough for you to try and get into her pants......lol

Honestly bro i have no ideas to help you and i don't think it's going to be easy to find a chick friend.

deletedandgone
27-12-2009, 09:22 PM
Good luck finding a woman for just friendship bro. She will either think you're trying to get into her pants or think she' not good enough for you to try and get into her pants......lol

Honestly bro i have no ideas to help you and i don't think it's going to be easy to find a chick friend.

I have one right now, she's cool being friends. I told her "either there is no physical contact or we're having sex" and she's cool with that, spent the whole day shopping, she picked some nice outfits for me. I call her once in a while when I'm busy with work again, seems to work out. I just need a few more chicks like that for when she's busy.

The problem with sex is it completely destroys my work ethic. I keep thinking about it, and can't concentrate. Just have to endure 12 more months of this work crap, then it's back to pussy.

daande
29-12-2009, 06:33 PM
Here is the problem: with school, gym and work I absolutely have zero time for a relationship, but at the same time I need some woman in my life. The best solution that I could come up with is to befriend a bunch of single chicks, and then hang around with them whenever I get time. This way I don't have to invest in a relationship, and this gets my mind off a relationship.

Basically I'm around guys all day, so definitely lacking female company. Any suggestions?

Im in a similar boat to you. When you figure this one out let me know lol.

Redz
29-12-2009, 06:37 PM
How do you not want sex? are you in pct right now?

deletedandgone
29-12-2009, 06:56 PM
How do you not want sex? are you in pct right now?

Do you like/want chocolate/candy? But if you're on a diet then you can't have it, right? Sex screws with my work ethic, period. So I am just trying to stay away from the stuff for 12 more months, that is all.

Redz
29-12-2009, 06:57 PM
Too each his own but I can`t go without sex it would drive me nuts.

ubcpower
29-12-2009, 07:36 PM
Im with you guys: doing a masters degree, training, some work on the side and a strict diet are not condusive to a relationship ...all my relationships have lost to the above reasons
let me know when u hav the answer

troy_trinity
29-12-2009, 07:57 PM
you do all realize that you can do pretty much everything with your guy friends?

Not sure why you specifically need a friend girl?

Sounds what your all looking for is a friend girl with benefits,,, just go to a place where lots of univ/college students go and problem solved (depending on your age)

LD4HW
29-12-2009, 11:10 PM
I want a girlfriend too...and a boyfriend lmao. haha

GYMBRAT
29-12-2009, 11:29 PM
call girls are cheaper in the long run

PdH
29-12-2009, 11:44 PM
call girls are cheaper in the long run

True enough.

daande
30-12-2009, 02:20 AM
True enough.

And Im a mental.

rated_rko
30-12-2009, 03:13 AM
too much drama with too many girl-friends with me...i stick to 3-4 girl-friends now....and the hard the is that i slept with 2 of them already so sometimes i dont know if we're gonna **** when we chill or not...lol...but im dealing with it

daande
30-12-2009, 03:40 AM
too much drama with too many girl-friends with me...i stick to 3-4 girl-friends now....and the hard the is that i slept with 2 of them already so sometimes i dont know if we're gonna **** when we chill or not...lol...but im dealing with it

Hahaha...You should always push for ****ing when you chill with them. Are these girls the same group of friends because if so that would be hilarious.

PdH
30-12-2009, 08:08 AM
And Im a mental.


Hahaha...You should always push for ****ing when you chill with them. Are these girls the same group of friends because if so that would be hilarious.

lol. You just dig yourself a bigger hole every post you make.

Durk
30-12-2009, 08:43 AM
you do all realize that you can do pretty much everything with your guy friends?

Not sure why you specifically need a friend girl?

Sounds what your all looking for is a friend girl with benefits,,, just go to a place where lots of univ/college students go and problem solved (depending on your age)

I prefere hanging out with girls. Other than a few close guy friends I really dont get along with guys as well as I do with girls.

L3
30-12-2009, 10:18 AM
when i was jacked up i was told numerous times by different girls that the lifestyle was too intimidating and i was unapproachable... biggest issue they had was with my diet....some BS about being so strict with my meals makes girls think that I expect the same of them

deletedandgone
30-12-2009, 11:40 AM
I prefere hanging out with girls. Other than a few close guy friends I really dont get along with guys as well as I do with girls.
Same here (no homo). After all these years of hanging out with guys only, I prefer female company now a lot more. Plus I get along with female friends really well, even better if they're single.

deletedandgone
19-12-2010, 02:17 PM
Find yourself a good looking older woman with kids. She will be busy as well and when you do spend time together it will most likely be ****ing and cuddling. When i was 25-26 i was with a 43 year old cougar who looked 36 and all we did for 4 months was **** like animals and cuddle in bed. That was a very awesome 4 months....lol

Well, I'm giving up on having a relationship. Might be out of the country in a few months, so I have to pass the time somehow. So what's the search criterion on POF? Has kids, and 40-43? :sex

Definate
21-12-2010, 07:44 PM
What a thread...lol

cog
23-12-2010, 05:17 PM
Well, I'm giving up on having a relationship. Might be out of the country in a few months, so I have to pass the time somehow. So what's the search criterion on POF? Has kids, and 40-43? :sex

I suppose it would be the photos..everything else might be a lie anyway lol.

BAM
23-12-2010, 06:19 PM
Have you considered masterbation?

evoke
23-12-2010, 11:09 PM
(if you just want sex) 40-43 seems a little old, don't you think?

cog
25-12-2010, 12:19 PM
(if you just want sex) 40-43 seems a little old, don't you think?

That age would be really ready.Especially for a younger guy.