View Full Version : Breaking up with a girl during PCT.....
Just thought I'd mention this is probably the worst idea in the WORLD, and nobody should EVER do this. EVER.
****.
BBbox
06-10-2009, 06:56 PM
what happened dude.
I think its usually shit whether your in PCT or not.
Born2Juice4Ever
06-10-2009, 07:10 PM
what happened dude.
I think its usually shit whether your in PCT or not.
No, not really.
I find that my emotions are altered during PCT---specially if the cycle was a heavy one.
Everything becomes distorted and things aren't as clear as they normally are. I have been there one hundred times in the past.
Jersey bro, what the hell is going on?? take a second and think logically bro>
B2J
gicantor
06-10-2009, 07:31 PM
uh oh.clomid.
well,let's have the rest of it so we can help
Mr Ontario
06-10-2009, 07:32 PM
Ya...don't break up with her, unless there is something else going on that your not telling us? just because you caught me her together does not mean we still all cant be friends :)
ironwill
06-10-2009, 07:42 PM
PCT really sucks bro......be strong, stay busy, things will turn around dude...
Born2Juice4Ever
06-10-2009, 07:52 PM
Talk to us Jersey......what happened>??
share your feelings with the group. its wise to take a step back and a deep breath and really think these things through. pretty sure my wife wanted to leave me during last pct. it was reeeeally bad. some nights at work i felt like crying for no reason. then pct was over and it was all sunshines and smiles......it'll get better.....
gicantor
06-10-2009, 07:54 PM
let it out big guy....gicantors here......
BBbox
06-10-2009, 07:59 PM
Your decision or hers?
Try to step back and asses how you would feel about the situation in your normal state.
Don't make the wrong choice just because your hormones are messed up.... you dont want her to end up being the one that got away.
How far into PCT are you?
Big D
06-10-2009, 08:58 PM
stay strong buddy
HoliTheCat
06-10-2009, 09:08 PM
I haven't been in this spot '100 times' before like B2J has...because I haven't run pct 100 times while dating 100 different girls...
But I have been in similar situations two or maybe three times.
Does your girl know you juice? I always give my current gf at the time the heads up that i'm about to roll into PCT and I probably will want to watch bambi while she drills me in the ass with a strap on...
I found being proactive and explaining pct really helps
The actual breakup has nothing to do with me using sauce, and yes she does know that I use (and hates it).
Since I moved to Uni, actually the same university that she goes to, and became her neighbor (literally,we live right next door one another), things just have gotten sour over the last month or so. We fight about stupid shit way more than we should and I am having a hard time growing up and realizing that I cant do whatever I want all the time when I have a gf.
This doesnt mean Im out and about wanting to cheat on her or anything like that, but when we were long distance it seemed that our relationship was healthier in a way.
The breakup is somewhat mutual but it just feels wrong. Im not fully into PCT yet, Im gonna have to take my first days stuff in a few days, and its gonna be shits creek from then on.
This ****ing sucks dicks.
bro... at least you know its all in your head. remember to look at the big picture, thats what i do works sometimes
wish you all the best man, emotional shit is the worst... esp on PCT, i was in the same situation last fall
to be honest, if this is your 1st breakup, you'll probably end up getting back together a few more times before its official.. maybe take some solace in that?
Should I just stay on sauce for the next couple months so I dont feel like such a piece of shit and want to kill myself in like 3 weeks time?
I just came off a 16 weeker of Test and Var. The var was only for about 10 weeks of the 16.
I feel like just switching compounds and staying on so I dont have to deal with this "on my own" so to speak....
Suggestions?
well im extending my 16 weeker to a 20...gonna have some rough cholesterol values after...
if i was you, i would stay on for like 250-500mg EW
BUT
make sure you start getting over your girl. cut that bitch off. no answering txts or phonecalls.... cause think about it, the house has already started burning...wether it collapses now or in 2 months, its up to you
HoliTheCat
06-10-2009, 10:04 PM
Should I just stay on sauce for the next couple months so I dont feel like such a piece of shit and want to kill myself in like 3 weeks time?
I just came off a 16 weeker of Test and Var. The var was only for about 10 weeks of the 16.
I feel like just switching compounds and staying on so I dont have to deal with this "on my own" so to speak....
Suggestions?
My honest recommendation is to try and get a grasp on your emotions and keep yourself in heck. Understand you're on PCT. You're hormones are going to be all over the place...but that is part of this game. You need to develop a mental maturity to be able to handle it. Just be aware of it. In a magic marker, right on all the mirrors in your house. I am on PCT and my emotions will not control me. Recognize it is your hormones and I hope you will be ok bro.
Weve been together for over 2 years and I felt like we would be together "forever" pretty much since the beginning.
She actually came online here and found the post of me egging on FOX to show some more pics and she FREAKED OUT about it. Super ****ed up situation.
BBbox
06-10-2009, 10:07 PM
I dont think its the best idea to deal with it by using for longer then neccessary. Gotta man up and just deal with the situation. Make sure you dont just get back with her when ur on PCT because ur hormones are a mess. Not fair to either of you.
waderow
06-10-2009, 10:14 PM
Give her some time and talk to her bro.
BBbox
06-10-2009, 10:14 PM
What constitutes as doing "whatever you want".
If she was the right girl you wouldnt mind giving some stuff up for her. Maybe shes just not the one dude.
Mr Ontario
06-10-2009, 10:18 PM
The plot thickens.... and I suppose a little HRT Test e could not hurt or low dose GH? as well :)
Weve been together for over 2 years and I felt like we would be together "forever" pretty much since the beginning.
She actually came online here and found the post of me egging on FOX to show some more pics and she FREAKED OUT about it. Super ****ed up situation.
t-bone
06-10-2009, 10:31 PM
i would extend ur cycle......r u guys kidding me? thinking he is risking his health by going for 20 weeks? omfg read the cycles and shit on this board and tell me a 20 weeker of test and var is sooooo bad. Holi u used to be smart. U could run 500mgs test for a year and show no-sides
BBbox
06-10-2009, 10:35 PM
i would extend ur cycle......r u guys kidding me? thinking he is risking his health by going for 20 weeks? omfg read the cycles and shit on this board and tell me a 20 weeker of test and var is sooooo bad. Holi u used to be smart. U could run 500mgs test for a year and show no-sides
either way hell have to deal with it at some point...
bigtavi8
06-10-2009, 10:49 PM
Jers my last pct was not aggressive enough to say the least and me and the gf (that i have now again) went through a long rough road. Not to get sappy on ya but if you guys are meant to be it will all come back in good time. I hated when ppl told me this but...**** its tru. Time will cure all man.
HoliTheCat
06-10-2009, 11:05 PM
i would extend ur cycle......r u guys kidding me? thinking he is risking his health by going for 20 weeks? omfg read the cycles and shit on this board and tell me a 20 weeker of test and var is sooooo bad. Holi u used to be smart. U could run 500mgs test for a year and show no-sides
lol bro. fair enough. i was just thinkin' the guy is already off and in pct - might as well stick it through, suck it up and get control of his emotions. pct is gonna happen sometime...
but yeah...you're correct...no big deal and no health risks extending his cycle...i shouldn't have used the terms health in my above post. my fault.
ur hot tbone
Weve been together for over 2 years and I felt like we would be together "forever" pretty much since the beginning.
She actually came online here and found the post of me egging on FOX to show some more pics and she FREAKED OUT about it. Super ****ed up situation.
ouch I have never told a girl about juice or any sites I use since there is a small posibility that the things I admit to can be a tad bit offensive.
That being said. I shall hold back my advice for someone more mature to answer because I am very childish, and I dont think it would be best she reads what goes through durks twisted mind.
lol bro. fair enough. i was just thinkin' the guy is already off and in pct - might as well stick it through, suck it up and get control of his emotions. pct is gonna happen sometime...
but yeah...you're correct...no big deal and no health risks extending his cycle...i shouldn't have used the terms health in my above post. my fault.
ur hot tbone
put in your place biatch
thanks for the posts for far guys. i appreciate it.
as for Mr. O, you're a FOKKER!
BBbox
06-10-2009, 11:29 PM
maybe shell get fat. then youll feel better.
BBbox
06-10-2009, 11:31 PM
or take advantage of the fact that your at uni and get alot of hot pussy to get over it.
Ritch
06-10-2009, 11:35 PM
I sure hope you two can patch things up. If you live next to each other it would be terrible for either one of you to see your ex with another person...
If it was me, I'd run a HRT dose for a while. At least until I knew for sure if it was finished or not. I know how much she meant to you Bro, you stated it many times. I hope for the best outcome for you both.
daande
06-10-2009, 11:38 PM
Honestly, bro as you are single now go **** tons of her girls at uni (what one you at? Im at mac) Anyways, get back with her in ur spare time. Especially if you are neighbours tell her its the clomids making you emotional like a bitch.
I know this is gonna sound ****ed up and superficial BUT......it hurts way more because she is SO HOT......is that ****ed?
daande
06-10-2009, 11:40 PM
Give her some time and talk to her bro.
I know this is gonna sound ****ed up and superficial BUT......it hurts way more because she is SO HOT......is that ****ed?
Ive seen hotter...eye is in the beholder. **** prettier girls it will help.
BBbox
06-10-2009, 11:44 PM
I know this is gonna sound ****ed up and superficial BUT......it hurts way more because she is SO HOT......is that ****ed?
shouldnt stay with a chick just cuz you think shes hot. gotta be about the whole package bro.
She is the whole package. Thats my dilemma.
HoliTheCat
06-10-2009, 11:47 PM
put in your place biatch
i know eh?
HoliTheCat
06-10-2009, 11:49 PM
She is the whole package. Thats my dilemma.
Man - just go sleep on it. I love you, and think you're a solid dude. But your obviously worked up right now. So just go, relax, have hot shower and get some sleep man.
natenator
06-10-2009, 11:50 PM
Honestly, bro as you are single now go **** tons of her girls at uni (what one you at? Im at mac) Anyways, get back with her in ur spare time. Especially if you are neighbours tell her its the clomids making you emotional like a bitch.
the classy one dolling out advice... nice *sigh*
LonelyBedouin
06-10-2009, 11:58 PM
I suggest trying to patch things up, first off nothing is weirder then living next door to your ex... I did it and it was not enjoyable, specially since it was a townhouse.
Man you seem to rant and rave about how great she is so only thing you can do is patch it up, I cant see you getting over her with all this talk. So why not sit down try to figure out what changed when you made this long-distance relationship a close distance one. But for the FOX pictures your kinda ****ed on that front lol Just tell her it was me, and Im really fox (DUN DUN DUN)
HoliTheCat
07-10-2009, 12:02 AM
FOX PICTURES???
^^ read my post on page 2 dude
BBbox
07-10-2009, 12:09 AM
I suggest trying to patch things up, first off nothing is weirder then living next door to your ex... I did it and it was not enjoyable, specially since it was a townhouse.
I dont think you should get back together solely because you live near her. If its not working its not working. No use in staying with someone just because theyre close.
LonelyBedouin
07-10-2009, 12:25 AM
I dont think you should get back together solely because you live near her. If its not working its not working. No use in staying with someone just because theyre close.
I never intended it to come out that way, but yea dont do it just cause you live next door. But you just got to find out what changed when you moved next door that has caused these fights?
HoliTheCat
07-10-2009, 12:32 AM
^^ read my post on page 2 dude
who is fox? i need a thread link please and thank you. i did a search for fox and saw nothing.
HoliTheCat
07-10-2009, 12:35 AM
i see no picture of a foxgirl26 anywhere on this forum.
**** this.
BBbox
07-10-2009, 12:37 AM
see last couple pages of hottest gf thread
varking
07-10-2009, 12:56 AM
I have been here before and it sucks seems everytime I go one pct me and the gf fight alot a good freind told me before DO NOT BREAK UP WITH A GIRL WHILE ON PCT.... I live by this rule now just because your head isnt in the right stop try and make it work say you guys hang out or go out for 2 more or soo month and you still feel the same way then ended it whats 2 more month out of 2 years nothing at all
^^ thanks for the advice dude. i appreciate it.
use periods next time though lol.
:P
warlock
07-10-2009, 01:10 AM
Correct me if I am wrong.
You ex gf was snooping around and found some posts from you, one if them was her pic on the net that you posted without her authorization.
The second issue is some comments that you made about someone that have naked pics on the same thread.
If this is the last straw my friend please be glad.
She has a lot to learn about life, yes I'd be pissed if I had my pics posted without my authorization but I'd probably never know as thrust is a big part of my relationship and we just don't mess around in each other properties.
The few times my bf has read anything on the boards I was the one that showed him. Whenever we want to know something about each others life we ask we don't look around when the other isn't around. Having a gf doesn't mean that you trow your privacy on the toilet. Being your girlfriend doesn't give her the right to invade your privacy. You are the one that should be pissed not her as her actions are not just infantile but disrespectful as well.
And the fact that she hates your gear usage tell me that there is something fishy about it.
Yes she probably has some aspects of her personality that are great otherwise you'd not be missing her.
But what is the point on being with someone that doesn't respect you????
varking
07-10-2009, 01:32 AM
^^ thanks for the advice dude. i appreciate it.
use periods next time though lol.
:P
**** I thought you were smarter then that. Did you not take sex ed periods are for girls guys can't get them.... Maybe you should hit up a grade 9 sex ed class then get back with your gf ahahha jk ****er
waderow
07-10-2009, 09:55 AM
bro, you've talked about this girl for a long time, and you have said repeatedly how much you love her and how lucky you are.
I think you two hit a rut, and didn't realized it takes work to get out.
You two have been together for 2 years, so it can't have been all bad. These last two months that were shaky is washing out all the good times, and you need to deal with that. Remember the good times. TALK to her about feelings, and you will have to be less selfish if you want it to work. Sounded like she may have been upset with you about you doing your own thing all the time?
So if both parties want it to work, and are willing to communicate...it will work. If there is no willingness, and no mature discussion pertaining to the relationship, it will fail.
So you have to make a move bro.
If not, for the love of God and all things that are holy... email me nudes and send me a pair of her panties.
waderow@safe-mail.net
BBbox
07-10-2009, 10:07 AM
I have been here before and it sucks seems everytime I go one pct me and the gf fight alot a good freind told me before DO NOT BREAK UP WITH A GIRL WHILE ON PCT.... I live by this rule now just because your head isnt in the right stop try and make it work say you guys hang out or go out for 2 more or soo month and you still feel the same way then ended it whats 2 more month out of 2 years nothing at all
Hes not actually into PCT yet though. He shouldnt keep her around just because he doesnt want to deal with the emotions while on PCT... not really fair to her to just use her like that.
BBbox
07-10-2009, 10:13 AM
As for warlocks comments... is she snooping for a reason... is there something that makes her feel like she cant trust you or is she just a crazy? Sometime when theres trust issues, you have to give up a little bit of your privacy in order to gain the trust back.
I know my gf has been curious about sites I was on before and I've told her if she wanted to take a look she could.... did you ever say that it was cool for her to check it out?
Waderows comments about selfishness... deffinetly accurate. If you REALLY wanted it to work you wouldnt want to be selfish and you would make an effort not to just "do whatever you want" regardless of how she feels. If you havent been willing to do that after two years... well you probably just dont think shes worth it.
Also... for everyone thats saying try to work it out.... does SHE even want to? How does she feel about the whole situation?
Shortdave
07-10-2009, 10:18 AM
I'd probably never know as thrust is a big part of my relationship
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Awesome.
On topic:
I have nothing pertinent to add.
BBbox
07-10-2009, 10:21 AM
Will she be the one that got away?
Dont live your life with any regrets.
I hope you didnt cry while you did it. I get emotional during pct sometimes thus the reason I stick to 25-50mg of clomid max.
Warlock, thanks for the advice.
As for what you mentioned earlier, she was never upset about the pics I posted of her, I asked her if I could do it to make the thread and she didnt mind. (she likes being shown off)
As for me breaking her trust, yes I have unfortunately on a few occasions. To me it was harmless flirting with girls I knew, but she saw it as a threat and we had HUGE fights about it. To this day she doesnt trust me over stuff that happened almost a year and a half ago.
She would definitely be the one that got away, and anyone else I find would only be the person I am with because she and I broke up.
As for us reconciling, she does still love me and we could get back together most likely, but I really dont know if that is the right move for either of us. I just want her to be happy and for the last few months I dont feel like I have been able to make her that way. It has been going on longer than a few months though, this has been brewing for a while and we have tried working on it, but it just doesnt seem to work.
I am ALL over the place in my head and I am finding it really hard to focus on school and even training dealing with all this. I wish I wasnt such a drama queen.
P.S. Wade you will never get any nude pics of her. Sorry dude.
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