Got dumped for Christmas:(

[dremen]

Everything was going great. We had long term plans and everything was fine untill she told her parents i use juice. Well her and her parents got together and decided i was not good enough for her even though i was very supporting and always put her needs first so they came today and got here shit and she told me we are over and she never loved me at all.

This christmas has been total shit for me and now as hard as it is to admit my heart is broken:(

I did everything right and never lied to her about anything EVER and just last week she looked me in the eyes and told me she wanted to have a family with me and get married this summer.

Honestly i think nice guys do infact finish last and i think im at the end of my rope. Honestly a bottle of Gibsons and a 9mm seems to be a good choice tonight.

I have no one else to share this with aside from my family here at CBB, don't ask me why i say family cause i don't know why it just feels like home here.

Best wishes CBB.

[BAM]

Sorry man.

[RagingRandy]

In my years on this earth I think my most valuable lesson is that life is tough. It always will be. That is what makes me appreciate what I have. You will grieve this loss and that is natural. But if you are wise you will learn from it and also be able to see the good in it even though things did not go the way you had planned.

If you want to hear some advise here's some....Knowing the mindset of most regarding AAS use I would never tell anyone other than my wife and only then for health related reasons. It is something that can be used against you(think divorce).

If this girl is so easily swayed by her parents just think of what would have happened once you were married and they were constantly sticking their nose in your business. A lifetime of that would truly drive you insane. I am a big believer in LEAVING your current family to start a new family. Hanging on to the old family only complicates things.

Keep your head on straight and do not do anything rash. If you are thinking about doing something questionable sleep on it. If it still seems like a good idea in then morning then it may be worthy of more thought.

PM me if you wish. All the best.

[gicantor]

Ouch. I know that feeling. Everything is going good you don't even see it coming. It will pass, but it will take time.

[PdH]

Sorry to hear that Dremen. Pretty harsh.

[CanadianIron]

She wasnt that great, its all good, get big and cut. You'll do better.

[cog]

If her parents can convince her that she never loved you then it's no real loss.You need a women that can think for herself.Not a child.

[kloan]

^^Exactly. Someone that is so easily swayed or manipulated by her folks isn't someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. It would be a nightmare.

It most certainly will feel like shit since it's a shock to the system.. not something you were expecting, and the timing couldn't have been worse. But it will pass and as long as you learn from the experience you will only gain from it.

Keep hitting the weights man. Try to use this experience as fuel for the fire, instead of piss on the flame.

:)

[metallord]

Somewhere out there is someone that will let you be who you are without letting other,s help her decide whats right.Its probably the hardest thing to deal with(a broken heart) but it is not worth the rest of YOUR life.Time will heal and you will be back at.

Chin up my brother,were all with you.

Metallord

[MMASTAR]

your in my prayers.

[dremen]

Shit thanks folks for the kind words:)

I don't want to sound like a suck here, but i really have not felt this empty in years so i guess im just trying to figure out how to cope.

I've got a bottle of gibsons unopened and it's just staring at me or im staring at it....lol, but i think i will just stick to shakes tonight. Can't say im going to sleep much, but whatever right:lick

Anywho because of work hours im not going to be able to get to the gym till monday, but when i do i think i will have a LOT of emotions and need to take it out on the weights i just hope i don't get kicked out for clanging the weights to much or grunting like a mother****er.

**** a 24 hour gym would be awesome right now, but whatever.

All you guys that juice need to tell me where you found your woman at if she's cool with it and don't hold it against you, PLEASE....lol

What a ****ing shitty christmas this is and god help me if i give in and get shitfaced at newyears:(

You guys have helped, thank you.

[tex]

what a bunch of ****ing assholes. if they are the type of ppl to pull shit like this, then you are waaaaaaaaaaaay better off bro. ppl these days really ****ing disappoint me......this is the epitome of chickenshitness if you ask me.....getting mommy and daddy to come and **** with your head.......this really pisses me off.....anyways....take your time to get over this properly and then head back out there when you're ready bro....

[Durk]

Had a g/f of 4 four years break up with me the day before my birthday.

Shes 19. Girls that age are dumb and fun, but arent really relationship material. Try someone in their mid 20's next time, and not a hairdresser lol.

Durk's list of girls to avoid getting serious with.
Hairdresser's - Insane
Shooter girls - Insane
Bartenders - Insane
Strippers - cant get any more Insane
Waitrsess's - its about 50/50 chance of being insane


Girls with a uni degree seem to be really great so far. Try picking one or two of them up.

Good luck with it all. Things will be back to normal in no time.

[rated_rko]

sorry to hear about the breakup...women are ****d if she can be manipulated to not love u at all...then she is not worth it...2010 is right around the corner man...just get ready for all the next yrs vags and u will be fine....i just chilled with my ex that broke my heart last yr and yeah i can say we try to be friends but honestly she tries to get me to have feelings for her again but it doesnt work.....ive moved on and only see her once in a while to see if she isnt ****in dying

[Talo]

Sorry to hear that.

You should try to find a girl who is into the gym as much as you . Maybe a competitor ( fitness or figure ) as they will understand your lifestyle a bit more .

[RagingRandy]

**** a 24 hour gym would be awesome right now, but whatever.


Talk with Andre....maybe there is an Anytime Fitness in your area.

[Chunk]

first of all, no one is worth killing yourself over...i've had family hang themselves because of some worthless bitch...it's not cool, and it ****s everyone else up (not to mention the girl who doesn't deserve that no matter how much of a **** she is)

you're still young enough to find someone, I went through something close (different reasons) but I survived and found someone as retarded as I am! :D

Don't lose sleep over it man...anyone who would break up with you over the christmas holidays is nothing but a HO! HO! HO!!!

[marino]

Sorry to hear that Dremen, just like said before if her parents run her life now you don't want this one. You won't just be marrying just her you will be marrying her parents too. Anyway pick yourself up and go out and meet a hottie on New years!!!!

[L3]

sorry to hear that bro. no one deserves to be alone during the holidays.

[warlock]

If her parents can convince her that she never loved you then it's no real loss.You need a women that can think for herself.Not a child.

X2

January to April = bulking
April to June = cutting

take care of yourself first and the rest will follow

In 6 months you will be feeling better and ready to have fun in life and maybe even lucky enough to find someone that is decent.

[physique]

its usuak;;y guys that do this to avoid having to buy a xmas gift, then get back together after the holidays.

but the other posts are right, if her parents convinced her that fast u are worthless, then u are better off without her in the first place. hold your head high, go out and find some new mitt.

[daande]

That sucks bro. You'll be alright, trust me. Like others have said keep doing what makes you happy, hitting the weights.

[GYMBRAT]

shitty bud! sorry to hear! I've always found that being too nice too passive etc will drive them away...seems as though they all like that bit of bad ass in every man!

it'll come around for ya, everything happens for a reason bro

[buildinthaskinnys]

Thats rotten dude but life goes on, far as her telling you she loved you and all that bs, well, its amazing what a girl will say after being dealt multiples night after night!! Too young man and you too! you should be crusing pelt street now! You have your own place? You should turn that into the kitten lair, different pussy every night just munchin' and humpin' 24/7! You heard of the cookie monster well you will be the clitty monster, awwmm, awwmm, awwm, awwm!!! Chin up dude, just move on and never hold grudges lots of livin to do out there. peace.

[Andre]

Talk with Andre....maybe there is an Anytime Fitness in your area.

If you are not too far from Durham come see me and I will hook you up with a free month to help get you back on track! Honestly, this girl has got issues if her parents still have so much control over her... If this did not come up now, it would have been something else down the road... It's better now than later!

[#8]

tough luck bro. come to london ill show you a good time.

no homo.

[PdH]

tough luck bro. come to london ill show you a good time.

no homo.

I like London. Particularly the Beef Baron. :)

[dremen]

Again thanks a lot guys. I guess what really kills me the most is the fact i was single for quite a while before this chick cause i wanted to get my shit together and kinda be a better person and with her everything clicked and i fell for all her bullshit lie hook line n sink er ya know?

Man maybe im just a big baby or looser i don't know, but im not the type to act all tough and put on a show for people. Im just myself and myself is a nice, respectful, helpful guy. Been called a teddy bear more then once by ladies so i guess im no "bad boy" ya know.

It's been a LONG time since i've really opened up to a woman like i did and sure enough i got burned and at Christmas no less....lol

**** it im going to order a shitload of test/dbol/npp and hgh and just focus on bulking up to 260lb.s and eating 8 square meals a day, ME FIRST for the next year or so.

Maybe this is what i needed to be 150% focused on getting HUGE.

Good thing im back to work now so i can afford 250 bucks a week for food.

Wish me good gains my CBB friends, and thank you for not being hard on me in this thread.

[metallord]

Atta boy ,****in get at it.Always take care of yourself first bro,youll be fine.


Only the strong survive!!!

[monkey]

Sorry to hear that..really sorry man.
I'd personally have to hate someone to break up with someone before Christmas.

Learn whatever lesson you have to learn about it and move on.
Succesful people always cut their losses early.. in your case, grieve a few days and MOVE on...

Feeling sorry for yourself is not hurting anyone besides you.. show her who's the man, move on and live / lift your life...


( You should be carefull with your AAS disclosure.. it is illegal, and you disclosed it to someone who was stupid enough to go tell her parents.. she is obviously freakin retarded)

[turboturist]

Not much to say that has not already been said. Good luck man and keep your chin up, it gets better with time.

[Van Zan]

Again thanks a lot guys. I guess what really kills me the most is the fact i was single for quite a while before this chick cause i wanted to get my shit together and kinda be a better person and with her everything clicked and i fell for all her bullshit lie hook line n sink er ya know?

Man maybe im just a big baby or looser i don't know, but im not the type to act all tough and put on a show for people. Im just myself and myself is a nice, respectful, helpful guy. Been called a teddy bear more then once by ladies so i guess im no "bad boy" ya know.

It's been a LONG time since i've really opened up to a woman like i did and sure enough i got burned and at Christmas no less....lol

**** it im going to order a shitload of test/dbol/npp and hgh and just focus on bulking up to 260lb.s and eating 8 square meals a day, ME FIRST for the next year or so.

Maybe this is what i needed to be 150% focused on getting HUGE.

Good thing im back to work now so i can afford 250 bucks a week for food.

Wish me good gains my CBB friends, and thank you for not being hard on me in this thread.

Thats the spirit boy! think of all the money you will save and all the juice you will be able to afford. ur so lucky

And then when your up 25 pound send a pic to her and her stupid parents whit a cum shot in the envelope.

[The Brick]

Brutal man, sorry to hear.

Def issues if her parent control her that much? How old was she?

[Ritch]

I`m really sorry to hear this Dremen. I understand why now you`re planning the cycle you`ve outlined. I`ve had similar thoughts myslef during times like that. From what I know strippers are understanding about gear as they`re around guys who do that stuff. But normal people in everyday life, forget about it! It`s just something you have to keep to yourself...

But like others have said, if she was able to be convinced by her parents, she`s obviously not able to think for herself. Not a good quality... I`m willing to be you`re the first person she`s ever come accross who uses, so that in itself, has it`s own shock value.

Pm me anytime you need to talk bro, I`m here alot!

Your friend,
Ritch

[Ritch]

I posted some funny pics in the off topic thread, some funny stuff! You should take a look to get your mind off things. And the pic with the link you must see...

[dremen]

I`m really sorry to hear this Dremen. I understand why now you`re planning the cycle you`ve outlined. I`ve had similar thoughts myslef during times like that. From what I know strippers are understanding about gear as they`re around guys who do that stuff. But normal people in everyday life, forget about it! It`s just something you have to keep to yourself...

But like others have said, if she was able to be convinced by her parents, she`s obviously not able to think for herself. Not a good quality... I`m willing to be you`re the first person she`s ever come accross who uses, so that in itself, has it`s own shock value.

Pm me anytime you need to talk bro, I`m here alot!

Your friend,
Ritch

Ritch, bro i've always thought you were a stand up guy. Thank you bro.

[faller]

From what I know strippers are understanding about gear as they`re around guys who do that stuff. But normal people in everyday life, forget about it! It`s just something you have to keep to yourself...



I think for the most part they don't judge people as much as "normal people"...

Sorry to hear dremen, hang in there Bro.

[pw154]

Sorry to hear this, I hope you get over her quickly and move on with your life to something better. She obviously wasn't worth it bro - even if it doesn't seem like it now - some time from now you will look back at this and be happy it happened, because you will be with somebody much better. In the meantime - reflect, train, eat your ass off, and bang all the tail you can.

One of my favourite quotes I live by:

"Out of life's school of war: What does not destroy me, makes me stronger." -Nietzsche

God bless bro.

[St]

In my years on this earth I think my most valuable lesson is that life is tough. It always will be. That is what makes me appreciate what I have. You will grieve this loss and that is natural. But if you are wise you will learn from it and also be able to see the good in it even though things did not go the way you had planned.

If you want to hear some advise here's some....Knowing the mindset of most regarding AAS use I would never tell anyone other than my wife and only then for health related reasons. It is something that can be used against you(think divorce).

If this girl is so easily swayed by her parents just think of what would have happened once you were married and they were constantly sticking their nose in your business. A lifetime of that would truly drive you insane. I am a big believer in LEAVING your current family to start a new family. Hanging on to the old family only complicates things.

Keep your head on straight and do not do anything rash. If you are thinking about doing something questionable sleep on it. If it still seems like a good idea in then morning then it may be worthy of more thought.

PM me if you wish. All the best.

Ya some Parent are bad,put shit into there heads.But Dremen if you are going to do a cycle do GH,with some gear that will keep you lean,and have a good diet,i will tell you from all i seen with guy that get ripped after a break-up,in a few month they have a sweet lady,they like a swimmer Build,and a man that dresses well,with nice clean dress shoes.

[pseclint]

some good advice on here dre.... dunno what to say other than good luck buddy and it gets better, i promise