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BBbox
29-10-2009, 06:10 PM
For some reason, as soon as I get into a relationship I loose interest in the bar/club scene.

Its just no longer fun to me to go out and get ripped and be surrounded by smokeshows who you know you can't take home.

Anyone else feel this way? Am I just taking the wrong approach?

waderow
29-10-2009, 06:17 PM
I didnt ever go to a bar to dance or to enjoy the music. I went for girls. I think most here would agree.

GYMBRAT
29-10-2009, 06:32 PM
yep agreed :D

natenator
29-10-2009, 06:32 PM
I didnt ever go to a bar to dance or to enjoy the music. I went for girls. I think most here would agree.
hmm unless they approach me I go to have fun with my friends and LOOK at the girls. If they approach me (which they often do) then that's a different story although I have been known to buy a girl a drink to leave me alone.

Guess it's more or less if you have the ability to control yourself.

pseclint
29-10-2009, 06:34 PM
yep bar blows when your dating someone

champcar99
29-10-2009, 06:38 PM
I didnt ever go to a bar to dance or to enjoy the music. I went for girls. I think most here would agree.

100% agreed..

BBbox
29-10-2009, 06:42 PM
So what do you guys just no even bother going once youre commited to one chick?

waderow
29-10-2009, 06:46 PM
So what do you guys just no even bother going once youre commited to one chick?

does your GF want to go? then go. If you want to go let off some steam and play pool and shit....go. Me... I am too old for that shit now. I want to watch a movie, or go to dinner, or go to a movie, or a play, or a concert....

CanadianIron
29-10-2009, 06:52 PM
There is absolutely no point what so ever in going to a club/bar when you're in a relationship. Its totally stupid IMO.

99.999% of guys go clubbing or to bars to get drunk and hook up. If you're there to try and have good time, you won't. Period... its like going car shopping with your rich friend and knowing you wont be taking anything home... no one goes car shopping for fun...

rated_rko
29-10-2009, 08:52 PM
i go for vag

GYMBRAT
29-10-2009, 08:58 PM
So what do you guys just no even bother going once youre commited to one chick?

nothin wrong with goin wit some bros and havin a good time, dosnt mean ya have to cheat dude :)

....I prefer to drinkin in my garage with my bros :)

BBbox
29-10-2009, 10:31 PM
Alot of my buddies have gfs and still go and seem to have a good time...

They never bring anyone home but I dunno how "faithful" they are while theyre there lol

Like CanadianIron said, dont really see how a guy in a relationship can have a great time at the bar if they are legit to their girl....

BBbox
31-10-2009, 06:13 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCz3HVJ-nfM

BAM
31-10-2009, 06:29 PM
hmm unless they approach me I go to have fun with my friends and LOOK at the girls. If they approach me (which they often do) then that's a different story although I have been known to buy a girl a drink to leave me alone.

Guess it's more or less if you have the ability to control yourself.

Wait a minute.. aren't you gay?

Bowlcut
01-11-2009, 10:07 PM
Wait a minute.. aren't you gay?

That's why they approach him, they don't have to worry about him slipping a roofie into their drink :D

Durk
01-11-2009, 11:39 PM
I hate bars when I am dating. Its a good opportunity for your girl to be a retard, and I really only go there to pick girls up. No point when I already have a ball and chain.

BBbox
02-11-2009, 11:18 AM
No point when I already have a ball and chain.

lol nice

CanadianIron
02-11-2009, 12:48 PM
I guess one benefit is that you can go to the bar, be a complete ass hole to women and still go home and get laid without a worry....

Solo59
02-11-2009, 08:04 PM
A gentleman takes his lady to a piano bar or a wine bar after sexual activity to chat, listen to music, or mix with strangers. After the piano or wine bar, he takes her home again for more of the aforementioned activity.

Solo

MMASTAR
02-11-2009, 08:07 PM
id rather go out for a nice meal and then watch some fights or a movie..

BBbox
03-11-2009, 12:19 AM
A gentleman takes his lady to a piano bar or a wine bar after sexual activity to chat, listen to music, or mix with strangers. After the piano or wine bar, he takes her home again for more of the aforementioned activity.

Solo

lol mix with strangers

cheesesteak
03-11-2009, 06:37 AM
I hate bars and clubs to begin with. Bars are too expensive and crowded, or else full of losers. Clubs are decent but I'm too old for the only one here. When I was old enough I was really fat so I'd just hug the wall. Plus they never played a good mix of tunes.

BBbox
03-11-2009, 03:41 PM
^^ yah the music is usually shit... not that im one for dancing anyways haha