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simone
09-11-2009, 12:41 PM
Thought should just start a thread on this instead of replying in Durk's thread.. as the start pertains to him.. but the rest just rambling on here as seen so many guys get bummed out over chicks on here... maybe someone will get a takeaway.

Has anyone read "The Red Queen" ??? pretty heavy read but good.. all the seduction artists use it for reference...

Men are built to sleep around to make sure our "dna" lives on... and Women are built to have babies with alpha males...

This is why men cheat or have a hard time settling down.. and the SCARY part is.....

Do you know they're estimating almost 8-10% of children's fathers.. aren't their real fathers??? they're finding this out with more organ transplants.. ie. a father needs a kidney... the kid is like ok i'm going to give you mine.. and then they find out the kid isn't compatible LOL.. its because women want to have babies with real men.. Their husbands, help provide shelter, money, etc.. but deep down there isn't real attraction.

So.. lets break this down a bit...

Men, are always going to want to get some strange ass... its in our genetics... if you aren't ready to settle down.. then you aren't.. simple as that.. live it up.. be honest with women that you aren't into relationships... if you are upfront wtih them and that there are "OTHER" women you are seeing.. then there is no reason to feel bad if they get their feelings hurt.... if you are on your own path.. then you're more than likely going to have 2-3 on the go.

Now, maybe some logic for the other guys struggling with breakups, or pickups..

And i'm ripping a quote from eben pagan here.. "ATTRACTION ISN"T A CHOICE"... you can't BUY, or SPOIL, or be NICE to a woman to get her to like you... she might date you... she might **** you... she might even marry you.. but deep down she is NOT attracted to you.. she could have had bad relationships in teh past and is taking you due to comfort... but when the time comes when a real man comes into her life.. i would say very likely she will have an affair... Have you read "THE RULES" if not you should.. MANY women read this book... and really all it leads them to attarct are wussy men that they end up dumping.

Women, for the most part DO NOT know what they are attracted to.. its a deep down thing for them... ever wonder why chicks are with guys who treat them like shit or badasses??? its because these are alpha males... now you don't have to treat a chick like shit... but there are things to be learned..

Being a confident, NON needy man... with status... and can show you have high social value... is ATTRACTIVE to women... For example... a chick flakes off on you on a 3rd date... don't call her.. or text her.. you are a MAN.. move on.. if she calls you.. say hey i'm just not into that kind of stuff so if you want to see me again you gotta make it up to me... and better yet.. when a chick flakes off.. get your ass out to the bar, even by yourslef, and pick up someone new.... and let this chick think she's plan B.. yet she's really plan F.

you can't fake this stuff.. you have to BE the man.. but it can come very easy when you start living it...

Now this applies to RELATIONSHIPS as well... guys will attract a woman.. then turn into WUSSIES... Never ever let a woman she has you 100%... always have her know (without saying it directly) that you can pick up other women, and are doing your thing, and if she's not for you, then you're cool with that... now obviously you're with this person for a reason.. so yeah you'r egonna be romantic from time to time.. but do not give them the upperhand and put the pussy on the pedestal... mix shit up.. never be predictable.. if you're going to a restaurant you usually go to.. on the way there say **** this and go to a different restaurant.. don't ask her.. just be like no lets go here tonight instead... keep them guessing.. keep your status high..

anyway that's enough outta me for now... but lets keep this thread going.. might help some guys out here... all i can say is I am not the best looking dude out there. i'm average height.. average guy looks... but when i learned this stuff, and started just focusing on my own shit... i started SLAUGHTERING the bar scene.. and it was a blast... felt like had voodoo powers or some crazy shit... and although in relationship now.. if i go out to a bar with my chick.. i will still tlak to other women etc.. and within no time, my own chick is pulling me outta the bar, blowing me in alleys.. ****ing on the beach.. u name it.. becuase that's an attraction trigger... maybe things were kinda normal for a few weeks, then she sees another chick into me big time at the bar, and snap.. she wants me again... that's how to roll.
Durk
09-11-2009, 12:49 PM
I do know all about the statistics. The world is much different then what were taught to believe growing up.
BBbox
09-11-2009, 12:51 PM
dear god
there is so much wrong with this i dont know where to begin

if you want to spread youre seed by all means thats what you should do

but if you really care about a girl i dont think your recommendation to try to make her jealous or make her think youre some "high status player" is legit

and lastly, dude theres nothing special about you because you can "slaughter" at the bars. you are not some AMAZING god for doing this. almost ANY guy can go to the bar and pick up a drunk chick and sleep with her. please get over yourself.
simone
09-11-2009, 12:53 PM
dear god
there is so much wrong with this i dont know where to begin

if you want to spread youre seed by all means thats what you should do

but if you really care about a girl i dont think your recommendation to try to make her jealous or make her think youre some "high status player" is legit

and lastly, dude theres nothing special about you because you can "slaughter" at the bars. you are not some AMAZING god for doing this. almost ANY guy can go to the bar and pick up a drunk chick and sleep with her. please get over yourself.

HA.

just becuase you really care about someone, doesn't mean you give them all the power...

not saying i'm anything special.. there are lots of guys naturally who can easily pick up chicks... its trying to UNDERSTAND why women act the way they do... just seems like alot of guys on here get crushed so easily, and there are reasons why this happens...i don't see anything wrong with trying to learn why women act the way they do.
simone
09-11-2009, 12:55 PM
I do know all about the statistics. The world is much different then what were taught to believe growing up.

And who taught us?? mostly we learned from our mothers!!! take a girl out, be nice to her.. etc. etc..

this is how people acted thousands of years ago.. tribes... the alpha males would have children with numerous women.....
waderow
09-11-2009, 12:56 PM
the tone of your post is wrong, but yes, you do need to be an alpha male, or yes, you may not have great success with women (hot women...fatties take what they can get)
BBbox
09-11-2009, 12:57 PM
most of the posts guys are putting up about chicks is not that the girl is "crushing" them but more about whether they themselves are ready to be in relationships or not
simone
09-11-2009, 12:58 PM
the tone of your post is wrong, but yes, you do need to be an alpha male, or yes, you may not have great success with women (hot women...fatties take what they can get)

lol yeah you're right.. i just reread it.. almost dictatorship in my post.. sorry for those that came off like that.. was just rambling on and that's how i write..

again, not my intention.. just trying to start a discussion and maybe help out the guys who have a hard time with breakups, picking up, etc.
Durk
09-11-2009, 12:59 PM
10-15% of guys out there are raising kids from an affair or had it pawned off on them without them knowing becuase they are the more financially stable choice.
natenator
09-11-2009, 01:01 PM
the tone of your post is wrong, but yes, you do need to be an alpha male, or yes, you may not have great success with women (hot women...fatties take what they can get)
****, some fatty was rubbin me up at the bar saturday. So ****ing gross. She was with a friend who works with my friend so I couldn';t tell the pig to **** off. I didn't say 3 words to her. She grabbing my ass (I ignore) then starts with the front... I bounced like a ****in ninja!

Pissed me off too because one of the bartenders asked me to stick around and have a drink with her after. ARGH

down with fatties!
simone
09-11-2009, 01:04 PM
10-15% of guys out there are raising kids from an affair or had it pawned off on them without them knowing becuase they are the more financially stable choice.

yeah it is crazy lol.. but i have slept with 2 married women before, (note i would never do it again cause i don't think its right)... and each of them constantly whined about their husband when i was talking to them...

and convinced they were just with them for comfort.. stability... both women were late 20's..

i think alot of women as they get older.. really get the fear, their looks fade away.. guys their age are going for younger women... (and even if these are totally irrational thoughts... it doesn't matter to them) and they become more likely to just settle down to comfort... but they still aren't attracted deep down to their mate... and are just more likely to cheat.....
#8
09-11-2009, 01:06 PM
^^ next time come prepared with a donut in your pocket. when you show it to her and throw it across the bar she will chase it like a dog after a frisbee.

problem solved.
natenator
09-11-2009, 01:08 PM
^^ next time come prepared with a donut in your pocket. when you show it to her and throw it across the bar she will chase it like a dog after a frisbee.

problem solved.
but then she will come back thinking I have more. I've played this game before already!
waderow
09-11-2009, 01:40 PM
****, some fatty was rubbin me up at the bar saturday. So ****ing gross. She was with a friend who works with my friend so I couldn';t tell the pig to **** off. I didn't say 3 words to her. She grabbing my ass (I ignore) then starts with the front... I bounced like a ****in ninja!

Pissed me off too because one of the bartenders asked me to stick around and have a drink with her after. ARGH

down with fatties!

lol brutal. That could have really solidified the deal with the bartender though....

You could have told her about fatty buggin ya, and that you are leaving (cause youre mr. respectable :)), but "text me when youre off"
natenator
09-11-2009, 01:43 PM
lol brutal. That could have really solidified the deal with the bartender though....

You could have told her about fatty buggin ya, and that you are leaving (cause youre mr. respectable :)), but "text me when youre off"
Oh, I got the text from her around 2 asking where I was lol

Told her the story in text so she replies saying well if your free to come down and have that drink. Just the staff in here now.

I said I was in bed already otherwise I would have. Her reply? Lucky bed.

bhahaa.. I think It's solidified without me needing to have that drink with her ;)
buildinthaskinnys
18-11-2009, 09:11 PM
Women dont hang out with guys that treat them like shit because these guys are alpha males, its because they have low self esteem and more often or not they think they cant do any better.

Bad asses, this is not be an indicator of an alpha male as there are plenty of mental cases out there that are bad asses so to speak and plenty more of them are just idiots.

Attraction is simple, women are looking for good genes just like men, or someone that can provide for their family, preferably a combination of the both.

These are qualitys of the alpha male:

1. attractive = good genes
2. good provider = countinuation of the genes.

The lesser of one quality could lead a woman or man to stray.

I probably sound like an idiot but thats my best interpretation of it.
Big D
19-11-2009, 04:08 PM
I bounced like a ****in ninja!



lol I wish I was there to see that,