when it comes to women...

[L3]

trust your gut

that is all.

[natenator]

I agree.

It doesn't lie.

But, why do you say this now? What happened?

[L3]

player got played and called it

[natenator]

details???

Karma is a bitch huh? lol

[gicantor]

you REQUIRED by LAW to give details after dropping a bomb like that. Let's hear it..........

[L3]

in my brief 6 year stint of interacting with the female species i have experienced all possible aspects of a relationship with the exception of: parenting, divorce, death of partner, death of child, and natural disaster. i've had some really high highs, and some rock bottom lows.

my MO is to make the girl fall in love with me, and then dump her ass or, in the event we date, do something that would make her leave me. that being said, a good guy helped me identify some of reasons why i behave like this, and i'm going to work to at least take control of things.

a month ago i met a girl, and last week she executed my routine, on me.

[ubcpower]

in my brief 6 year stint of interacting with the female species i have experienced all possible aspects of a relationship with the exception of: parenting, divorce, death of partner, death of child, and natural disaster. i've had some really high highs, and some rock bottom lows.

my MO is to make the girl fall in love with me, and then dump her ass or, in the event we date, do something that would make her leave me. that being said, a good guy helped me identify some of reasons why i behave like this, and i'm going to work to at least take control of things.

a month ago i met a girl, and last week she executed my routine, on me.

This is true for me as well, dont know why i do it ...i think its fear of something serious developing, fear of commitment....curious as to what you friend said "identified reasons"???

[gicantor]

bahahaha good for her! Sounds like you were a prick to them and karma bit you in the ass

[L3]

Yeah great thanks I know. The point of the thread was to kust let you fellas know to trust your instincts...

[pseclint]

yea man I do the same thing.... divorce all over my family prolly has something to do with it..... either way you are the wall and make the calls....

[monkey]

I've never been dumped. yet. ( I had a women walk out on me and come back two days later.. but that doesnt really count).

I know its gonna happen.. and I know its gonna suck ass,,

[ironwill]

I've never been dumped. yet. ( I had a women walk out on me and come back two days later.. but that doesnt really count).

I know its gonna happen.. and I know its gonna suck ass,,

Dating keebler elves and homeless doesnt count...:p

[waderow]

in my brief 6 year stint of interacting with the female species i have experienced all possible aspects of a relationship with the exception of: parenting, divorce, death of partner, death of child, and natural disaster. i've had some really high highs, and some rock bottom lows.

my MO is to make the girl fall in love with me, and then dump her ass or, in the event we date, do something that would make her leave me. that being said, a good guy helped me identify some of reasons why i behave like this, and i'm going to work to at least take control of things.

a month ago i met a girl, and last week she executed my routine, on me.

so now you've had a taste. Do you understand how hurtful you have been?
This is a good learning experience, and should help you work on your MO

[manfreakca]

yes woman can be pretty cleaver

[L3]

i'm appalled more than anything. its an eye opener to meet someone who is 100% your personality twin, and then have them execute your own shit on you down to the dot. this is the first time i've been beaten at my own game.

you can't win every hand.

BUT

that doesn't mean you have to lose more than once.

[natenator]

i'm appalled more than anything. its an eye opener to meet someone who is 100% your personality twin, and then have them execute your own shit on you down to the dot. this is the first time i've been beaten at my own game.

you can't win every hand.

BUT

that doesn't mean you have to lose more than once.
Don't take offense but your view is part of the problem. You view this as a game. It's not a game. It's real life with real feeling and real emotions. When we get knocked down we put up new walls to help us stay safe from getting knocked down again. It's a brutal circle that only stops when your viewpoint of believing this to be a game stops.

[ironwill]

Damn nate, i really like reading your posts lately...Making lots of sense.....I know something has changed in your life....Did you find la woman a la dreams??? For serious, good stuff man....cant give green yet....but will:D

[gicantor]

i'm appalled more than anything. its an eye opener to meet someone who is 100% your personality twin, and then have them execute your own shit on you down to the dot. this is the first time i've been beaten at my own game.

you can't win every hand.

BUT

that doesn't mean you have to lose more than once.

So basically you've learned nothing. That's what I take from this. Because you claim it's a eye opener but are going to continue doing it.

[L3]

i don't seem to have developed the ability to put up these mental 'walls' yet. i create a strong mutual attachmen, then end it on my terms... thats how i keep a sense of control.

i'll admit it, i was really really enjoying the attention this girl was giving me, i let my guard down, opened up and told her about myself, about how i think and do... i took the 'mystery' and 'chase' away. i'm assuming thats where her attraction for me ended, because thats usually the first interest ender for me, and she is my twin...

honestly, i'm confused, hurt and dejected. i don't know what i'll do from now on, but one thing is for certain, i've got a lot of growing up to do

[natenator]

i don't seem to have developed the ability to put up these mental 'walls' yet. i create a strong mutual attachmen, then end it on my terms... thats how i keep a sense of control.

i'll admit it, i was really really enjoying the attention this girl was giving me, i let my guard down, opened up and told her about myself, about how i think and do... i took the 'mystery' and 'chase' away. i'm assuming thats where her attraction for me ended, because thats usually the first interest ender for me, and she is my twin...

honestly, i'm confused, hurt and dejected. i don't know what i'll do from now on, but one thing is for certain, i've got a lot of growing up to do
ask her where it went wrong?

[L3]

already deleted her from my phone since i don't want to be tempted to txt her, and im not about to ask her over FB

but i know the answer to that question, seeing as she thinks like i do... she knew she had me, lost interest, met another good looking dude and moved on... classic L3

[waderow]

there are men and women out there who live their lives flipping through people, with little or no regard to a persons feelings. When they're bored, they're gone, and the person is left standing there alone to pick up the pieces.
It is an illness.

I had a brush with that myself once, and was not impressed. But she was 33, and if a girl at age 33 is still single, there is a reason.... So thats why I lowered the bar by 10-15 years. lol

[natenator]

there are men and women out there who live their lives flipping through people, with little or no regard to a persons feelings. When they're bored, they're gone, and the person is left standing there alone to pick up the pieces.
It is an illness.

I had a brush with that myself once, and was not impressed. But she was 33, and if a girl at age 33 is still single, there is a reason.... So thats why I lowered the bar by 10-15 years. lol
You make a good point. That explains the girl (I say girl and not woman because she acted like a girl) was seeing off and on for the past year who was 34.

But by your token... how do you explain a guy at 33 who is single? lol

[waderow]

You make a good point. That explains the girl (I say girl and not woman because she acted like a girl) was seeing off and on for the past year who was 34.

But by your token... how do you explain a guy at 33 who is single? lol

career minded, hard working, and ready for some loving with 20yo girls

[natenator]

career minded, hard working, and ready for some loving with 20yo girls
lmao nice

[L3]

... now that i've officially broken up with my girlfriend for the 2445th time, she thought it would be a good idea to tell me shes been ****ing her ex before slamming the door in my face, to really sink it in.

i didn't have the heart to tell her about the 4 notches added to my belt in the past few months, i thought that was nice of me, not taking away her sense of self-satisfaction

consequently, i will be spending the rest of the day dieting on red wine, malibu coconut rum, dope and cigarettes....and ofcourse, posting on the forum.

enjoy

[PdH]

Things will always appear to get harder before they appear to get better. Appear is the key word. If things are getting really ****ed, that's good, b/c it indicates that change is right around the corner. All that matters is how you choose to respond to what is occurring. You can choose change (going with the flow), status quo (resisting change), or regression (a more intense level of self-destructive behaviour), it's entirely up to you. :)

[L3]

thanks...actually, i'm feeling great right now :)

[gicantor]

^^^ cause your stoned and drunk?:)