Getting her back...

[BBbox]

Ran into my ex, we ended up hanging out together and grabbing a coffee.

Spending time with her again was pretty much a punch in the face making me realize what an IDIOT i was to let her go.

Anyways I have spent time contemplating the situation and really think we should get back together. I do think there is hope for this on her end as well.

SO wondering who has some romantic/sappy/chick flick movie ideas for what I should do in order to "win her back" so to speak. I know she would love it if I really went out of my way with this. Shes always said to me... "actions speak louder than words".

Female advice also appreciated!

Thanks guys

[waderow]

tell her what you told us. thats all you have to do. there are no tricks required

[Redz]

Yeah the truth is your best shot, no bs.

[waderow]

and ALSO.... why didnt you ask your hot sister? :p

[BBbox]

I will deffinetly tell her, but think I should do something special as well...
I just feel like actions speak louder then words sometimes...
and shes the type of girl who would love that kinda shit

[JonnyO]

Why did you break up with her in the first place?

[BBbox]

^^ i was selfish/immature/unappreciative

Just didnt realize what I had, more concerned about my own happiness than hers

[Shortdave]

I read the question wrong.

I agree, throw the cards on the table and let her decide if she feels the same way as you.

[Redz]

Going to her and telling her how you feel is the action you need not something to impress her.

[RagingRandy]

Repeat after me.......

Life is too short to play games. I love you. I always have. You are the best thing that ever happened to me. I made a huge mistake. I realize that now. Please forgive me.


Tips...
Be sure you are sober
Squeeze out a tear if you can
Say this to your EX not Mr. O.

P.S. She will be able to tell if you are sincere or not.

[BBbox]

bringing flowers or something too couldnt hurt though...

[ironwill]

tell her what you told us. thats all you have to do. there are no tricks required

good advice raging randy and waderow....that is what i would be doing, especially if you feel the way you are feeling, listen to your gut bro......
Good luck..

[BBbox]

I still want to DO something extra...

any ideas on something more unique than flowers?

[RagingRandy]

It all depends what would be meaningful to her. Did she ever give you an indication on what was lacking in your relationship? Maybe things you did not do.

One cutesy things I have done is give a HUGE teddy bear and say "that is for the times you need hugs and I am not around".

[Redz]

I think the most sincere thing to do is just invite her out for dinner and tell her everything buying a gift may send the wrong impression.

[Durk]

Ride in on a big white horse and sarinade her at her windowstill. This is ofcourse after you slay the evil dragon that brought misfortune to her people, and slightly before she asks you to become her prince and rule over her magical fairy kingdom.

[69challenger]

Don't overthink this. Just tell her how you feel. If it is sincere, it will mean more to her than any "cutesy" gift that you can get her.

[natenator]

Ride in on a big white horse and sarinade her at her windowstill. This is ofcourse after you slay the evil dragon that brought misfortune to her people, and slightly before she asks you to become her prince and rule over her magical fairy kingdom.
god I love you lol

[BBbox]

how much does it cost to rent a white horse these days

[natenator]

how much does it cost to rent a white horse these days
you can let her ride me for free :D

[Durk]

you can let her ride me for free :D

oh snap! rep for sure lol

[BBbox]

The white horse is for me actually...

But if youre down, so am I :sexy

[Durk]

The white horse is for me actually...

But if youre down, so am I :sexy

I guess you might be able to win her back with a spit roast if shes into that kinda thing.

[natenator]

I guess you might be able to win her back with a spit roast if shes into that kinda thing.
can I get some pics first before I commit to this? lol

[Krozone]

Don't overthink this. Just tell her how you feel. If it is sincere, it will mean more to her than any "cutesy" gift that you can get her.


100% Agree..

Put yourself in the mindset where you'd be at the alter with her, getting ready to be wed. Instead of reciting Vow's that you've prepared. Speak from your heart.

be a gentleman and put her first. Treat her as you feel a guy worthy of her should treat her.

Walking up/down stares with her? Stand to her left and allow her to use your right hand to brace herself (with her left. Palm to Palm) as she walks up or down the stares.

Be a gentleman and allow your actions to speak louder then words.

Forget about the gifts.. Flowers...etc..etc... Show her, don't give her..

Good luck!

BTW: If she passes on your chivelry (sp), then move on. If a man/woman does not respond to sincerity, then there's no basis to that potential relationship.
(That or you will end up on one of those Dead end marriage/Relationship shows where you're like.. "What a ****ing asshole. What the hell does she see in him? What's wrong with this??...." You know the shows I'm talking about.

(put it this way. The woman I am marrying next October is Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of my leage from afar. See how I treat her up close and you'll understand)
Kro!

[megwell]

damn.........i thought this was a revenge thread..........caught my attention.

[physique]

i told mine and i also made her a scrap book. ya i know thats chessey, but i started with the first day we went out, where we went and went from there. i had pictures of places we went, did, traveld to, ate at everything in there. last page was a page for family.
showing her i was more then ready to settle down and have a kid.

we are now back together and everything is fine.

[JacktheThriller]

let be real guys there are lots of great women in the world. the best way to interest a girl is let her know that things are going great for you and show some confidence in yourself. Confronting her with all your feelings could be scary id say hang out as friends and maybe shit will click. ask her to train with you, go to lunch, if she spends lots of time with you and she likes u she will give u signals

[countrychic]

One cutesy things I have done is give a HUGE teddy bear and say "that is for the times you need hugs and I am not around".

aww that is very sweet!

[countrychic]

i told mine and i also made her a scrap book. ya i know thats chessey, but i started with the first day we went out, where we went and went from there. i had pictures of places we went, did, traveld to, ate at everything in there. last page was a page for family.
showing her i was more then ready to settle down and have a kid.

we are now back together and everything is fine.

This is awesome! Good for you physique not cheesy at all!

[countrychic]

Ran into my ex, we ended up hanging out together and grabbing a coffee.

Spending time with her again was pretty much a punch in the face making me realize what an IDIOT i was to let her go.

Anyways I have spent time contemplating the situation and really think we should get back together. I do think there is hope for this on her end as well.

SO wondering who has some romantic/sappy/chick flick movie ideas for what I should do in order to "win her back" so to speak. I know she would love it if I really went out of my way with this. Shes always said to me... "actions speak louder than words".

Female advice also appreciated!

Thanks guys

BB you need to put your heart out there and tell here exactly how you feel. Have a sit down with her and express your feelings. Like Raging Randy said she will be able to tell how sincere you are.

I also agree that you need to do somthing diffrent, somthing that was unique to the two of you........

[rob66679]

Ran into my ex, we ended up hanging out together and grabbing a coffee.

Spending time with her again was pretty much a punch in the face making me realize what an IDIOT i was to let her go.

Anyways I have spent time contemplating the situation and really think we should get back together. I do think there is hope for this on her end as well.

SO wondering who has some romantic/sappy/chick flick movie ideas for what I should do in order to "win her back" so to speak. I know she would love it if I really went out of my way with this. Shes always said to me... "actions speak louder than words".

Female advice also appreciated!

Thanks guys


I dunno.... Some women love stringing guys along...Been there... My advice would be tell her how you feel, and don't reherse what you're going to say. Just say it.

Go for it I guess. Nothing to lose but your pride...... You gotta realize though theres a good chance she just wanted to be on good terms with you, and she might not be in the same mind set you are.

Good luck!

[BBbox]

BB you need to put your heart out there and tell here exactly how you feel. Have a sit down with her and express your feelings. Like Raging Randy said she will be able to tell how sincere you are.

I also agree that you need to do somthing diffrent, somthing that was unique to the two of you........


:o

[HoliTheCat]

Most of the advice here sucks.

This is what you do.

Call a male escort service and tell them you want the biggest blackest guy they have (you know what I mean).

Then call her up and go to dinner. Tell her, "Crystal, I love you, I always have and always will. I know I was selfish and childish and put myself before you, but that has all changed. To show you how much I love you and how much I value your needs, wants and desires....I got you a present."

Now this is when you parade in Big Jim in all his masculine alpha male glory!!!

She will be in shock and awe that you were so thoughtful and finally thought of HER needs and well being before your own.

She will love you forever.


No need to thank me....it's what I do.

[natenator]

Most of the advice here sucks.

This is what you do.

Call a male escort service and tell them you want the biggest blackest guy they have (you know what I mean).

Then call her up and go to dinner. Tell her, "Crystal, I love you, I always have and always will. I know I was selfish and childish and put myself before you, but that has all changed. To show you how much I love you and how much I value your needs, wants and desires....I got you a present."

Now this is when you parade in Big Jim in all his masculine alpha male glory!!!

She will be in shock and awe that you were so thoughtful and finally thought of HER needs and well being before your own.

She will love you forever.


No need to thank me....it's what I do.
+1

[daande]

You could also show her a picture of my dick if you want.

[natenator]

You could also show her a picture of my dick if you want.
that will definitely drive her back to him. "look baby, there is someone else in the world with a smaller dick than you"

[waderow]

that will definitely drive her back to him. "look baby, there is someone else in the world with a smaller dick than you"

hahahah precisely. the only girl on earth who likes a small dick is 12.

[scubadiver]

While the gestures are sweet for a reconciliation, with the flowers and dinner, I would say first find out what her current 'status' is. Is she enjoying dating and being single? Is she seeing someone? Or does she look back and miss you as much as you miss her?

Also don't make it seem like you're begging to get her back, because honestly, that puts all the power in her hands. It can be really bad for a guy emotionally to make grand gestures, pour his heart out to an ex, beg for her back, and then have her reject him. I know - my buddy went through it. He felt absolutely humiliated. It has to be mutual - i.e. you now appreciate her, but does she appreciate YOU?