View Full Version : Girlfriend saying im fat now.
EDIT: I decided not to care about her opinion and I keep bulking.
tiramisu
24-09-2009, 01:47 AM
Mine (wife that is) tells me I'm too big and I'm not attractive anymore and I should stop aas.
The next day she tells me I look great and I should stop aas.
I'm sensing a pattern.
Mine (wife that is) tells me I'm too big and I'm not attractive anymore and I should stop aas.
The next day she tells me I look great and I should stop aas.
I'm sensing a pattern.
my gf used to say that I look great but im not muscular enough, now she say I used to be sexy but that im too fat.. Im ****ing fat because Im getting more muscular.. So i figured if she is not happy after my cut, I will find a better gf.
cheesesteak
24-09-2009, 02:22 AM
Women want you in contest shape all year round
Brandi
24-09-2009, 05:34 AM
you dont have to get fat to be muscular wtf
JifeLacket
24-09-2009, 08:04 AM
Unacceptable, keep your girl in order! Get big FTW!
ubcpower
24-09-2009, 08:46 AM
you dont have to get fat to be muscular wtf
agreed bulking shouldnt be an excuse or justification for getting fat
cheesesteak
24-09-2009, 08:50 AM
How fat did you get exactly?
rated_rko
24-09-2009, 09:12 AM
what justifys fat for a chick....
when i got "big" ppl said i was getting fat...because my face was bloated...little did they know it was just the dbol lol..
natenator
24-09-2009, 10:13 AM
you dont have to get fat to be muscular wtf
and who cares if he is as long as HE is happy with himself who cares what some broad says.
I am sick of seeing guys change themselves for what some ****ing chick thinks. Plenty more in the sea that will like the additional growth.
I'd frankly dump her ass before you start to cut. She doesn't deserve the benefit of your hard work
cheesesteak
24-09-2009, 10:16 AM
and who cares if he is as long as HE is happy with himself who cares what some broad says.
I am sick of seeing guys change themselves for what some ****ing chick thinks. Plenty more in the sea that will like the additional growth.
I'd frankly dump her ass before you start to cut. She doesn't deserve the benefit of your hard work
I agree with this guy. Doesn't she know that you are passionate about bodybuilding. Seems she's insecure with herself to be seen with you "fat".
Seems she's insecure with herself to be seen with you "fat".
Heh, heh. I won't say it. It's too obvious.
steve_d
24-09-2009, 10:29 AM
Its often the reverse - at least for me...(when you have a wife/gf with the same fitness mentality). If I get really cut, she might feel guilty about herself not being at that same level - plus if I am really cut, I might only be 30 pounds bigger than her. So she likes it when I get a bit fatter.
Although, "fat" is a relative term, I think if I got really fat, it might be a different story. But at the same time, don't get too fat. I always say, eat until you feel you have good workouts. Personally if I get too fat, I feel like garbage. 15% is a max.
LIVEHARD
24-09-2009, 11:09 AM
you dont have to get fat to be muscular wtf
Or Tell her she fatter and she smells LOL
How fat did you get exactly?
Im about 14% bf my abs dont show as much anymore at night if I dont flex.
But you can still see them clearly in the morning.
http://i108.photobucket.com/albums/n28/Oxycodon/foto1.jpg
im this fat.
natenator
24-09-2009, 11:49 AM
I'd dump her ass today
I'd dump her ass today
Its kinda hard because we live together, but maybe at the end of my lease in 6 weeks, she been eating my chicken anyway. When I met her, I had a low self esteem.. 2 years ago.. And I feel a lot better about myself now.. and she does not attract me as much anymore..
natenator
24-09-2009, 12:02 PM
Its kinda hard because we live together, but maybe at the end of my lease in 6 weeks, she been eating my chicken anyway. When I met her, I had a low self esteem.. 2 years ago.. And I feel a lot better about myself now.. and she does not attract me as much anymore..
I'd do it. I'd sit her down tonight and say at the end of my lease (in 6 weeks) I'm moving out and we're done as of right now. Tell her you need to be with someone who is going to support you and your lifestyle even though they may not agree with it.
This is a lifestyle and there are plenty out there who follow a similar one. A strong support ssystem in friends and those you surround yourself with is important. She is not that person.
GYMBRAT
24-09-2009, 12:16 PM
and who cares if he is as long as HE is happy with himself who cares what some broad says.
I am sick of seeing guys change themselves for what some ****ing chick thinks. Plenty more in the sea that will like the additional growth.
I'd frankly dump her ass before you start to cut. She doesn't deserve the benefit of your hard work
EXACTLY! who the f**k is anyone to judge anyone other than a "judge" I guess duh lol.....that sounded stupid sorry :-P
marino
24-09-2009, 12:22 PM
This is a lifestyle and there are plenty out there who follow a similar one. A strong support ssystem in friends and those you surround yourself with is important. She is not that person.
Agreed 100% I am lucky my wife is fully supportive. You need that support 24/7 especially from your significant other.
Dryvrgrl
24-09-2009, 12:44 PM
insecure! but it hits the best of us!!... when leigh was prepping for nationals.. i felt super fat! now she is 5 weeks post comp and i'm leaner and she feels fat! lol
if she is a good gf otherwise, dumping her ass today might be a little rash...but explain to het your diet pattern and how the "fat" now will be "fit" later... if she just doesnt support bb... dump her ass!
Ritch
24-09-2009, 01:02 PM
You into women Dryvrgrl? Didn`t know that.
Ritch
24-09-2009, 01:03 PM
just saw your pic. You`re not fat, not even close to it. I can still see a V shape.
manfreakca
24-09-2009, 01:14 PM
lol either ur fat one day lookin good the next or i got a big dik then so called dik the next i hear it all the time
theboss
24-09-2009, 01:16 PM
the bigger i get the smaller my wife feels....perfect relationship!
dump that chick memo...and show us her nudes.
the bigger i get the smaller my wife feels....perfect relationship!
dump that chick memo...and show us her nudes.
Im gonna get her drunk this weed end, and maybe if i can pull it off, you guys will see some nude.. I will do my best.
I talked to her about a pic of her boob with CBB, and last time we had a fight she ask me if I still wanted a pic for reconciliation. so It might be easy to get some material.
Dude, I looked at your pic and man you're fat. I mean, really, really fat! In fact, you're so fat, the only thing attracted to you is gravity! ;)
Dude, I looked at your pic and man you're fat. I mean, really, really fat! In fact, you're so fat, the only thing attracted to you is gravity! ;)
I should tell her that I felt bad for her, so I decided to get as fat as her so her self-esteem stay good.
daande
24-09-2009, 02:53 PM
Next time you face **** her ask her "How does my dick taste?" and if she doesnt say delicious kick her ass to the curb.
marino
24-09-2009, 02:54 PM
Is your woman heavy or not? Is she doing this just to bring you down because you are looking better with more gym time? If she justs wants to drag you down with her negativity then let her go. I get the feeling there is more to this than you are telling us. I don't mean to pry but its just that I have been in bad relationships where your self esteem is attacked and its only when you get away from them that you feel so much better about yourself.
LiquescentFrost
24-09-2009, 05:49 PM
BTW. Nice Tattoo - Enso?
BTW. Nice Tattoo - Enso?
enso yes.. thank you
_Ragnar_
25-09-2009, 12:38 AM
Im about 14% bf my abs dont show as much anymore at night if I dont flex.
But you can still see them clearly in the morning.
http://i108.photobucket.com/albums/n28/Oxycodon/foto1.jpg
im this fat.
I wish I was this fat! What a problem you have here! :laugh
Big D
25-09-2009, 01:15 AM
hahah I thought you were gonna be fat, thats not fat.
hahah I thought you were gonna be fat, thats not fat.
I know she is not very nice to me..
holy crap fatty.....why dont you go wash away your sorrows by eating the entire menu at mcdicks..... ;)
holy crap fatty.....why dont you go wash away your sorrows by eating the entire menu at mcdicks..... ;)
I should eat shom shills
gsxr750
25-09-2009, 02:24 AM
Not fat at all. She's just jealous and trying to keep you miserable so you wont realize she's just life support for a vagina and move on to better things.
1) Make fun of her vagina shape, or her hair style ('wow you have alot of split ends!!')..
2) Wack off 2 times, take a viagra, have sex with her, don't cum, tell her you're trying realllly hard to think of someone sexy but it's just not happening. It used to work, but you can't get over the weird looking vagina anymore
3) Sleep with her friends
I should eat shom shills shills will cause you headaches....i do not recommend adding shills to your diet.... :)
_Ragnar_
25-09-2009, 09:29 AM
^shills give me REALLY bad gas. :D
Powered by vBulletin® Version 4.2.1 Copyright © 2026 vBulletin Solutions, Inc. All rights reserved.