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ironwill
05-11-2009, 02:05 PM
I have been chatting with him via PM, and im going to help him out as much as my knowledge can provide...........
He is thinking of leaving the site, he is not a drama queen, he has some very serious things going on in his life....I think we as a board have a great opportunity to help out someone less fortunate, and very, very misunderstood person....
He doesnt convey himself well on the board he feels, and feels we dont like him and he is an abnormal person...I wont go into details guys out of respect obviously, but this fella needs our help, i am going to step up and help him, and if he wants to share his story, im sure we would respectfully listen.....
I think this fella just needs some help and he turned to us and i think we kind of let him down, and we joked around, had some fun, with him.....
Can we pls ask him to stick around, and ive said to him, that he needs to take advice from one person and not get mixed up, like myself and many of us do when we want something real, real bad.....We get fogged in by passion, drive, etc....

Im not the best trainer on here, not trying to be anything special, but i like to help out and pay forward help i have had when down many times, if he wants to work with someone else that is totally cool with me, id just like to see him take advice from one source.....Can we welcome him here, and ask him not to leave...
I hope he doesnt mind me posting this, but he was just going to fade out and not say good-bye, he sounds down...........Its not just bloodwork, he knows what the problem is...Some things we cant help with, but some things as a board we can help with, im helping, and i hope others will welcome him here and let him know we are here, like to have fun and joke, but thats what it is, jokes....Not coming down on him........
Different strokes makes us all interesting folk i believe....
Thanks, and i hope this is ok cheese, if not pm me and ill remove it......:D

gsxr750
05-11-2009, 02:07 PM
Stick around cheese, you're a good guy. Stay motivated, you can do it.

Memo
05-11-2009, 02:13 PM
Cheesesteak, I dont know if you are like me, but I come here 10x a day. Its more than a muscle board. Its kinda like a family that will most likely accept anyone with a bit of common sence.

You obviously didn't read people here properly. I think , even if we did laugh at some of your post, we consider you part of the group. I am pretty new here, but I am pretty sure I have the same opinion as most of us here. What is great here is that after talking about gear, training and food. We also can talk about break ups, crazy psycho chicks that ruins our life and money problems.

Its the best people here, because unlike most quick friends you can make in real life, people here will invest their time and energy even if they never met you.

Stick around dude, its for the best.

Memo
05-11-2009, 02:13 PM
double post.

Andre
05-11-2009, 02:15 PM
I would like to see him stick around... we all have our share of issues!

cheesesteak, if you are ever in my neck of the woods... please drop by for a free workout on me... I will be happy to share whatever I know with you!

GYMBRAT
05-11-2009, 02:15 PM
Cheese stick around brutha your a great dude I can tell, and hey it just take time man it'll come around you'll see bro!!!

HoliTheCat
05-11-2009, 02:29 PM
Probably you should stick around. You and I should talk more.

marino
05-11-2009, 02:30 PM
CS, Ironwill obviously knows more than I do but let it be known we are to help not hinder and I wish you all the best. I can honestly say if we were in the same neck of the woods I would glady train with you. Hang around CS

trainharder
05-11-2009, 02:37 PM
Stick around bro!

Bodybuilding is full of contradictions so it's easy to get frustrated and feel like you're spinning your wheels. Ironwill knows his shit so I would gladly take him up on his offer!

This board will help you - In return, you have to post nudes of the hotties that will eventually be begging to suck your cock!

waderow
05-11-2009, 02:39 PM
dont give up cheese.

stick it out, you will see over the next year how things will start to take shape.


and shit dude... wanna know how many guys dont like me??? just ask dreman... he called me a tool

natenator
05-11-2009, 02:49 PM
dont give up cheese.

stick it out, you will see over the next year how things will start to take shape.


and shit dude... wanna know how many guys dont like me??? just ask dreman... he called me a tool
I bet I go you beat...lol

waderow
05-11-2009, 02:50 PM
I bet I go you beat...lol

by like 10:1...at least

natenator
05-11-2009, 02:53 PM
by like 10:1...at least
Given how big of a douchebag BAM is he alone counts for 10.

waderow
05-11-2009, 02:57 PM
lmao ^^^

see cheese? most everyone here likes you.
Look at Nate, and BAM, and that poor ****ing Dremen...

trainharder
05-11-2009, 02:58 PM
I bet I go you beat...lol

In the interest of making Cheese feel welcome, I will confirm that Natenator is quite the dick! :ne

countrychic
05-11-2009, 03:10 PM
CS, I think you are a great guy and we all have things to learn. I am happy that IW has offered to help you out.

Don't fade from the site, we are all one big happy family here and it would be a shame to see you go :)

69challenger
05-11-2009, 03:13 PM
hey CS...stick with the site and stick with what IW tells you. At one time or another we've all been where you are. Focus on yourself, set a goal and stick to it. Everything else will eventually fall into place.

HoliTheCat
05-11-2009, 03:13 PM
Over the years i've met a lot of people who don't like HoliCat too. Meh, what can you do. Not everyone likes a straight homo.

dainbramaged
05-11-2009, 03:28 PM
CS, don't know you really, but this is a very good site. I don't usually post too often (only when I've got something to actually say) but I like the laid back atmosphere here and there's plenty of good info. Sometimes there's a bit of drama here but it's the internet, so you get a wide variety of personalities too. There aren't too many sites with a more mature crowd discussing many aspects of their life but especially their love of this lifestyle.

daande
05-11-2009, 04:02 PM
I thought people liked cheesesteak? I know I do! His stories like the one with the girl with the world of warcraft gamecard made me laugh tons. Stay around dude, if you leave I know you will be missed!

C-money
05-11-2009, 04:14 PM
Im with IW, CS any questions or help just ask bro!

vlad
05-11-2009, 04:20 PM
Hey dude you definitely need to stick around. This is a great board and after reading your posts you sound like a great guy. I know how it feels being new at something and frustrated with it and yourself at the same time.
If you ever need to talk drop me a PM and I can give you a call. I have free long distance. I am pretty sure every one on this board will offer any type of support needed.

Vlad

natenator
05-11-2009, 05:25 PM
I thought people liked cheesesteak? I know I do! His stories like the one with the girl with the world of warcraft gamecard made me laugh tons. Stay around dude, if you leave I know you will be missed!
I agree. I think hes hilarious. Real stories or not they be some funnay shite.

GYMBRAT
05-11-2009, 05:30 PM
comin from Cheese, I bet they are real LOL

Ritch
05-11-2009, 05:40 PM
For sure, stay on the board bro! I don`t understand how you can feel let down however, if I`m not mistaken you`ve been given some sound advice on nutrition and training. I understand your confusion of not knowing what to stick with. That`s why I don`t buy mags anymore. The info contradicts itself and leaves you confused. Sure the same thing happens here, but you can always ask questions about stuff to help you understand why...

As far as anyone not licking you. I don`t think that`s the case at all. You`ve entertained us for sure and always look forward to your posts. As I said to you via pm, we have alot in common in how we think among other things. I commend you on having the guts to come out and talk about these things. I certainly don`t.

For now you must decide a path and stick to it. By next summer you will look so much different. If you leave the site you will always wonder how you could have changed your body. IW is willing to help you out, he`s been advised by some very high up smart people in this industry. I say you`re lucky bro to have a guy like that extend himself to you. Don`t give up.

I trained for years and years bro and when I`d pull out a shake, people would ask me what I was drinking and why. They would often look at me and say "you train?" I mean that`s ****ing insulting! But I keept to it. You gotta do the same. I won`t lie to you and say it`s easy. But you won`t win by quiting.

See you on the boards I hope.

Flexxx
05-11-2009, 06:00 PM
I dont post much but I read through all the daily posts when I get home from work. Cheesesteak normally has the most entertaining posts and stories.

Stick around man, I never got the feeling from reading your posts that you were unwanted, quite the contrary.

Hope you stick around

ianfxmen
05-11-2009, 06:13 PM
everybody started somewhere and for my part i have learned quite a bit several years ago from a forum that was called musclenexus(that dosent exist no more) annyways being a member of a bodybuilding forum is really a great way to stay motivated and people here are all willing to help each other wherever they may be in there quest for muscle. annyways stay in the forum bro i am sure you wont regret it and sorry for my english i am a french canadian

Chunk
05-11-2009, 06:19 PM
no one probably cares what i think, but you should stick around here. being that our starting points are/were nearly the same, it would be cool to track progress with you to see how i match up with yours...

if it's something about character assassination that's got you thinking...keep in mind that this is a faceless message board, and anyone can say anything behind a keyboard...also remember that it's harder to deliver sarcasm or jokes in a post than in person.

judging by the amount of posts though, it seems that you're well liked...if depression is getting you down, here is a public service announcement from arnold about his favourite supplement. Check it out:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnprNvaiyy0

theboss
05-11-2009, 06:27 PM
i agree...stick around...
i am just glad that everyone likes me here.....i feel accepted...like part of a big family..
a big gay family....lol.....just kidding.

warlock
05-11-2009, 06:29 PM
1) I work a sa full time trainer have 7 years experience and have course taking trough Poliquin, Chek and a bunch of other crap ( nI can write my resume in toilet paper so long it is). Ask me via Pm that I'll answer your questions for free for the next year.

I have never given anyone a deal like this before, even close friends but you seems to be committed and that is what every trainer wants.

2) I never sensed anyone disliking you, ribbing and teasing is just part of being on the internet. I have been on the boards since 2005 and one thing I know if someone dislikes you and has issues with you they will make clear that hey dislike you and do their best to make sure you understand. due to your overreaction in other situations in life it seems that you have other issues (my bet for you would be anxiety and depression): welcome to the club! Everybody has issues!
Reality is not as bad as you think it is as bad as you perceive it, change the perception and things will get better.

3) If you feel like you don't fit look around: no one does! We are all different and that is what makes this board great. CC and 69 are pretty much the only ladies active in the board and no one **** around with them because they are just great women, I am quite different from most member of this board as well and never anyone brought it up in any discussion unless it was in a joke; I was the first one to laugh!

4) Live you life however you prefer, if you stay or go that's your option and we will respect whatever you decide. I just believe that maybe you should not go away from this bunch of people that respects you and accepts you as you are. sometimes this is a big frat house, when those times come I just take my shirt off and enjoy the party!

gsxr750
05-11-2009, 06:30 PM
^ Nice of you warlock

Andre
05-11-2009, 06:33 PM
I sleep with another guy and never anyone brought it up in any discussion unless it was in a joke; I was the first one to laugh!

Did you just say you are sleeping with another guy? Not that there is anything wrong with that (Seinfeld)... it just came out of left field ;)

gsxr750
05-11-2009, 06:35 PM
Hahah is that why his location says 'closely behind you'?! Love it

theboss
05-11-2009, 06:53 PM
sometimes this is a big frat house, when those times come I just take my shirt off and enjoy the party!

this pretty much sums it up.

_Ragnar_
05-11-2009, 07:03 PM
Don't leave cheese. I know that you have been treated poorly on other boards. I have actually come across some of it. As someone who was bullied for most of my childhood/teen years I know how this shit feels. There is a good group of guys and I would hate for you to miss out on what you can learn here.

waderow
05-11-2009, 07:04 PM
Don't leave cheese. I know that you have been treated poorly on other boards. I have actually come across some of it. As someone who was bullied for most of my childhood/teen years I know how this shit feels. There is a good group of guys and I would hate for you to miss out on what you can learn here.

which boards? I am going to go troll them

_Ragnar_
05-11-2009, 07:07 PM
shit i have lurked on so many I think it was MD though

buildinthaskinnys
05-11-2009, 07:16 PM
Stick around steak, your always welcome around here.

warlock
05-11-2009, 07:22 PM
Did you just say you are sleeping with another guy? Not that there is anything wrong with that (Seinfeld)... it just came out of left field ;)

sleeping with another guy and coming out both in teh same sentence. here we go... LOL:sexy

waderow
05-11-2009, 07:47 PM
wait a minute.... Andre is gay?

Andre
05-11-2009, 07:51 PM
wait a minute.... Andre is gay?

Let's get this thread back on track :sexy

Not that is anything wrong with gay people :)

trainharder
05-11-2009, 08:16 PM
Let's get this thread back on track :sexy

Not that is anything wrong with gay people :)

I agree...let's get back on topic, this thread is turning into:

http://www.jasonbentley.org/blog/img/homo_depot.png

Cheesesteak, hope you stay with us bro!

PdH
05-11-2009, 10:28 PM
If you leave you will be missed Bro.

bottleneckblooz
05-11-2009, 10:37 PM
I haven't been on the board too much lately so I don't have a clue as to why he would think nobody likes him, but from what I've seen he seems like a cool guy.....and with a name like cheesesteak, how could anybody not like him?

Houstonbc
05-11-2009, 11:08 PM
Stick around cheese, lots of good bros here with good hearts to steer you in the right direction. Keep your head up man youre way too hard on yourself. :)

Iwant2Grow
06-11-2009, 12:27 AM
Cheese man you got to stay bro you do got some funny stories
I can see from your video your making progress keep up the hard work
with the people you got behind you now your going to do great

kloan
06-11-2009, 12:40 AM
I feel left out, seems just about everyone has posted in here except me.

Dunno what kind of personal issues you're dealing with Cheese, but I think you've got the wrong impression of the dudes on here... sure you're gonna run into people who may not like you, hell I know lots that don't like me, but you just gotta say **** em!

This is a good board. I don't think you're gonna find another board out there that's as welcoming as this one....

CLICK ME ->Please Don't Go (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YIAnkrPgTvY)<- CLICK ME
yeah, that's right.. I'm using the youtube embed code.... i dont care if they dont work. im gonna use them anyway. and im gonna keep using them.. until they actually work. then im gonna use them some more. cuz thats how i roll.

MuSuLPhReAk
06-11-2009, 07:48 AM
Just got myself brushed up on all this. Sorry, been a little busy with work.

Cheesesteak, we've never talked before. I read some of your stuff and enjoyed it. I thought you were fitting in quite well to be honest. The guys here can be a little callous sometimes but we are a pretty close family. From the replies on this thread, it seems a lot of people would like to see you stay including myself.

If you do decide to stay, you are welcome to pm me anytime and talk. I'm going to make this thread a sticky for now.

BAM
06-11-2009, 08:13 AM
CheeseSteak.. Stick around, Nate doesn't mean to be an arrogant piece of shite when he is handing his ??bodybuilding gospel??, actually, he is so oblivious he even thinks 'douche' means 'stud'.

Anyway, I personally am looking forward to you becoming some kind of hard , ripped beast of a success story. Don't leave man!

cheesesteak
06-11-2009, 10:32 AM
I wanted to post this to clear some stuff up.

First off, what you know about me:

low self esteem
low test (most likely)
over reacting to little things
easily confused


What you don't know, and now will:

i have a neurological disorder as well as suffering from bouts of depression. i'm not depressed all the time, but when i do it's pretty bad. because of this disorder i find some things very hard to deal with in life. i've been running away from my problems my whole life. i don't feel like running anymore. the gym has been very theraputic for me. heavy doses of medication + being depressed and eating my feelings caused me to gain huge amounts of weight. i used to be very small, then turned into a tub of lard. i was never really picked on in my youth because i never stayed anywhere long enough for it to happen. i have an obsession with being big. even if i was 150lbs and lean, you would be able to see some muscles, and that is better than anyone i really know. so i would still see it as a success. i have no ambition to compete. i'm doing this only for myself.

i learned too late in life the things you need to get ahead. i will never be rich, i will never be witty or incredibly smart, but i could be in excellent shape. which in my eyes would make me feel better as i would have something that the majority of people in their 30's don't have. i would feel happy with myself.

it's not that i didn't feel completely accepted here. it's just that i'm so far behind everyone. this happens at every muscle board i go to. guys are just 10 miles ahead of me, and this builds up me feeling inferior. none of your guys fault. i'd take steroids if i could afford them. but since i'm on government assistance i don't qualify for credit. i don't have the proper id to get a pre-paid card. now about being on assistance, know that i'm no leech. my money goes to my boarding, gym membership, and food. my nice clothes like under armour and that i get bought for me and then pay them back in installments. i don't drink booze, i don't do drugs, i don't smoke cigarettes. i don't waste the money alotted to me. i don't even get the full amount because i live with my parents and that's the only option i have because if i move out on my own i would have no money to bodybuild. there wouldn't be enough left over to get decent food and pay a gym membership plus my hydro and phone and whatever. so i'm stuck here, which is fine because i don't mind it.

i know with my situation i'm not gonna be getting 10's and dope looking girls. 360lb'rs are what i can get. i go for girls who are 3 or 4's in my eyes because they really don't have the option of being picky. maybe i can get a hot one night stand with some muscle though.

so now you know some more about me. don't take pity on me. i kept all this information away from you guys so you wouldn't think of me in a bad light.

- CS

natenator
06-11-2009, 10:44 AM
I wanted to post this to clear some stuff up.

First off, what you know about me:

low self esteem
low test (most likely)
over reacting to little things
easily confused


What you don't know, and now will:

i have a neurological disorder as well as suffering from bouts of depression. i'm not depressed all the time, but when i do it's pretty bad. because of this disorder i find some things very hard to deal with in life. i've been running away from my problems my whole life. i don't feel like running anymore. the gym has been very theraputic for me. heavy doses of medication + being depressed and eating my feelings caused me to gain huge amounts of weight. i used to be very small, then turned into a tub of lard. i was never really picked on in my youth because i never stayed anywhere long enough for it to happen. i have an obsession with being big. even if i was 150lbs and lean, you would be able to see some muscles, and that is better than anyone i really know. so i would still see it as a success. i have no ambition to compete. i'm doing this only for myself.

i learned too late in life the things you need to get ahead. i will never be rich, i will never be witty or incredibly smart, but i could be in excellent shape. which in my eyes would make me feel better as i would have something that the majority of people in their 30's don't have. i would feel happy with myself.

it's not that i didn't feel completely accepted here. it's just that i'm so far behind everyone. this happens at every muscle board i go to. guys are just 10 miles ahead of me, and this builds up me feeling inferior. none of your guys fault. i'd take steroids if i could afford them. but since i'm on government assistance i don't qualify for credit. i don't have the proper id to get a pre-paid card. now about being on assistance, know that i'm no leech. my money goes to my boarding, gym membership, and food. my nice clothes like under armour and that i get bought for me and then pay them back in installments. i don't drink booze, i don't do drugs, i don't smoke cigarettes. i don't waste the money alotted to me. i don't even get the full amount because i live with my parents and that's the only option i have because if i move out on my own i would have no money to bodybuild. there wouldn't be enough left over to get decent food and pay a gym membership plus my hydro and phone and whatever. so i'm stuck here, which is fine because i don't mind it.

i know with my situation i'm not gonna be getting 10's and dope looking girls. 360lb'rs are what i can get. i go for girls who are 3 or 4's in my eyes because they really don't have the option of being picky. maybe i can get a hot one night stand with some muscle though.

so now you know some more about me. don't take pity on me. i kept all this information away from you guys so you wouldn't think of me in a bad light.

- CS
A person can learn to be witty.
A person can become smart
A person can make a decent and above average income without education
A person can get into better shape
A person can change their situation in life
A person can have great friends
A person can date people who are "seemingly" better than they are

EVERYTHING is possible and the keyword in all the above things is the word can. It takes effort, it takes will, it takes determination, it takes being afraid. If you want something bad enough there is always a way to get it done. Change isn't easy but change can be very rewarding but you have to want it because no one is going ot up and hand it to you.

You must have some skills in life job wise so I would use those skills and find another job in another city. Time to break away from your current life and start anew.

Be a man and take control of your life. Stand up and demand better for yourself then go out there and do it.

waderow
06-11-2009, 10:49 AM
Bro, there are only a few guys that bodybuilding comes easy to, and we all secretly hate them. Otherwise, it has been a challenge for ALL of us. Not one guy here changed overnight, or even in a few months for that matter. It takes a lot of dedication, and if you stick it out, and get your gym time in, you will change. You will have your muscles, and your confidence will grow with them.

Stick it out bro. The only way anyone will really look down on you is if you gave up and quit. Otherwise, you will see. In a couple years.... guys will be asking for your advice, and respecting all the hard work YOU put in.

LonelyBedouin
06-11-2009, 10:51 AM
A person can learn to be witty.
A person can become smart
A person can make a decent and above average income without education
A person can get into better shape
A person can change their situation in life
A person can have great friends
A person can date people who are "seemingly" better than they are

EVERYTHING is possible and the keyword in all the above things is the word can. It takes effort, it takes will, it takes determination, it takes being afraid. If you want something bad enough there is always a way to get it done. Change isn't easy but change can be very rewarding but you have to want it because no one is going ot up and hand it to you.

You must have some skills in life job wise so I would use those skills and find another job in another city. Time to break away from your current life and start anew.

Be a man and take control of your life. Stand up and demand better for yourself then go out there and do it.

Couldnt have said it better myself. If you want something bad enough, it can be obtained.

RagingRandy
06-11-2009, 10:53 AM
I think you are deluding yourself if you think all here are ripped, can dead 800 lbs, and bench 400 lbs. Myself, have only been bodybuilding for about 2 years. I am starting late at 40+. I checked out a lot of boards when I first got going looking for advise. This board has the best people and the best atmosphere of any board I know of.

Making the decision to face issues is the start and usually the most difficult part in dealing with them. I see that you compare yourself to others frequently. Being better or the same as other should not be your goal. Your goal should be the best you can be. If I compared myself to Ronnie I would never achieve that goal for many reasons. I would be setting myself for failure.

Be the best you can be and disregard anyone that is contrary to that view.

ironwill
06-11-2009, 10:58 AM
Thanks for posting Cheese....Im glad you are still here.....
There is a time for tough love and a time to step back and say this dude is a good person that needs a break......A big break...I appreciate you telling me your story Cheese, and i am still wanting to give you help if you decide to take it, that is your call....I think you have the drive, and you are willing to get your shit done......
i appreciate the fact you trusted me and told me details that you havent shared with the board, about your situation.....
I dont want you giving up bro, as you can see you have a tonne of folks, men and women on here cheering you on, that is all you need....Some good supporters, and some folks that want to see you succeed more than anything...
YOU WILL be getting some hot tail bro....I think you will even find as you get in shape and your confidence grows, you will find that offshooting into other avenues of your life....We all have a story about tough times, and many have overcome the adversity of the cards we were dealt in life...I truly believe you have a warrior mentality, i can see how much you want this and I want it for you, as do most of us.....
You can do anything you like my friend, just let us help you when you are down....
Now we can get a plan going here asap, once your mind is ready, your body will follow.........
Lets do it broheezy.....Nows the time to geter done, then next summer you will be a new man....We have 8 months, until the end of June bro, thats like 33 weeks or more i believe.......Then you can unveil the project to show the ladies whats up........That is a lot of time to transform my man.....
There are a couple of other guys that have also said they would assist you...Just remember, only go with one person, listen to them, adhere to yours schedule like it is your job...........Be a soldier make it your routine, you dont need a whole lotta cake to get it done, you wont need all of these fancy supplements etc...You can do it as you are......
Kepp in touch bro, and again.....LETS DO THIS THING.........!!!!!!!:yeah

tex
06-11-2009, 11:03 AM
wow. now i really feel like a dick. don't underestimate yourself cs.....set small goals.....

natenator
06-11-2009, 11:08 AM
A quote I tend to live by: "Good things come to those who wait but great things come to those who go after them" -Me.

GYMBRAT
06-11-2009, 11:17 AM
gitter done cheese, we're all here to help bruh ;)

Andre
06-11-2009, 11:32 AM
i know with my situation i'm not gonna be getting 10's and dope looking girls. 360lb'rs are what i can get. i go for girls who are 3 or 4's in my eyes because they really don't have the option of being picky. maybe i can get a hot one night stand with some muscle though.

I am going to get a little serious here for sec (for those emotional types go get some tissues :mock ) . When I met my wife 17 years ago she was close to 300lbs... I was a blimp at the time myself... After only knowing her for a couple months I fell in love with her... we are now married and she just had our 1st baby... since then we both got into shape and now own 3 gyms... my feelings about her are same regardless of how much or little she weighs...

Beauty is only skin deep... I know plenty of guys with super hot chicks that are also super bitches... I don't envy anyone... my childhood was not the greatest... I grew up in a single parent house, on welfare at one point living in low income housing... if anything this helped make me stronger physically and mentally compared to alot of the people who I grew up with that had cushy lives...

Even if you are only into looks, I see tons of hot chicks with major loser guys...

Life is what you make it...

AlladdinSane
06-11-2009, 11:46 AM
Stick around. I was a terribly fat mess and weak to boot. I knew a few guys who were light-years ahead of me that offered to help. I took them up on the offer and now I'm awesome. It just takes a bit of time. Remember, it's only you vs. you.

Take IW up on his offer. He's a real smarty (although he'd never tell anyone) and is very upbuilding... definitely somebody good to have on your team.

ironwill
06-11-2009, 11:49 AM
Good post bro, and your wifey made an incredible transformation along with you....Big time......You guys both look fantastic......
Many of us here transformed Cheese, many, many of us, thats why we are here now...

Thank-you for the kind words Aladdin, appreciated bro...



I am going to get a little serious here for sec (for those emotional types go get some tissues :mock ) . When I met my wife 17 years ago she was close to 300lbs... I was a blimp at the time myself... After only knowing her for a couple months I fell in love with her... we are now married and she just had our 1st baby... since then we both got into shape and now own 3 gyms... my feelings about her are same regardless of how much or little she weighs...

Beauty is only skin deep... I know plenty of guys with super hot chicks that are also super bitches... I don't envy anyone... my childhood was not the greatest... I grew up in a single parent house, on welfare at one point living in low income housing... if anything this helped make me stronger physically and mentally compared to alot of the people who I grew up with that had cushy lives...

Even if you are only into looks, I see tons of hot chicks with major loser guys...

Life is what you make it...

MuSuLPhReAk
06-11-2009, 11:56 AM
Cheesesteak, please check your pm. I have a proposition for you.

cheesesteak
06-11-2009, 11:57 AM
I don't see where you guys are getting the idea that I'm quitting training. I'm only confused as to whether to cut or bulk, but am gonna work with IW on this. I do thank Nate though for helping me with all the keto questions. That diet does work for me and I like it.

Good to see I have support. I'm not used to having support. After the past 2 days of not training I'm dying to get back into the gym. It's where I feel I belong.

Sean Summers
06-11-2009, 01:33 PM
Just remember Rome wasn't built in a day. I've been working out for 25 years and I still don't look the way I want to. It's all about being a "work in progress". Consistency is the key. Apply the consistency that you apply to bodybuilding in real life and you will succeed.
Realize that you will need to get "fatter" to gain in the off-season. Once you accept this fact (and yes it is a fact) then you progress. Plan your years in cycles - off-season in the winter and cutting for the summer.
SS

SS

Bowlcut
06-11-2009, 10:14 PM
wait a minute.... Andre is gay?

Did you find his add on Gay 411 or Craigslist?

gustavo77
07-11-2009, 03:13 PM
Stick around bro...everyone gets ribbed around here once in a while. It is part of being a member of the family here. If you are not being ribbed once in a blue moon, then and only then i would question whether anyone cares...a lot of the freaks around here only know how to show love through a little ribbing...so take care bro and remember, as long as you want to be a part of this board, you will be.

cheesesteak
07-11-2009, 04:18 PM
Stick around bro...everyone gets ribbed around here once in a while. It is part of being a member of the family here. If you are not being ribbed once in a blue moon, then and only then i would question whether anyone cares...a lot of the freaks around here only know how to show love through a little ribbing...so take care bro and remember, as long as you want to be a part of this board, you will be.

I'm here to stay. Everyone is being so genorous and supportive I've never experienced anything like it. I have more support here than I do on the outside. Gonna be a fantastic year coming up.

buildinthaskinnys
07-11-2009, 10:01 PM
I'm here to stay. Everyone is being so genorous and supportive I've never experienced anything like it. I have more support here than I do on the outside. Gonna be a fantastic year coming up.

****in' eh!!!

Iwant2Grow
07-11-2009, 10:12 PM
Your going to do amazing things this year you will impress everyone and yourself !!

Timbo89
07-11-2009, 11:38 PM
stick around cheese, ur a good guy

monkey
11-11-2009, 02:09 AM
Don't go... a joke is a joke... we are a bunch of "e- buddies.." or whatever you wanna call it.. and everybody likes to have fun...

Your a good guy.. if anybody makes fun it is probably bec. you are so open so nobody expects to offend you with a comment about smt you brought up

Stick around

Leviathan
12-11-2009, 02:12 AM
Glad to see you are sticking around cheese. As you already know, you were one of my favourite posters on bb.com.

tex
15-11-2009, 02:17 PM
stick around cheese!! we need to take turns beating you with a rock in a sock ;)

dremen
15-11-2009, 04:09 PM
I hope this ****er get hit with a brick, ****ing dude scamming people here.

Douche bag:nofishing