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gicantor
09-09-2009, 10:14 PM
Fair game or off limits?

So my best friend of 7 years has this smokin hot sister, and I can't get her out of my head. I haven't made a move or anything cause I don't know how it's going to play out. Is it worth possibly throwing away a friendship? Help me out guys.

bigtavi8
09-09-2009, 10:18 PM
If your dating her and treating her good and actually taking the time to treat her like a lady then by all means After you ask your bro its fair game. But if your a slut like a lot of us it may offend him and be utterly off limits.

LIVEHARD
09-09-2009, 10:20 PM
If your dating her and treating her good and actually taking the time to treat her like a lady then by all means After you ask your bro its fair game. But if your a slut like a lot of us it may offend him and be utterly off limits.

X2 I can hardly wait to post in detail on this one

gicantor
09-09-2009, 10:21 PM
If your dating her and treating her good and actually taking the time to treat her like a lady then by all means After you ask your bro its fair game. But if your a slut like a lot of us it may offend him and be utterly off limits.

No I would treat her good. She's too good for that.

bigtavi8
09-09-2009, 10:24 PM
i figured that much..but then def it would be ok. Didnt mean to offend but you know some guys on here (wade, live, jersey) and they would defintly offend your buddy. LOL JK guys your slutty style makes for some awesome stories that make me crack up every day.

gicantor
09-09-2009, 10:29 PM
i figured that much..but then def it would be ok. Didnt mean to offend but you know some guys on here (wade, live, jersey) and they would defintly offend your buddy. LOL JK guys your slutty style makes for some awesome stories that make me crack up every day.

No offence taken. So this what these so called "feelings" are. Dammit what a shitty situation.

Felinecougar
09-09-2009, 10:45 PM
A friends sister in time will make him stuck in the middle. Every little upset that you have she is going to bring it back to him instead of with you. In the end he may end up hating you. I say don't do it.

A friend of mine has an older brother. At a party this weekend he was drunk..begging me to stay the night with him. I said something back to him like "I'm not a pedophile". She heard our conversation and laughed.

ubcpower
09-09-2009, 10:51 PM
stay away. i hooked up with my highschool best friends sister and we have never been the same since he found out...i had her over for a hot tub behind his back while he was away on vacation, didnt even have sex with her....but i wish i hadnt have done it

If its done completely maturely and respectively where you ask him over dinner or something what he thinks , it may be different thuogh. Have you ever mentioned or asked about her to him?

gicantor
09-09-2009, 10:57 PM
Have you ever mentioned or asked about her to him?

No I don't even want to bring it up cause I don't know how he's going to respond. I have a pretty good idea he'd be pissed. But it's not like I'd be disrespectful toward her. Ah **** I don't know. I know this is like the ultimate betrayal between friends.

St
09-09-2009, 11:19 PM
Not worth to lose a friend.Girlfriend or boyfriend will come and go,but a real friendship is hard to come by,best to stay away.If you have a sister would you like your best friend dating your sister and then having sex with her.

Ritch
09-09-2009, 11:24 PM
^^^ Well said!

champcar99
09-09-2009, 11:29 PM
Ask him first see if he's cool with it..If he thinks you are of good character and high morals ..He might say yes...Better than doing it behind his back..

kloan
10-09-2009, 12:21 AM
Make sure you know there's more to this than just an infatuation before pursuing it. I say have a talk with your friend. If you guys have a solid relationship and he trusts you enough to be with his sister, that'll say a lot for the kind of friendship you guys have. That's a good thing to know.

Besides, you don't even know if she feels the same way about you yet... ;)

There is a good chance it could change the friendship... personally, I wouldn't do it unless I was absolutely POSITIVE this girl was 'the one'.

LIVEHARD
10-09-2009, 12:24 AM
Ask him first see if he's cool with it..If he thinks you are of good character and high morals ..He might say yes...Better than doing it behind his back..

X2 But if is doesn't work ?? if she gets pissed or you get hurt it will F'k your friendship Unless your thinking a ring down the road.

?? What if she is a dirty pig in the bed :yeah What we all love be strange talking to your boy and telling how his sister takes you rod ??

Big choices bro

PdH
10-09-2009, 10:29 AM
If you do this, you will become the main point of conversation between your friend and his sister. Whatever he knows of your past, he will definitely discuss with her. She will discuss your thoughts and actions with him. You''ll have to walk on broken glass the entire time, intently guarding what you say and how you act. Can you see that ending well?

Blood is thicker than friendship.

LIVEHARD
10-09-2009, 10:32 AM
If you do this, you will become the main point of conversation between your friend and his sister. Whatever he knows of your past, he will definitely discuss with her. She will discuss your thoughts and actions with him. You''ll have to walk on broken glass the entire time, intently guarding what you say and how you act. Can you see that ending well?

Blood is thicker than friendship.

X2 Ask her maybe she just wasnt to F'k if thats ok with your bro ???

Then jump on it and go !! If your not thinking marrage longterm i would move on and stay friends. Or as stated above all sitster F'k if he has no issue with your cock in his little sis whell then !!!!!!!!

Mr Ontario
10-09-2009, 11:42 AM
Agreed ed :)


A friends sister in time will make him stuck in the middle. Every little upset that you have she is going to bring it back to him instead of with you. In the end he may end up hating you. I say don't do it.

A friend of mine has an older brother. At a party this weekend he was drunk..begging me to stay the night with him. I said something back to him like "I'm not a pedophile". She heard our conversation and laughed.

waderow
10-09-2009, 12:38 PM
Is it worth possibly throwing away a friendship?

Never. Not with a friend. If this guy is a **** wad who means nothing to you, go for it. If he is a buddy, its not worth throwing away.

That being said, if you are a guy that he would want his sister to date, and thinks highly of you, then talk to him about it. If you are a pig and **** black hookers on the weekend and go through women on an ongoing basis, and dont have your shit together, you probably should just masterbate thinking of her.

LonelyBedouin
10-09-2009, 02:22 PM
Dont do it.... You've known the guy for 7 years, it be pretty hard to replace a friend that you can rely on.

AlladdinSane
10-09-2009, 02:46 PM
I'd be pumped if ShortDave (my best friend) wanted to date my sister (if i had one).

There should be a reason you are his best friend: qualities he sees that you have that others don't have. These qualities can be aimed at others in life that you care about, no? He will realize that, he being your best friend and all...

canadianmuscle0803
10-09-2009, 02:50 PM
off limits 100%

LIVEHARD
10-09-2009, 02:55 PM
Never. Not with a friend. If this guy is a **** wad who means nothing to you, go for it. If he is a buddy, its not worth throwing away.

That being said, if you are a guy that he would want his sister to date, and thinks highly of you, then talk to him about it. If you are a pig and **** black hookers on the weekend and go through women on an ongoing basis, and dont have your shit together, you probably should just masterbate thinking of her.

Ding ^^^^:shock

Redz
10-09-2009, 03:18 PM
Depends how hot she is, if she is smoking then you owe it to yourself to bang her. A good friend will understand and look past something like this. You never know where it could lead, I dont think any women are off limits to dating with the exception of friends gfs or wives.

LIVEHARD
10-09-2009, 04:10 PM
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What if she looked like this

GYMBRAT
10-09-2009, 04:14 PM
[QUOTE=Felinecougar;259225]A friends sister in time will make him stuck in the middle. Every little upset that you have she is going to bring it back to him instead of with you. In the end he may end up hating you. I say don't do it.

I agree, not a good scenario in any case, best left alone, or for just one night lmao j/k

pseclint
10-09-2009, 06:04 PM
its kinda like banging him as well considering they are genetically linked.... bang him first then bang her......


dont mean to ruin a good post but I think all the boys got this under control

GYMBRAT
10-09-2009, 06:13 PM
bro's before ho's bruh ;)

gicantor
10-09-2009, 07:16 PM
its kinda like banging him as well considering they are genetically linked.... bang him first then bang her......


That's just ****ed. Even for CBB that's ****ed.

gicantor
10-09-2009, 07:17 PM
Alright so that's a giant NO. That's what I figured. Just throwin it out there

gicantor
10-09-2009, 07:28 PM
Not worth to lose a friend.Girlfriend or boyfriend will come and go,but a real friendship is hard to come by,best to stay away.If you have a sister would you like your best friend dating your sister and then having sex with her.

Yes, in fact I would supply the booze myself.:D

If he was a stand up guy I wouldn't give a shit. I became really good friends with my sister's ex after they broke up. I just don't want to hear about any stories

kloan
10-09-2009, 10:19 PM
True dat man.. you draw the line its ok after that... I used to party with my sister's ex bf.. was a cool guy but man that relationship was disastrous.. dude had an anger issue.

dremen
29-09-2009, 11:22 PM
Fair game or off limits?

So my best friend of 7 years has this smokin hot sister, and I can't get her out of my head. I haven't made a move or anything cause I don't know how it's going to play out. Is it worth possibly throwing away a friendship? Help me out guys.

Ummm your a dude you have the right....no the OBLIGATION to the rest of us to bang her six ways from sunday:sex

#8
29-09-2009, 11:26 PM
its guy code: if you want to hookup with your friends sister, you have to marry her.

end of debate.

_Ragnar_
29-09-2009, 11:27 PM
^ x2

As a guy with two little sisters, my sister only has one ex that I wouldn't like to put in the ground. Just sayin

gicantor
03-10-2009, 02:32 PM
its guy code: if you want to hookup with your friends sister, you have to marry her.

end of debate.

True but I have to date her first to get to that point. Not that I'm looking to put a ring on anyone's finger yet. But you never know where life wil take you.

Redz
03-10-2009, 02:48 PM
Then go for it, you only live once. You dont want to look back and say I wish I had dated that girl. Just treat her well and it will all work out.

tiramisu
03-10-2009, 03:18 PM
As long as you marry her I think it's perfectly all right to bang her like a nail.

LonelyBedouin
03-10-2009, 05:07 PM
You can pass her on to me lol :sex