How do you stop yourself from getting feelings for someone?

[baza]

I have a gf, for a long time. But just curious, for those that are single...
if you are talking to a few girls regularly, and start sleeping with them. How do you stop yourself from getting feelings for them? And if the girls are seeing other guys and ****ing them, how do you not care?

[GYMBRAT]

hump other girls that are hotter and better in bed maybe? (not too sure) been wit my wife for 19 yrs........kinda outa the loop on that game any more ha

[ubcpower]

its impossible, its chemical man.
when an african gorilla catches its mate tongue ****ing another apes asshole it chemically reacts with aggression and adrenaline

[natenator]

as for the second part of your question I follow this rule: What I don't know doesn't hurt me.

As for the first part? I don't know. Still trying to figure that out myself. I have some women that I see that I don't really have any feelings for in the sense that I want to see them on a regular basis for more than just sex yet I have one currently that I could easily be happy making her the single one but I know she isn't ready for that yet.

So I dunno

[#8]

If you start falling for one way more than the others that you are seeing, you have to now use her as the basis for comparison. Ditch the other girls and get a bunch more that you can compare to the one you think you like most.

This will allow you to sleep with a lot of hot girls at the same time, while maintaining respect for yourself and them because they are nice girls not just trash.

[baza]

lol I don't think I could do the don't know, dont' hurt me. My mind thinks about crazy things some times, I think that would often come up.

[GYMBRAT]

its impossible, its chemical man.
when an african gorilla catches its mate tongue ****ing another apes asshole it chemically reacts with aggression and adrenaline

THAT there was F**KING HILARIOUS my friend! (instant mental pic) nasty but funny!

[baza]

If you start falling for one way more than the others that you are seeing, you have to now use her as the basis for comparison. Ditch the other girls and get a bunch more that you can compare to the one you think you like most.

This will allow you to sleep with a lot of hot girls at the same time, while maintaining respect for yourself and them because they are nice girls not just trash.

And how do you cut it off with the other girls?
lol

[CanadianIron]

Picture them on the toilet.

[L3]

out of sight, out of mind

thats my motto

[z83]

yep, avoid them

[tex]

quit being such a pussy ;)

[waderow]

Picture them on the toilet.

that makes me hard

[gicantor]

^^^:D

[Ritch]

I was just about to say that it would make Waderow turned on, then I see his post...

[Durk]

I am usually not like this, but I ****ed 3 girls recently in about a five day period. My best friend ended up banging the last one today, and I sent him a text asking how did I taste, and we had a laugh about it. Whore it up, and you just dont care after a while.

Theres that and the fact that any woman that I did end up caring about has ended up ****ing me over in some way, so after a while I stopped caring altogether.

[Durk]

Another weird thing to add is if a girl knows you know about the other guys she is seeing and you really dont care, sometimes she will stop seeing the other guy, and start trying to win you over. The opposite is true about a guy who finds out and tries to make her have him as her one and only.

Chicks are funny sometimes.

[daande]

Theres that and the fact that any woman that I did end up caring about has ended up ****ing me over in some way, so after a while I stopped caring altogether.

Agree.

[LIVEHARD]

I have a gf, for a long time. But just curious, for those that are single...
if you are talking to a few girls regularly, and start sleeping with them. How do you stop yourself from getting feelings for them? And if the girls are seeing other guys and ****ing them, how do you not care?

If your real you cant Live with it thats all you can do !!!

[Ritch]

I actually think the same. I don`t know how guys can go around not caring or thinking about what the woman has done or been up to. I find girls are such dirty sluts these days, I have to know them a little before taking it any further. No way would I **** a girl if she`s going around seeing other guys. How you don`t find this gross if beyond me.

But to the guys who say they don`t care... I mean do you really mean it or is it just something you say to yourself so you don`t feel pain?

[t-bone]

i have opposite problem...how do i care for a girl? lol.... i think over time u just desensitize urself to it all. I can bang a chick for 6 months then just walk away. being burned a few times helps forsure

[Ritch]

i have opposite problem...how do i care for a girl? lol.... i think over time u just desensitize urself to it all. I can bang a chick for 6 months then just walk away. being burned a few times helps forsure

And this is where things come full circle. Guy walks out for no reason, causes pain to the woman he was with, then she feels the need to go out and do the same...

[TheFox]

:tu

Good thing, t-bone, we wont be hanging out for more than six months :P

[monkey]

I used to develop some type of feeling for most of the women I've been with ... usually the girsl that i dated before ****ing them, probably because i respected them more than the slut that bangs you within a night..

Was engaged, should have been married this August. STupid bitch made my life to hell and burned me...
Since then, am pretty much unable to feel for any body, even though some of them are real nice.
To me it developso how you approach it mentally. Your either open or you shut yourself down. If you have been burned like me, you shut yourself down without even thinking about it...

[kloan]

If you don't want to get feeling for someone, just punch yourself in the nuts every time you think of them. Pretty soon, you'll hate that person... or yourself.... or your fist.... whatever..... your nuts will hurt.

[cheesesteak]

I usually develop feelings if I've been friends with them for a bit first. Unfortunately, if the sex was no good, I usually lose interest real quick. I don't care nor respect any girl that would sleep with me on the first date, so **** those whores.

[monkey]

Eitherway... I love whores.. who doesnt...

[natenator]

Eitherway... I love whores.. who doesnt...
I don't but then again I grew up. I guess your still young and dumb?