Body Piercings

[Felinecougar]

My 16 yr old had not gone to stay at her dad yet at his new place..The past few days she asks if she can to stay with him in his dt condo.

She comes home with piercings. He took her there and paid for them for her 16 birthday gift. Never consulting me..he is acting like another 16 yr old..another issue.

Thank goodness they are not on her face...but im still shocked .

They are posts screwed into her pecs. 2 posts with studs on them.

I don't mind the placings..better there then her lips or cheeks or eye brows.

My only concern is they are a place for infection so close to her heart. Am I being lame or is this really a concern?

[Born2Juice4Ever]

Huney it is unfortunate!!


I often see a broken up couple USE their children as weapons to get back at one another (piss each other off), and what both may sometimes fail to see is that, it is the children that suffer in the end.

Chest piercings from what I know do tend to get infected. I think there is a solution one can get and use it often.
I also know of some people that got infected one too many times, where the piercing had to be removed.

The heart has nothing to do with the immediate infection sweety, I think in that respect you will be fine...but I know your heart aches over this situation :(


B2J

[LIVEHARD]

My 16 yr old had not gone to stay at her dad yet at his new place..The past few days she asks if she can to stay with him in his dt condo.

She comes home with piercings. He took her there and paid for them for her 16 birthday gift. Never consulting me..he is acting like another 16 yr old..another issue.

Thank goodness they are not on her face...but im still shocked .

They are posts screwed into her pecs. 2 posts with studs on them.

I don't mind the placings..better there then her lips or cheeks or eye brows.

My only concern is they are a place for infection so close to her heart. Am I being lame or is this really a concern?



your a mommy you have a right to be worried. Dont judge love her for her.

Ever think she may be acting out ?? Ever think you and hubby's shit may have affected her ?

Your being lame sorry beauty but you are !! i have a step daughter used to come home with F'ked up hair a tat piercings you name it. spend some quality time with her and tell her how they look and be 100% honest.

Remember after this phase comes the sex sex and more sex phase 16 is only the beginning

[meathead]

I can feel your pain FC.
My when my son was 17 he got a tattoo. Nothing major but I still wish he didn't do it.

I feel partly responsible since I have both arms almost fully sleeved.
I know the way people respond to my tattoos, they respond with fear.
Its true people fear what they don't understand.

I can walk down the street and people will just stare and pre-judge me. They never say anything to me since there intimidated but fear is written all over there faces.

I have a good job in a unionized environment with lots of seniority so I can "look" anyway I want to.

The one thing younger people need to realize is people WILL discriminate against them because of the appearance.

I think it was bullshit her father didn't talk to you first. He gets to play the "cool parent" leaving you to be the bitch.

I raised my son for the last 7 years as a single father and his mother seeing him on weekends. She tried the same kind of shit letting him drink, stay out real late etc... I was always the bad guy because I was raising him to be a responsible man.

As for your daughter at least its where she can conceal it. As long as she keeps up with the proper hygiene it wont get infected. Go easy on her, as you probably know communication is the key with teens.

Just don't forget to give her lots of love. She will understand you want the best for her even if not right now she will when she gets older.

best of luck FC :)