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She asked what I did this past weekend when shit between us hit the fan and I had to be honest.....
I went to a peeler with a few of my guy friends and got a dance from a girl. When I told her she snapped and said we are done for good.
So much for working anything out. Looks like I can put off growing up for a little while at least.
Time to take the workouts up a notch?
****ed up....
champcar99
10-10-2009, 04:36 AM
"I went to a peeler with a few of my guy friends and got a dance from a girl. When I told her she snapped and said we are done for good."
big deal you saw a peeler and got a dance..no big deal...at least you were honest..she's being ****ing imature, she'll be back...
yeah....a dance is better than raw dogging some slut you met in a bar.....well not better for you cuz you went home and had to jerk off instead of gettin laid......i wouldnt stress.....seems like you 2 are pretty tight so it'll probably blow over....
kloan
10-10-2009, 06:26 AM
Unless she's putting on a show for you making it seem like it's your fault it didn't work out, meanwhile she's either met someone else or has cheated on you. Don't mean to shit on you but I've seen it play out that way before. Hope it's not the case though bro and you guys can work through it. There was nuthin wrong with what you did so her reaction seems over the top to me.
Mr Ontario
10-10-2009, 09:29 AM
Yes..take the workouts up a notch and focus on that and school. Feel and look your best and the girls will flock to you :) don't forget Test is best!
She asked what I did this past weekend when shit between us hit the fan and I had to be honest.....
I went to a peeler with a few of my guy friends and got a dance from a girl. When I told her she snapped and said we are done for good.
So much for working anything out. Looks like I can put off growing up for a little while at least.
Time to take the workouts up a notch?
****ed up....
varking
10-10-2009, 10:09 AM
Yes..take the workouts up a notch and focus on that and school. Feel and look your best and the girls will flock to you :) don't forget Test is best!
Daddy likes.... Also don't shut the door on this girl no matter what if you think she is the one keep her close she might get her head back together and see the light or she might not but its always worth a try better then looking back and saying I should of did this and that..... also periods are for girls just soo you know
Born2Juice4Ever
10-10-2009, 10:15 AM
Yes..take the workouts up a notch and focus on that and school. Feel and look your best and the girls will flock to you :) don't forget Test is best!
This IS the bottom line!!
Work on YOU before somebody else!!
And on the peeler subject, you did not have to disclose that information, but it's done.
B2J
GYMBRAT
10-10-2009, 11:29 AM
This IS the bottom line!!
Work on YOU before somebody else!!
And on the peeler subject, you did not have to disclose that information, but it's done.
B2J
x2, get some stray and move on brutha (prob easier said than done I know) :) :nofishing love that lil addition even though it don't pertain to this thread hahahahaaaaa
I just wanna thank all the guys who gave me advice before and tried to guide me through this SHITTY experience. This forum is a kick ass place to be and Im glad to be a part of the community here.
Thank you
GYMBRAT
10-10-2009, 11:56 AM
just be sure and double wrap for them rippers when it comes time ;) haha
guest
10-10-2009, 11:59 AM
Unless she's putting on a show for you making it seem like it's your fault it didn't work out, meanwhile she's either met someone else or has cheated on you. Don't mean to shit on you but I've seen it play out that way before. Hope it's not the case though bro and you guys can work through it. There was nuthin wrong with what you did so her reaction seems over the top to me.
i agree.
LonelyBedouin
10-10-2009, 12:01 PM
If I recall your in first year uni, so just worry about school. If I could be in your spot again I would be single and focusing a lot harder in school then I had done.
But in regards to your ex, like others have said she probably will come back after a little time away. But it gives you time to think about if you want it or not.
MikeyFXD35
10-10-2009, 12:56 PM
Women have a real problem with guys going to strip bar and I think I know why. When I was younger a was a waiter in Male strip bar and I can tell you that Women get right out of hand. Touching, blow jobs getting their tits and crouch rubbed. They definitely don't play by the same rules we HAVE to. I was with a buddy who was getting a lap dance and he touched her clit. He was gone so fast I didn't even see it happen. Try flashing a peeler and see what happens, but for the women it happens a lot and I think that what they think was can do. There must be some guys on here that are bouncers at clubs that have ladies night. What have you seen?
William Shatner
10-10-2009, 02:07 PM
If I were you I would make the GF a nice ole sock puppet to manipulate.
You have to realize (some) women no matter how good their intentions are ALWAYS going to be Puppet Masters. So it may be a welcome gift...or you may get a kick in the nuts but at least retain some dignity.
marino
10-10-2009, 02:16 PM
just remember if it was meant to be it will work itself out over time .... on the other hand the weight pit / gym will be with you forever so spend your time and energy there for now
BBbox
10-10-2009, 02:57 PM
I would like to know how the women on the board feel about their signif. others getting dances from rippers
Ritch
10-10-2009, 05:41 PM
Women have a real problem with guys going to strip bar and I think I know why. When I was younger a was a waiter in Male strip bar and I can tell you that Women get right out of hand. Touching, blow jobs getting their tits and crouch rubbed. They definitely don't play by the same rules we HAVE to. I was with a buddy who was getting a lap dance and he touched her clit. He was gone so fast I didn't even see it happen. Try flashing a peeler and see what happens, but for the women it happens a lot and I think that what they think was can do. There must be some guys on here that are bouncers at clubs that have ladies night. What have you seen?
What you said here is the absolute truth.
rob66679
10-10-2009, 06:04 PM
Women have a real problem with guys going to strip bar and I think I know why. When I was younger a was a waiter in Male strip bar and I can tell you that Women get right out of hand. Touching, blow jobs getting their tits and crouch rubbed. They definitely don't play by the same rules we HAVE to. I was with a buddy who was getting a lap dance and he touched her clit. He was gone so fast I didn't even see it happen. Try flashing a peeler and see what happens, but for the women it happens a lot and I think that what they think was can do. There must be some guys on here that are bouncers at clubs that have ladies night. What have you seen?
Yeah, its a big double standard for sure. Women can do what they want, and they do.
I was used to NS peeler bars where if you touched a girl in ANY way you'd get ur ass kicked, then I wound up in a Quebec peeler bar getting a table dance. The girl got pissed because I didn't touch her , half way through she said " **** you at least look like your enjoying it " lol. Then she started trying to shock me...... or at least get my attention.
Quebec strip bars rock. Seems like anything goes.
daande
10-10-2009, 06:24 PM
Dude...she will be back trust me...They always come back...Next time she gets drunk shes gunna booty call your ass, you will **** her then she will be back in love..Ive seen it happen numerous times. Don't get bitter, get better and she will come back if you want.
^^ I know that seems logical, but shes really not that type of girl. If she was to drunk dial me I would be VERY surprised. She is very smart and somewhat stubborn, so I really dont see that happenning. I would be totally for it if it did happen though. She looks absolutely unreal naked.
daande
10-10-2009, 07:20 PM
She looks absolutely unreal naked.
Proof?
natenator
10-10-2009, 07:21 PM
^^ I know that seems logical, but shes really not that type of girl. If she was to drunk dial me I would be VERY surprised. She is very smart and somewhat stubborn, so I really dont see that happenning. I would be totally for it if it did happen though. She looks absolutely unreal naked.
I remember. lol
BBbox
10-10-2009, 07:28 PM
That sucks dude.. hope the dance was amazing at least to make it worth it.
So whats the move on plan?
Bring home some bar stars?
Got some ****-buddies to call up?
I kinda want to just sit around and feel sorry for myself for a little while. Ill get some work done and hopefully have some good workouts.
I dont really have any friends where I live yet so its extra depressing to be me right now.....
:(
daande
10-10-2009, 07:34 PM
I kinda want to just sit around and feel sorry for myself for a little while. Ill get some work done and hopefully have some good workouts.
I dont really have any friends where I live yet so its extra depressing to be me right now.....
:(
Tren got me over my last gf try it.
I just started my actual PCT protocol today....I think thats why I wanna go buy a noose and fashion it to my ceililing....
kloan
10-10-2009, 07:43 PM
Great, so your dad can crusade around blaming steroids for the death of his son... and maybe make an appearance in a pro-choice steroid documentary. Oh, wait.. that's already been done.
Better stick to the other plan.. you know, the one where you don't succumb to your weakened emotional state. ;)
Im talking shit, it just sucks to deal with everything at once.
On a side note....my farts ****ing REAK today, wholy ****. Im offeding myself even. Thats messed up. Drinking egg whites really does cause some dangerous methane.....
kloan
10-10-2009, 07:50 PM
Oh god egg whites are the WORST for that.
megwell
10-10-2009, 11:43 PM
hopefully she doens't owe you money
GYMBRAT
11-10-2009, 12:47 AM
hopefully she doens't owe you money
..or ever smelt these farts your bragging about :rofl
phatkid77
11-10-2009, 03:51 PM
the secret on the eggwhites.....for me... i can drink 250ml/day......if i hit 500ml.....look out.....my work has thrown out compute chairs i sat in all nite they were that bad.....lol
phats
ps..neked hot girl pics please..something jersey
nobody is getting any more pics of the girl sorry guys.
GYMBRAT
11-10-2009, 06:50 PM
^well then that's it I'm going home!
BBbox
11-10-2009, 09:51 PM
Hope youre not feeling like hanging yourself anymore...
Just get out there, youll find someone new/better
I cant sleep, eat, or get any schoolwork done because my head is so ****ed up. This sucks so bad......
BBbox
11-10-2009, 10:10 PM
Part of that is probably the PCT talking bro. Remember that.
horrible timing. but you can do it!! we have faith in you!!
It's like Im actually living in a nightmare. I probably sound like a big hypochodriac to most of you but this is by far some of the hardest shit to deal with I have ever experienced. The only time I can remember that was worse than now was dealing with one of my best friends killing himself. I want to just crawl into a hole and disappear.
LIVEHARD
11-10-2009, 11:15 PM
She asked what I did this past weekend when shit between us hit the fan and I had to be honest.....
I went to a peeler with a few of my guy friends and got a dance from a girl. When I told her she snapped and said we are done for good.
So much for working anything out. Looks like I can put off growing up for a little while at least.
Time to take the workouts up a notch?
****ed up....
I go away for two weeks with some women I met on the street and your in a pile of shit WTF bro !!
Best wishes (( KISS HER ASS A LITTLE ))
GYMBRAT
11-10-2009, 11:28 PM
that shit can be the worst ever to deal with I know! but it always gets soooo much better, then when it does and you look back on it you think wtf was I thinking ;)
LIVEHARD
11-10-2009, 11:29 PM
nobody is getting any more pics of the girl sorry guys.
Just like jersey !! taking his ball and bat and going home
BBbox
12-10-2009, 12:56 PM
are you sure its HER youre upset about or the fact that youre dealing with changes... ie new school/friends not around/hormones... and having this extra change is just making it seem harder?
Born2Juice4Ever
12-10-2009, 01:29 PM
It's like Im actually living in a nightmare. I probably sound like a big hypochodriac to most of you but this is by far some of the hardest shit to deal with I have ever experienced. The only time I can remember that was worse than now was dealing with one of my best friends killing himself. I want to just crawl into a hole and disappear.
If this is so difficult, I strongly suggest you call for a meeting with her, and put all cards on the table.
Get this over and dealt with:
-Either work it out
OR
-Let it die and accept the consequences.
You need to do one of those two IMO. Other than that, I TOO (like many of us) have been there before, it's not easy B!!!
B2J
BBbox
12-10-2009, 01:51 PM
Based on your first post "guess i dont have to grow up"... seems like YOU dont actually want to "grow up", just doing it for her. The only reason you should change yourself is because you want to.
Also based on your marriage hatred thread you may not really want a l-term relationship. Maybe just so upset because it has become habit/comfortable.
Are you actually ready to give up the flirting/other shit youve been doing that is seeming to be so threatening to her? If not, cut your loses.
I wish I could fall and hit my head and just not remember her at all. That would make things a lot easier.
gicantor
12-10-2009, 03:54 PM
^^^ i could always whack ya over the head with a 2x4
BBbox
12-10-2009, 04:33 PM
If you take some time off, and realize that she is FOR SURE the one for you, you should fight for it.
I had this one friend whos gf broke up with him, and everyday for a week he left something for her on her front porch... lol ghey i no... but girls love sappy shit like that. flowers/cds/teddy bears.
They got back together and she still talk about "how sweet it was" haha
The point is... I think with girls they want you to show that youre sorry and not just say youre sorry. From my experience. Prolly because they watch shit like the notebook and then think that life should really be like that.
Anyone wanna come over and give me a back rub? Its not gay. Its just a massage.
Anyone wanna come over and give me a back rub? Its not gay. Its just a massage.
No. But I do want to tell you to quit feeling sorry for yourself, buck the **** up, and go fight for the girl that you have stated many times is the best thing that ever happened to you. I know you're young Bro, but do you honestly think you'll find a comparable girl in the near future? If it doesn't work out in the long run, then so be it, but hopefully it will be for something more significant than some meaningless quarrels and bruised egos.
warlock
14-10-2009, 12:02 AM
Am I missing something????
It seems that for the second time she is overreacting.
Little stimulus = huge reaction = bullshit!
Yes you may have committed your mistakes, yes you may have done crap. But she shows no respect for you no willingness to deal with crap and no desire to try to see the situation trough your eyes!
Long term relationships are made of communication, and love is not enough; on top of it there must be a lot of patience to deal with shit. We are all humans, we commit mistakes and if both parts are not up for sucking up, talk, forgive and try instead of "my way is the only way" attitude there is only one thing that you can say: Goodbye, have a good life.
Do a little soul search, think about your attitudes and mistakes, what you can and should improve what you are looking for in a relationship, learn from the past and let it go.
Before being able to be in a relationship you have to make peace with yourself and figure out yourself.
She may have tons of qualities but acceptance, generosity and maturity are none of them.
She gave you the booth, if she wants to deal with you she has your # and knows how to find you.
Work out, study and live your life. Show some self respect and love for the most important person in your life: yourself!
Anyone wanna come over and give me a back rub? Its not gay. Its just a massage.
pm me what uni your at. If your close we could go out somewhere. It sucks being somewhere new with no friends just after a breakup. I promise your ass wont hurt too much when you wake up.
warlock
14-10-2009, 12:05 AM
And if you ever come to Toronto pm me.
I'll introduce you more pussy than you can imagine...
Am I missing something????
It seems that for the second time she is overreacting.
Little stimulus = huge reaction = bullshit!
Yes you may have committed your mistakes, yes you may have done crap. But she shows no respect for you no willingness to deal with crap and no desire to try to see the situation trough your eyes!
Long term relationships are made of communication, and love is not enough; on top of it there must be a lot of patience to deal with shit. We are all humans, we commit mistakes and if both parts are not up for sucking up, talk, forgive and try instead of "my way is the only way" attitude there is only one thing that you can say: Goodbye, have a good life.
Do a little soul search, think about your attitudes and mistakes, what you can and should improve what you are looking for in a relationship, learn from the past and let it go.
Before being able to be in a relationship you have to make peace with yourself and figure out yourself.
She may have tons of qualities but acceptance, generosity and maturity are none of them.
She gave you the booth, if she wants to deal with you she has your # and knows how to find you.
Work out, study and live your life. Show some self respect and love for the most important person in your life: yourself!
your posts make me hot (no homo) you should be a relationship counsellor srsly
pseclint
14-10-2009, 12:07 AM
And if you ever come to Toronto pm me.
I'll introduce you more pussy than you can imagine...
seriously this guy goes all over the bar rounding up pussy for you..... its great!
warlock
14-10-2009, 12:08 AM
Maybe I should do that: counselor during that day and wing man during the evening...
And if you ever come to Toronto pm me.
I'll introduce you more pussy than you can imagine...
I lost your number when my pm's got deleted I really thought I was going to move this time lol. I swear I will look you up just to hang out next time I visit. There is still a chance I can transfer closer, but that might be about a year lol.
BBbox
14-10-2009, 12:26 AM
Yes you may have committed your mistakes, yes you may have done crap. But she shows no respect for you no willingness to deal with crap and no desire to try to see the situation trough your eyes!
I guess that depends on how many "mistakes" hes already commited and how many times shes already forgiven/tried to see it thru his eyes?
BBbox
14-10-2009, 12:30 AM
She may have tons of qualities but acceptance, generosity and maturity are none of them.
Harsh... shes a real cold hearted bitch if thats the case lol
BBbox
14-10-2009, 12:31 AM
No. But I do want to tell you to quit feeling sorry for yourself, buck the **** up, and go fight for the girl that you have stated many times is the best thing that ever happened to you. I know you're young Bro, but do you honestly think you'll find a comparable girl in the near future? If it doesn't work out in the long run, then so be it, but hopefully it will be for something more significant than some meaningless quarrels and bruised egos.
X2
I guess that depends on how many "mistakes" hes already commited and how many times shes already forgiven/tried to see it thru his eyes?
The guy is beyond whipped plz. A strip club is called monday for me. She needs to spend a month with a guy like me and see how good she had it.
Retrieve your balls from your G/fs purse.
BBbox
14-10-2009, 12:33 AM
dont even have a gf... just playing devils advocate
Meh my theory is shes in college wants to have her last bit of fun and is looking for any reason she can, without feeling like shes at fault. A lot of girls do this when they want to break up.
BBbox
14-10-2009, 12:49 AM
Does she make you a better person?
one of the most important things IMO
daande
14-10-2009, 01:20 AM
Does she make your dick hard?
one of the most important things IMO
Fixed!
baahhh.....if it sucks soo much being alone then you have some personal issues that you need to deal with. should not be a problem if everything is gtg in your life so you need some time alone to get your shit ironed out. let warlock intro you to some hot sloots AND...........
or one day you'll be.........
Danger
14-10-2009, 01:47 AM
Meh my theory is shes in college wants to have her last bit of fun and is looking for any reason she can, without feeling like shes at fault. A lot of girls do this when they want to break up.
Couples breaking up in first year Uni.... you dont say lol, thats how everyone gets laid in college!
Born2Juice4Ever
14-10-2009, 05:55 AM
baahhh.....if it sucks soo much being alone then you have some personal issues that you need to deal with. should not be a problem if everything is gtg in your life so you need some time alone to get your shit ironed out. let warlock intro you to some hot sloots AND...........
Bro Warlock has a boyfriend already, he can't help Jersey.:nofishing
B2J
BBbox
14-10-2009, 11:29 AM
My sister was sitting beside me while i was reading this and insists I let her give him her advice hahaha.... sorry for any of the following which will probably be extremely ghey.... (and noone is getting naked pics of her dont even make the comment)
Hi,
OK so
Your girlfriend is pissed about the stripclub dance because she probably feels like you didnt care at all about the breakup and were just so excited to finally get to go out and get with some naked girls.
What you need to do is something over-the-top romantic to show her that she is the one for you.... i hate guys that just call or come over and say "im sorry".... weve heard it before... you gotta go out of your way to prove it!
Also, if this isnt the first time youve screwed up, you need to have some concrete answers for her as to exactly how things will change or get better. But only if you really mean it, otherwise dont bother.
If you dont care enough to do that, then youre better off apart!
daande
14-10-2009, 01:31 PM
Ill paypal you $20 to see a picture of your sister naked.
waderow
14-10-2009, 02:14 PM
well, since I am such an asshole (apparently) I will continue on here....
Jersey, youre an awesome bro. Funny, smart, obviously gifted athletically. You must be hot too with a cute tushy based on the pic you posted of your GF, but this time I think you ****ed up bad.
The stripper thing was immature teenage boy shit.... or meatheaded.... Your girlfriend was obviously hurt and sat around home probably crying, and there you are at the strippers whoring it up. She is not over reacting.
If you want to keep her, and from my standpoint (over 10 years on you), I would say you should...
you need to change, and probably listen to BBBOXES hot sister who I am curiously arroused with and attracted to.
Hi,
OK so
Your girlfriend is pissed about the stripclub dance because she probably feels like you didnt care at all about the breakup and were just so excited to finally get to go out and get with some naked girls.
What you need to do is something over-the-top romantic to show her that she is the one for you.... i hate guys that just call or come over and say "im sorry".... weve heard it before... you gotta go out of your way to prove it!
Also, if this isnt the first time youve screwed up, you need to have some concrete answers for her as to exactly how things will change or get better. But only if you really mean it, otherwise dont bother.
If you dont care enough to do that, then youre better off apart!
I was a lot like you when I was younger. Middle linebacker for High school football. Good looking. Popular. Pursued by the girls. Hottest GF in the school, and after HS, college and life became so broad and diverse that I pissed my high school sweetheart into the wind. Didnt care. Cheated on her. Lost her. She put in effort, but i was "too cool". Later in life I realized that this was my one worst decision in life. Losing my highschool sweetheart. Dont get me wrong. I do okay with the women, but not one has compared to her, and no one ever will.
You mentioned you would take her back in a second....
So I would say that you need to sit back and not listen to anyone about this anymore, and just do what your heart says. Ignore your friends, everyone here except me and bbboxed hot sister LOL and think about what you want.
PS I hope you dont think I am an asshole for this
this song is helping me deal (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfsyYUVEteA)
This thread has turned out to be very helpful.
Warlock, wade, bbox, and others, i appreciate very much everything and I am currently weighing options and just thinking shit over. Im trying to figure my own shit out right now and deal with some serious family shit that has come up (not my family).
Thanks a lot though guys, so many good posts up here. You guys are solid.
BBbox
14-10-2009, 04:03 PM
NP Dude. Weve all been there.
I think its been about a week now though... if youre still not sure, that just might be your answer.
If its not, dont wait too long, youll lose her for good.
Goodluck.
We have pretty much decided that we are not good for eachother. Its not set in stone yet obviously, but we both need to take some time and put ourselves first for a bit to see whats going on and if a reconciliation is in the future.
Shortdave
14-10-2009, 04:18 PM
Send me her number, she'll be running back to you in no time.
ironwill
14-10-2009, 04:21 PM
keep your head up #8, youre a good bro and things will work out for you man.........:)
^thanks uncle IW.
One day at a time.
:)
ironwill
14-10-2009, 04:25 PM
You are my favorite nephew....:flowers
natenator
14-10-2009, 06:13 PM
this song is helping me deal (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfsyYUVEteA)
werd
daande
14-10-2009, 06:22 PM
My last gf and I dated for 4 years and she broke up with me for almost no reason. We didnt talk for 4 months at all other than a few txt msgs back and forth every couple weeks. One day she called me and asked me if I wanted to hang out I said sure. I ended up hitting it haha. Now 2 months later she tells me she loves me and always did. I think shes bipolar but thats life. We will see were it goes. Do your own thing like I did. I literally ****ed more girls in that 4 months than in the rest of my entire life. I cant even count I ****ed about 1-2 girls every weekend. I would go out every friday and saturday with one goal, to bust a nut and I succeeded, more so than I ever thought I could. It built my confidence up to the point were girls were approaching me for the first time (Girls can sense self confidence and it makes them wet). Anyways, keep on truckin.
natenator
14-10-2009, 06:33 PM
My last gf and I dated for 4 years and she broke up with me for almost no reason. We didnt talk for 4 months at all other than a few txt msgs back and forth every couple weeks. One day she called me and asked me if I wanted to hang out I said sure. I ended up hitting it haha. Now 2 months later she tells me she loves me and always did. I think shes bipolar but thats life. We will see were it goes. Do your own thing like I did. I literally ****ed more girls in that 4 months than in the rest of my entire life. I cant even count I ****ed about 1-2 girls every weekend. I would go out every friday and saturday with one goal, to bust a nut and I succeeded, more so than I ever thought I could. It built my confidence up to the point were girls were approaching me for the first time (Girls can sense self confidence and it makes them wet). Anyways, keep on truckin.
One day you are going to look back on your life and wish you might have done things differently. This will be one of them. I've been there and done that and trust me when I say the attitude you have towards women (and it shows quite clearly on here) is one that you developed because of your break-up and your desire to use and abuse these girls. It's not healthy.
Like I said, I can sit here and say that because I've been in that position.
Maybe it's just an age thing but I can honestly say that I cannot bang a girl anymore without there being something more than looks about her. I went home with a woman a month ago and about 20 mins after getting to her place I left. She was hot but there was nothing else about her that did it for me. My hand, in that moment, works better than she ever could as it knows what I like lol
^^^
translation nate got turned down that night so he was like F U dyke I have standards for personality and other garbage that I made up to feel good about me not getting to hit that tonight :)
natenator
14-10-2009, 06:41 PM
^^^
translation nate got turned down that night so he was like F U dyke I have standards for personality and other garbage that I made up to feel good about me not getting to hit that tonight :)
LMAO. Getting turned down is much easier than to pull your pants up and walk out lol
As a side note I'm in the feeling out process with this 23 year old I met a couple weeks ago. Worked out a few times together, got a date Friday night and will most likely do something Sunday night as well. She's absolutely stunning... model beautiful if you ask me (wtf she was doing hitting on me I have no clue haha) but I can honestly say I am more attracted to her mind/personality than her looks. She does not act 23 in the least. In the couple times we've worked out together she invited me over to shower at her place if I didn't want to do it at the gym. I declined each time. I knew where it would lead and while I am happy as a pig in shit to get in her (lol) I definitely do not want to rush this. Relationships that start out sexual early for me never work.
Plus, I know how the game works with women... they want it and you brush them off makes them want it/you even more lol
My sister was sitting beside me while i was reading this and insists I let her give him her advice hahaha.... sorry for any of the following which will probably be extremely ghey.... (and noone is getting naked pics of her dont even make the comment)
Hi,
OK so
Your girlfriend is pissed about the stripclub dance because she probably feels like you didnt care at all about the breakup and were just so excited to finally get to go out and get with some naked girls.
What you need to do is something over-the-top romantic to show her that she is the one for you.... i hate guys that just call or come over and say "im sorry".... weve heard it before... you gotta go out of your way to prove it!
Also, if this isnt the first time youve screwed up, you need to have some concrete answers for her as to exactly how things will change or get better. But only if you really mean it, otherwise dont bother.
If you dont care enough to do that, then youre better off apart!
Where you from BBox?
Mind setting me up with that? I want some sexy pics of her first though
natenator
14-10-2009, 07:12 PM
Jersey: cut this song on a CD and slip it under her door with a note which says "you are that one"
Sometimes a song says it all but only if you truly mean it and to show that only actions will make a difference.
Song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6YZo0ZIGSU
That gayness only works in disney movies lol
natenator
14-10-2009, 07:21 PM
That gayness only works in disney movies lol
lol anything is worth a try ;)
daande
14-10-2009, 07:21 PM
Jersey: cut this song on a CD and slip it under her door with a note which says "you are that one"
Sometimes a song says it all but only if you truly mean it and to show that only actions will make a difference.
Song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6YZo0ZIGSU
Burn Mariah Carey - We Belong Together on a cd and slip that under her door. Not some gay faggot song like nate suggested.
LMAO. Getting turned down is much easier than to pull your pants up and walk out lol
As a side note I'm in the feeling out process with this 23 year old I met a couple weeks ago. Worked out a few times together, got a date Friday night and will most likely do something Sunday night as well. She's absolutely stunning... model beautiful if you ask me (wtf she was doing hitting on me I have no clue haha) but I can honestly say I am more attracted to her mind/personality than her looks. She does not act 23 in the least. In the couple times we've worked out together she invited me over to shower at her place if I didn't want to do it at the gym. I declined each time. I knew where it would lead and while I am happy as a pig in shit to get in her (lol) I definitely do not want to rush this. Relationships that start out sexual early for me never work.
Plus, I know how the game works with women... they want it and you brush them off makes them want it/you even more lol
I am starting to talk to much classy proffesional type women. I am just seeing them, not actually doing anything physical yet. These kinds of girls seem to like dates first. Weird eh? I know how that game works. Luckily with the sluts that I have picked up lately I havent had to play hard to get in bed. I would like to say my game is getting better, but I just think I have been getting better at picking up on a girls desperation to get laid lol
daande
14-10-2009, 07:26 PM
I am starting to talk to much classy proffesional type women. I am just seeing them, not actually doing anything physical yet. These kinds of girls seem to like dates first. Weird eh? I know how that game works. Luckily with the sluts that I have picked up lately I havent had to play hard to get in bed. I would like to say my game is getting better, but I just think I have been getting better at picking up on a girls desperation to get laid lol
I am starting to think girls are bigger pigs than guys. I'd never let 3 guys run a train on me.
I am starting to think girls are bigger pigs than guys. I'd never let 3 guys run a train on me.
Girls love to be dominated plane and simple. If you know how to play with her emotions right you can get a girl to do anything.
It varies how far you can take it with some of them. There are still a few out there now days with a shred of moral dignity, but they all like the same thing a dominant/confident guy, that really doesnt give a ****.
daande
14-10-2009, 07:41 PM
Girls love to be dominated plane and simple. If you know how to play with her emotions right you can get a girl to do anything.
It varies how far you can take it with some of them. There are still a few out there now days with a shred of moral dignity, but they all like the same thing a dominant/confident guy, that really doesnt give a ****.
They all like to think they want a sensitive, kind, caring, gentleman. BUT they all get wet over douchebag assholes that treat them the exact opposite of how they think they want to be treated. It is generally because they all had shitty relationships with there dads and their dads treated them like shit / never really cared. So deep down they want to be liked by every man so if you treat them like dirt they will do anything to try to get you to treat them good. ****ED UP!
I am starting to think girls are bigger pigs than guys. I'd never let 3 guys run a train on me. but you'd let one give you a rusty trombone ;)
daande
14-10-2009, 11:20 PM
but you'd let one give you a rusty trombone ;)
Well if they were doing it to me that means hes gay Im just getting my trombone blown...right?
They all like to think they want a sensitive, kind, caring, gentleman. BUT they all get wet over douchebag assholes that treat them the exact opposite of how they think they want to be treated. It is generally because they all had shitty relationships with there dads and their dads treated them like shit / never really cared. So deep down they want to be liked by every man so if you treat them like dirt they will do anything to try to get you to treat them good. ****ED UP!
The sad thing is that once you do start to treat them the way they want to be treated its over.
Another thing that I really didnt want to mention on acount of me appearing like satan in every relationship thread is that Jersey would be more likely to get his G/f back by having other girls over, and acting like he doesnt care about her. Making a girl jelous will do a 1000 times more than a mix tape.
lol, this thread has taken a bit of a different turn....jeez
anyways. thats a good idea nate on the CD thing with a good song that she will like
im still just in this horrible ****ed up place where i dont know what is good for me and whats not. she is an amazing girl in every single way, but i have broken her trust so many times and turned her into the girl that needs to question me all the time.
i just want things to go back to the way they were, but they cant, and now im trying to deal with that while trying to figure out whats the next move.....
daande
15-10-2009, 12:25 AM
The sad thing is that once you do start to treat them the way they want to be treated its over.
Another thing that I really didnt want to mention on acount of me appearing like satan in every relationship thread is that Jersey would be more likely to get his G/f back by having other girls over, and acting like he doesnt care about her. Making a girl jelous will do a 1000 times more than a mix tape.
You hit the nail on the head. If Jersey had wild sex orgy parties and didnt invite his ex and she saw all these hot girls all over his property while she was looking out the window. I bet if jersey bought a super hot bra and let it lay over his front porch shed get jealous.
BBbox
15-10-2009, 12:26 AM
Sounds like youd have to both want to work at it... she will have to try to trust you... but trust is earned.... youd have to be willing to do what it takes to get it back.
Thats a big task. Only do it if you thats what you really want.
Also the CD thing may not be enough hahah. Flowers too. Make her something. Go big or go home.
BBbox
15-10-2009, 12:27 AM
You hit the nail on the head. If Jersey had wild sex orgy parties and didnt invite his ex and she saw all these hot girls all over his property while she was looking out the window. I bet if jersey bought a super hot bra and let it lay over his front porch shed get jealous.
Or she might just start bringing home guys in front of him...
well then...heres the definition of a rusty trombone from wikipedia
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Rusty trombone is a euphemism for a sexual act in which a man stands with his knees and back slightly bent, with feet at least shoulder width apart in order to expose the anus.[1] The other partner typically kneels behind the man and performs anilingus while reaching up beneath the testicles or around the body to masturbate the man, mimicking the motions of a trombone player.[1][2]
oooh and....flowers, cd and a lil love note.....somethin thats borderline cheesy....
BBbox
15-10-2009, 12:31 AM
^^but original too
BBbox
15-10-2009, 12:44 AM
side note... didnt you say you decided to work it out before she found out about the peeler? I can see why she changed her mind... but why did you?
countrychic
15-10-2009, 09:26 AM
You hit the nail on the head. If Jersey had wild sex orgy parties and didnt invite his ex and she saw all these hot girls all over his property while she was looking out the window. I bet if jersey bought a super hot bra and let it lay over his front porch shed get jealous.
or it would turn her off for GOOD!!
I am starting to think girls are bigger pigs than guys. I'd never let 3 guys run a train on me.
Who let you out of the children's section? Good analogy Einstein. :rolleyes:
natenator
15-10-2009, 11:14 AM
Who let you out of the children's section? Good analogy Einstein. :rolleyes:
"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to PdH again."
Sorry dude
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