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smilinbc
10-12-2009, 05:42 PM
looking for a bodybuilder FWB. good looking in vancouver, now here is the tricky bit. im a guy, looking for another guy

i am having little luck finding a big bodybuilder guy for FWB and dont know where to look/turn. been through all the craigslist rigamarole and everything.

any advice? interest? feel free to email me at tresboner at yahoo dot com if you want to take it off the forum.

very serious about making this work, thanks for your input, folks :)

R

natenator
10-12-2009, 05:47 PM
Give Holicat a PM. Sounds like something he would be interested in.

If you were in MTL I'd recommend hitting up Ritch.

Good luck in your search!

#8
10-12-2009, 05:49 PM
what does FWB mean?

#8
10-12-2009, 05:50 PM
oh. friends with benefits?

*cough*

Mr. O

CanadianIron
10-12-2009, 06:04 PM
Im confused, a guy looking for a guy?

smilinbc
10-12-2009, 06:05 PM
yep. that be the deal :)

CanadianIron
10-12-2009, 06:07 PM
Thats weird, never heard of that.

waderow
10-12-2009, 06:09 PM
but but but but men dont have vajinas??????

smilinbc
10-12-2009, 06:11 PM
yep. and i realize thus. thanks for your help to those helping :)

MMASTAR
10-12-2009, 06:15 PM
what the hell?? delete this thread, not at all body building related, lets not turn this into plenty of fish please...

natenator
10-12-2009, 06:20 PM
what the hell?? delete this thread, not at all body building related, lets not turn this into plenty of fish please...
We should delete all MMA threads too as they aren't bodybuilding related either.

daande
10-12-2009, 06:27 PM
I think the thread is fine its not like hes bothering anyone. It is relationship related I dont see a problem.

pseclint
10-12-2009, 06:29 PM
cant blame the guy for posting this, the amount of homosexual talk you would think the guy has about 100 pms by now.......

natenator
10-12-2009, 06:32 PM
^^bahaha

MMASTAR
10-12-2009, 06:41 PM
We should delete all MMA threads too as they aren't bodybuilding related either.

almost every mma guy lifts weights, do all homosexuals lift?

natenator
10-12-2009, 06:43 PM
almost every mma guy lifts weights, do all homosexuals lift?
That's not what you said. You said it wasn't bodybuilding related therefore the a section should go as per your previously stated reasoning.

waderow
10-12-2009, 06:54 PM
I think this falls under not contributing to the board.

buildinthaskinnys
10-12-2009, 07:02 PM
EVERYBODY GAY!!

smilinbc
10-12-2009, 07:04 PM
i dunno all, as the title states, i dont know where to put it. if its a gut reaction sort of thing to not being included here, ask yourself why that gut reaction exists. thats all im saying. i have no clue, im new here, thats it.

i have found no other place to post such a message. i understand i am coming into your community, i dont know the rules. seems its as any community: active, dynamic, and with lots of differing views.

this is a contribution to the board no? as i said, im new, you tell me the whats/whys

waderow
10-12-2009, 07:34 PM
there are gay body building sites. gay friend finders. all sorts of gay shit. In fact...according to BAM, there are these thigns called glory holes that you can stick your peepee through at the bus station..... so save the "I am lost and dont know what to do or where to find a gay lover" bullshit

you are probably that same guy rancine or whatever who was posting the cocks......this seems political to me

smilinbc
10-12-2009, 07:50 PM
take it as you will. sorry to hear of a previous bad experience with "rancine." im not that person, and have no idea who that is, i literally am just asking a question.

its not political. and no, there are not gay body building sites where you can actually talk to bodybuilders who are actually gay and actually live in your area. ive looked. lots. if you have found one, though, please do pass it on and ill be on my merry/fairy way. thats it. :o)

waderow
10-12-2009, 07:54 PM
http://www.realjock.com/

try this..... 2 seconds on google

Mr Ontario
10-12-2009, 10:04 PM
cough pretty much sums it up for you :)


oh. friends with benefits?

*cough*

Mr. O

Chunk
11-12-2009, 12:36 AM
wtf is with all the hate on this board since CS was found out?!

i suppose posting pictures of mudflaps and chicks getting ****ed in the ass by 4 guys at the same time are bodybuilding related?

who cares whether buddy is looking for ass on this site, he's likely not going to get it and this thread will be dead within a week. either that, or it will get locked because of childish behavior.

i guarantee if one of us posted "looking to find a chick who loves anal" no one would care. who gives a flying **** about sexual orientation?! he's not attacking anyone, he's not posting up pics of guys balls deep into other guys, he's not posting baracine (or whatever his name was) threads...he's looking for a relationship.

sure it may not be bodybuilding related, but neither is the "rants and raves" section.

and no...i'm not gay...the whole anti-anyone not big, straight, or white thing is bullshit no matter where you are.

_Ragnar_
11-12-2009, 12:42 AM
^I gotta spread the reps around.

faller
11-12-2009, 02:27 AM
^I gotta spread the reps around.

Got it for ya..

And ya , nothing wrong with this thread... Its nothing like baracin or what ever his soon to be forgotten name was..

monkey
11-12-2009, 02:58 AM
Ok... you live in Vancouver and cant find a gay bodybuilder to ****???
You must be either extremely ugly, blind or whatever else...

I am NOT gay and can not help you out ... ( I love vaginas.. lots of it).. but seriously, you are living in the city, placed second when it comes to the density of gay people after San Francisco and can't find someone?? Hahahaa


I don't care about your orientation, this post or whatever.. I just don't buy it ,

monkey
11-12-2009, 03:31 AM
In case you are serious.. try Denman Fitness on Comox or fitness world on Davie..high percentage of homosexually oriented people there who are obviously working out

smilinbc
11-12-2009, 06:46 AM
Not ugly nor blind but this city is notorious for being difficult to meet people. I don't live in downtown, I'm in the burbs so no gay bodybuilder Mecca that's for sure.

As for realjock.com, I appreciate the link but one can't even log on by province nor city in Canada. Plus it's "jocks" not bodybuilders (see pics on site)

As well, I imagine this post may be of interest to those who identify as m4m, bi, queer etc etc.

ubcpower
11-12-2009, 10:04 AM
Do you body build?

smilinbc
11-12-2009, 11:43 AM
Nope, an active outdoorsy ( hiking mtn biking climbing etc) but interested in meeting bodybuilders. I see there are posts on looking for gf. Just coming at this from the other side of the relationship coin

MuSuLPhReAk
11-12-2009, 05:17 PM
CBB is not a dating site. Daande's thread is not actually him looking to really find a girl on here. Hang around, you'll get to understand what that thread is about in time.

natenator
11-12-2009, 05:20 PM
CBB is not a dating site. Daande's thread is not actually him looking to really find a girl on here. Hang around, you'll get to understand what that thread is about in time.
Nor is CBB a porn site yet we allow it...

MuSuLPhReAk
11-12-2009, 05:26 PM
True but spamming the site is a ban, it's in the rules.

9 years of running bb boards and this has happened in total 1 time many years ago. Now 2 in a couple of days. Looks more like a co-ordinated effort ;)

Mr Ontario
11-12-2009, 05:34 PM
Hence smilinbc (http://www.canadabodybuilding.com/forums/member.php?u=4828) why I did not respond to your E-mail. The boys here are pulling your leg.... I'm not gay....sorry bro. Although, I'm sure some would like if I were :)


CBB is not a dating site. Daande's thread is not actually him looking to really find a girl on here. Hang around, you'll get to understand what that thread is about in time.

natenator
11-12-2009, 05:34 PM
True but spamming the site is a ban, it's in the rules.

9 years of running bb boards and this has happened in total 1 time many years ago. Now 2 in a couple of days. Looks more like a co-ordinated effort ;)
Not disagreeing just saying...

smilinbc
11-12-2009, 05:38 PM
oh yeah i feel ya guys, not trying to make trouble or anything. and honestly, that other dude isnt me. which is even weirder. i mean if that was me, whatever i was trying to do as two people, didnt work as it was seen as spam right away.

and yeah it surely does seem coordinated. i would think the exact same thing 100%. im seriously an honest guy just trying to meet someone, and yes, perhaps this isnt the best place. but cant blame a guy for trying. seems to make logical sense to meet a bodybuilder dude in canada, go to a canada bodybuilder site.

at least it comes up high in google results *shrugs*

MuSuLPhReAk
11-12-2009, 05:56 PM
You should also see the ad fitness-singles when you search for canada bodybuilding. Maybe that's a good place to start?

daande
11-12-2009, 06:13 PM
CBB is not a dating site. Daande's thread is not actually him looking to really find a girl on here. Hang around, you'll get to understand what that thread is about in time.

Finally someone understands me!

Mr Ontario
11-12-2009, 06:27 PM
Maybe you two should hook up then :)


Finally someone understands me!

MMASTAR
11-12-2009, 06:28 PM
i think nate loves queers... just saying...

daande
11-12-2009, 06:38 PM
i think nate loves queers... just saying...

I also agree with nate that although this isnt a dating site the guy posting this isnt harming anyone. You never know there could be another homosexual man lurking these forums who is looking for a guy like him, you never know. I think there is no harm done.

Memo
11-12-2009, 06:42 PM
Yeah, the haters should just ignore this thread.. just like I did.. tried..

ubcpower
11-12-2009, 07:29 PM
denman fitness, hang around the smoothie bar and shoot some stares around

waderow
11-12-2009, 07:41 PM
I have every right to be OFFENDED by homosexuality as they have for being homosexual.

Whether all you worldy tolerant men like it or not, homosexuality is an abnormality, and is un-natural.

I am tired of the double standards when it pertains to homosexuality and racism, where they (homos, minorites) are free to do what they want, and we (straight, majority) are forced to adhere.

CBB is a nice little oasis of like minded men, with outstanding camaraderie. The majority, are heterosexual. By Majority, I mean we have maybe two open gays, and probably that many who are not open in the active accounts. Compare that to the thousand??? of heterosexuals and you will see why I, and many others have a problem with rammy gays, pushing their immoral (IMO) sexual orientation upon us.

There are countless gay hook up sites. COUNTLESS. There are hundreds of gay venues to meet other gay men in every city over 100K pop. There are gay BB sites. And gay discussion forums. I see the events as of late as nothing more than a political attack on us, and our view which is largely in-line with my above words.

Some of us do not care. Some of us do not mind the gayness. Well most of us do. So live with it.

daande
11-12-2009, 07:56 PM
I have every right to be OFFENDED by homosexuality as they have for being homosexual.

Whether all you worldy tolerant men like it or not, homosexuality is an abnormality, and is un-natural.

I am tired of the double standards when it pertains to homosexuality and racism, where they (homos, minorites) are free to do what they want, and we (straight, majority) are forced to adhere.

CBB is a nice little oasis of like minded men, with outstanding camaraderie. The majority, are heterosexual. By Majority, I mean we have maybe two open gays, and probably that many who are not open in the active accounts. Compare that to the thousand??? of heterosexuals and you will see why I, and many others have a problem with rammy gays, pushing their immoral (IMO) sexual orientation upon us.

There are countless gay hook up sites. COUNTLESS. There are hundreds of gay venues to meet other gay men in every city over 100K pop. There are gay BB sites. And gay discussion forums. I see the events as of late as nothing more than a political attack on us, and our view which is largely in-line with my above words.

Some of us do not care. Some of us do not mind the gayness. Well most of us do. So live with it.

Maybe if he were an active member / bodybuilder I could see this thread making sense. However, I just checked his post count and its about 4 so I think he is not interested in anything bodybuilding related. This thread did not bother me because its not like he is chasing us around with his dick out demanding we bend over lol. I feel maybe since this guy is most likely not interested at all in bodybuilding this post should be removed.

natenator
11-12-2009, 08:23 PM
i think nate loves queers... just saying...
or maybe I just hate hypocritical pieces of shit?

daande
11-12-2009, 08:29 PM
or maybe I just hate hypocritical pieces of shit?

or you hate yourself for being a homo.

natenator
11-12-2009, 08:32 PM
or you hate yourself for being a homo.
nah. I love myself. At least 2-3 times every day :D

MMASTAR
11-12-2009, 10:30 PM
just seems like your more than not hypocritical...ur always sticking up for homo's... im not trying to start anything..just having some fun.. so chill out... and im with wade on this one...find a queer dating site..

ubcpower
11-12-2009, 10:40 PM
To the Original Poster,
Took me like 3 secs to search on google
About page 3-4 there is a guy named Cheesesteak in your area, he seems to fit the profile for what you desire
http://www.gaymusclematch.com/?aff_id=google&aff_pg=3&aff_tr=1&s=free_db_search

natenator
11-12-2009, 10:40 PM
To the Original Poster,
Took me like 3 secs to search on google
About page 3-4 there is a guy named Cheesesteak in your area, he seems to fit the profile for what you desire
http://www.gaymusclematch.com/?aff_id=google&aff_pg=3&aff_tr=1&s=free_db_search
:D

HoliTheCat
11-12-2009, 11:10 PM
Give Holicat a PM. Sounds like something he would be interested in.

If you were in MTL I'd recommend hitting up Ritch.

Good luck in your search!


roffle. hate you. asshat.

natenator
11-12-2009, 11:13 PM
roffle. hate you. asshat.
LOL!!!!

Bahahahahha that's funny as ****!

smilinbc
12-12-2009, 07:40 AM
yeesh that gay muscle match place is 24.95 a month just to do a search. thats craziness.

anyway, my bodybuilder fetish has been quashed by the neanderthals on this thread. thanks to those who were honestly supportive, and to those that who were reasonable in thinking to know that my gayness does not make you gay. seriously.

as for those in that second camp (ie wadenrow), i had thought out a whole spiel on how your photo of a women in chains is extremely symbolic of your own fear for the feminine aspects of yourself (of which everyone has), but i wont go there.

instead, just please keep in mind, everyone - the bigger the homophobe, the deeper the closet. and when you do finally come out, wadenrow, know that i wont give a **** because its not a moral issue, its just a guy looking for a shag.

big. ****ing. deal.

anyway, my fetish for bodybuilding has died with the misogyny, homophobia, and HUGE amount of outright HYPOCRISY on this thread (wadenrow, again, i point to you being into anal and rimming with ladies in the gf thread - seriously, the gay guys thought of this first.)

this place is bitchier and cattier than the flaming queens at the odyssey on a friday night. (btw, i did check out the pumpjack pub, and ill tell ya, its just a bunch of fat and hairy old guys)

im out, so long and thanks for all the fish.

R

HoliTheCat
12-12-2009, 02:01 PM
yeesh that gay muscle match place is 24.95 a month just to do a search. thats craziness.

anyway, my bodybuilder fetish has been quashed by the neanderthals on this thread. thanks to those who were honestly supportive, and to those that who were reasonable in thinking to know that my gayness does not make you gay. seriously.

as for those in that second camp (ie wadenrow), i had thought out a whole spiel on how your photo of a women in chains is extremely symbolic of your own fear for the feminine aspects of yourself (of which everyone has), but i wont go there.

instead, just please keep in mind, everyone - the bigger the homophobe, the deeper the closet. and when you do finally come out, wadenrow, know that i wont give a **** because its not a moral issue, its just a guy looking for a shag.

big. ****ing. deal.

anyway, my fetish for bodybuilding has died with the misogyny, homophobia, and HUGE amount of outright HYPOCRISY on this thread (wadenrow, again, i point to you being into anal and rimming with ladies in the gf thread - seriously, the gay guys thought of this first.)

this place is bitchier and cattier than the flaming queens at the odyssey on a friday night. (btw, i did check out the pumpjack pub, and ill tell ya, its just a bunch of fat and hairy old guys)

im out, so long and thanks for all the fish.

R

You know what's funny? One of my girlfriends (used to manage a salon dt van) brought me to pumpjack one night....I had no idea what it was...she was just like 'wanna meet some of my friends' and i'm all 'sure, you're hot, i'll meet whoever you want me to meet'...then she's like 'they're at the pumpjack, do you care' and i'm all 'I don't even know wht that is...so...no i don't care'...

so we go to the pumpjack...and it's all dudes...and she is the only girl...and I was the only straight guy...but I was treated like a rockstar lol. We pretended I was her husband, and the dudes bought me shots all night....

oh...and the most demented thing was....it was 'check your pants night and get a free drink ticket'

I didn't...but...it was a unique experience to say the least...

That is all.

ubcpower
12-12-2009, 02:23 PM
I go to an all you can eat sushi joint RIGHT next door to pumpjacks for late night sushi.

I walk by and get the cat calls and the eye ****s like its no body's business. I got to say its really an ego booster. The guys in there are hilarious too , huge bears with beards and hairy backs wearing chaps.

BBbox
12-12-2009, 02:26 PM
I have every right to be OFFENDED by homosexuality as they have for being homosexual.

Whether all you worldy tolerant men like it or not, homosexuality is an abnormality, and is un-natural.

I am tired of the double standards when it pertains to homosexuality and racism, where they (homos, minorites) are free to do what they want, and we (straight, majority) are forced to adhere.

CBB is a nice little oasis of like minded men, with outstanding camaraderie. The majority, are heterosexual. By Majority, I mean we have maybe two open gays, and probably that many who are not open in the active accounts. Compare that to the thousand??? of heterosexuals and you will see why I, and many others have a problem with rammy gays, pushing their immoral (IMO) sexual orientation upon us.

There are countless gay hook up sites. COUNTLESS. There are hundreds of gay venues to meet other gay men in every city over 100K pop. There are gay BB sites. And gay discussion forums. I see the events as of late as nothing more than a political attack on us, and our view which is largely in-line with my above words.

Some of us do not care. Some of us do not mind the gayness. Well most of us do. So live with it.

All the comments (and im sure and pictures/videos) of girl on girl "gayness" is ok with you, but as soon as its a guy its a big no-no.
hypocracy at its finest?

waderow
12-12-2009, 02:32 PM
All the comments (and im sure and pictures/videos) of girl on girl "gayness" is ok with you, but as soon as its a guy its a big no-no.
hypocracy at its finest?

Why don't you give him your number bbbox if u like it so much.

The girl on girl porn is just that. PORN. For straight men and their fantasies. Real lesbianism I can assure you would make u scratch your eyes out.

BBbox
12-12-2009, 02:41 PM
Why don't you give him your number bbbox if u like it so much.

The girl on girl porn is just that. PORN. For straight men and their fantasies. Real lesbianism I can assure you would make u scratch your eyes out.

K dude you dont need to be childish about it i dont "like it so much" nor do i want to give him my number,

all im saying is if youre fantasizing/accepting of same-sex between girls, you shouldnt be SHUNNING this man whos essentially doing the same thing

waderow
12-12-2009, 02:48 PM
K dude you dont need to be childish about it i dont "like it so much" nor do i want to give him my number,

all im saying is if youre fantasizing/accepting of same-sex between girls, you shouldnt be SHUNNING this man whos essentially doing the same thing

He needs to go to a gay venue. Not a hetero one

ubcpower
12-12-2009, 02:54 PM
To be honest, it seems like all the gay guys that come here do so primarily not to contribute productively to the board, but join and post to troll long enough and to stir the pot long enough to be able to drop those final "teaching a lesson posts" that the guy did this morning.

CanadianIron
12-12-2009, 03:01 PM
yeesh that gay muscle match place is 24.95 a month just to do a search. thats craziness.

anyway, my bodybuilder fetish has been quashed by the neanderthals on this thread. thanks to those who were honestly supportive, and to those that who were reasonable in thinking to know that my gayness does not make you gay. seriously.

as for those in that second camp (ie wadenrow), i had thought out a whole spiel on how your photo of a women in chains is extremely symbolic of your own fear for the feminine aspects of yourself (of which everyone has), but i wont go there.

instead, just please keep in mind, everyone - the bigger the homophobe, the deeper the closet. and when you do finally come out, wadenrow, know that i wont give a **** because its not a moral issue, its just a guy looking for a shag.

big. ****ing. deal.

anyway, my fetish for bodybuilding has died with the misogyny, homophobia, and HUGE amount of outright HYPOCRISY on this thread (wadenrow, again, i point to you being into anal and rimming with ladies in the gf thread - seriously, the gay guys thought of this first.)

this place is bitchier and cattier than the flaming queens at the odyssey on a friday night. (btw, i did check out the pumpjack pub, and ill tell ya, its just a bunch of fat and hairy old guys)

im out, so long and thanks for all the fish.

R


Peace out :fwave

CanadianIron
12-12-2009, 03:03 PM
He needs to go to a gay venue. Not a hetero one

He needs to see the way of the vag...

monkey
17-12-2009, 02:38 AM
Real lesbianism I can assure you would make u scratch your eyes out.[/QUOTE]
My strong desire for lesbians ( aka I thought so thanks to girl on girl porn) has definitely gone down the drain after experiencing lesbians first hand ( long and interesting story)..

This comment made me laugh cuz its true

kloan
17-12-2009, 05:05 AM
^^so true... i watched a lesbian porno for lesbians... i couldnt stay hard. it just was NOT a turn on whatsover... i only like watchin hot bis les out... real lesbos, blech. all their damn strap on sex makes me wanna tuck it in and go hide in a corner.