View Full Version : For the guys "the Lets just be friends" REPLY..
simone
03-09-2009, 11:39 AM
To be blunt.. if your dating a chick and she pulls the "i like you but lets just be friends"
you ****ed up.. lol..
you didn't build enough attraction.. you probably were too much of a wussy man... answering all of her calls and texts.... too "needy"... chicks can SENSE this big time..
but here's a reply (its not mine, but i had to use this once and was smashing the chick later the same night)
"I don't make any such promise. Friends don't put each other in boxes like that. The only thing I'll promise is never to do anything unless you and I both feel totally comfortable, willing and ready." -Ross Jeffries.
you instnatly step out of that needy/wussy "frame" and come off a bit more confident.. then just need ot take it from there.. alot of push/pull.. no longer answer all of her calls... have other cool plans.. don't text her back immediately...
and once sleeping with her in non excluisve relationship.. let her think she's plan B.. but make damn sure she's really plan F :)
GYMBRAT
03-09-2009, 11:45 AM
never ever had that issue myself...
C-money
03-09-2009, 12:02 PM
Lets just be friends = you ****ed up somewhere lol
meathead
03-09-2009, 02:00 PM
Lets just be friends = you ****ed up somewhere lol
Yep... IMO it means its over. Move on bro.
GYMBRAT
03-09-2009, 02:27 PM
^^^ I may have to put together a book for you dudes ;)
meathead
03-09-2009, 03:17 PM
^^^ I may have to put together a book for you dudes ;)
You could call it "Gymbrats girl trap" LOL ;)
champcar99
03-09-2009, 03:39 PM
"i like you but lets just be friends" = stop spending your cash on her...lmao
Ritch
03-09-2009, 03:43 PM
but here's a reply (its not mine, but i had to use this once and was smashing the chick later the same night)
"I don't make any such promise. Friends don't put each other in boxes like that. The only thing I'll promise is never to do anything unless you and I both feel totally comfortable, willing and ready." -Ross Jeffries.
)
Although I hope I never have to use that phrase, it`s a good one and hope I remember it if ever need be. green sent your way my friend.
GYMBRAT
03-09-2009, 04:00 PM
You could call it "Gymbrats girl trap" LOL ;)
Hmmm :a+ LOL
pseclint
03-09-2009, 08:08 PM
lets just be friends=your not my type
gsxr750
03-09-2009, 08:10 PM
Have you considered raping her?
simone
03-09-2009, 08:20 PM
LOL... i already did her.. and this was about 2 years ago now...
i just saw alot of "girl left me" and "just be friends wiht a chick" type threads so i thought this was appropriate...
i've NEVER heard that again.... i really just kinda didn't give a shit at first and actually was just trying to build up a few chicks as semi friends, **** friends for getting to know more chicks...
and yeah of course its the "she's not attracted to you to **** you".....
BUT
you can flip it if you got your game down....
gsxr750
03-09-2009, 09:33 PM
Lol, it's a line from another thread made me laugh.
Don't rape her
waderow
03-09-2009, 10:18 PM
haahhahahha he was actually thinking about raping her
kloan
04-09-2009, 12:04 AM
Lol, it's a line from another thread made me laugh.
Don't rape her
lmao....
meathelmet
07-09-2009, 02:27 PM
lets just be friends=no commitment=A-OK!!!:beer
daande
14-09-2009, 02:21 AM
To be blunt.. if your dating a chick and she pulls the "i like you but lets just be friends"
you ****ed up.. lol..
you didn't build enough attraction.. you probably were too much of a wussy man... answering all of her calls and texts.... too "needy"... chicks can SENSE this big time..
This is true 100% every girl is ****ed up mentally...If you ignore them they want you more, but also get pissed. If you answer them right away they dont get pissed but they want you less!
MikeyFXD35
15-09-2009, 12:02 AM
If she lays the"lets be friends" line fire back with "ya, that's good so you don't mind if a call XXXXX" insert one of her friends names. That will get her g string in a knot...LOL
gustavo77
15-09-2009, 12:23 AM
If she lays the"lets be friends" line fire back with "ya, that's good so you don't mind if a call XXXXX" insert one of her friends names. That will get her g string in a knot...LOL
Nice....lol. You're guaranteed at least one more lay with that one.
cheesesteak
15-09-2009, 12:59 PM
I've never gotten that. I have gotten the "i bet you have a girlfriend somewhere" line qutie a bit. I don't bring women over to my place who I'm not gonna be serious with. I don't give them my land line #. I don't introduce them to my close circle of friends.
I never get it either. I sometimes have to call often and try harder than usual to show that I like someone because I have been told I give off a "player vibe" that wait 2 days before calling and other stuff doesnt usually work for me.
cheesesteak
15-09-2009, 01:56 PM
The player vibe actually works though. Girls play even more games than guys. If I get a number on friday I'll call them monday and set something up for the weekend.
The player vibe actually works though. Girls play even more games than guys. If I get a number on friday I'll call them monday and set something up for the weekend.
Maybe its my approach. I walk up right away look them in the eyes and tell them how sexy they are while being funny. My favorite is walking up to a girl and telling her that she is my future ex whife. I act like I am really into them, so I guess I have to keep acting like I am really into them to make it work. None of that Mystery Method stuff that most of these nerds on the internet use has ever worked for me. Hitting on girls like a construction worker is the only thing that has ever gotten me laid lol
cheesesteak
15-09-2009, 02:13 PM
I see. You use pick up lines. Get a quick laugh and go from there.
My approach is more being a gentleman/asshole. I introduce myself, ask how her night is going, then say something about this isn't the place to be and if she wants to have a really good time to give me her # and we'll take it from there. Then I make a quick exit away. If she's someone I'm really interested in I'll be sure to bump into her later (saying it's a club or party) where it's closer to the end of the night.
micronian
28-11-2009, 11:00 AM
when chicks do this...just tell them "no its okay, i have enough friends im not looking for more, adios" and just peace the scene, shows you got more value and now you flipped the table, she's chasing now instead of you chasing her.
There are only 3 scenarios where men and women can be true friends. (meaning if the girl made sexual advances on the male, he would refuse)
1. The guy is gay
2. The guy finds her physically repulsive
3. The guy has something much better at home
Other than that, its a one sided friendship controlled by the female.
natenator
28-11-2009, 03:10 PM
There are only 3 scenarios where men and women can be true friends. (meaning if the girl made sexual advances on the male, he would refuse)
1. The guy is gay
2. The guy finds her physically repulsive
3. The guy has something much better at home
Other than that, its a one sided friendship controlled by the female.
Agreed.
CanadianIron
28-11-2009, 06:05 PM
Im pretty sure "Lets just be friends." means... "I think you're ugly."
Danger
28-11-2009, 06:48 PM
Haha, I havent heard that shit since highschool. I have said it to a few girls... strange that we usally end up sleeping together soon after lol.
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